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Alexandra Dawn Wong (born April 19, 1982) is an American comedian and actress. Her accolades include two Primetime Emmy Awards, three Golden Globe Awards, and a Screen Actors Guild Award. She was named one of Time's 100 most influential people in 2020 and 2023.[1][2]

Key Information

She is best known for her Netflix stand-up specials Baby Cobra (2016), Hard Knock Wife (2018), Don Wong (2022), and Single Lady (2024). The last of these won her a Golden Globe Award. She won another Golden Globe and two Primetime Emmy Awards for her starring role in the Netflix dark comedy series Beef (2023), becoming the first Asian background woman to win a lead acting Emmy in a Limited Series or Movie.

Wong was a cast member on the ABC show American Housewife (2016–2021) and served as a writer for two episodes of the sitcom Fresh Off the Boat in 2015. She has voiced characters on the animated series Tuca & Bertie (2019–2022) and Big Mouth (2019–2023). She has also written and starred in the romantic comedy film Always Be My Maybe (2019).

Early life

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Alexandra Dawn Wong was born in the neighborhood of Pacific Heights,[3][4] San Francisco, on April 19, 1982.[5] She is the youngest of four children in her family.[6] Her Vietnamese mother, Tam "Tammy" Wong, moved from Huế, South Vietnam (now Vietnam) in 1960 to work as a social worker in the U.S.[7][8] Her Chinese-American father, Adolphus Wong (1937–2011), was born in San Francisco and worked as an anesthesiologist for Kaiser Permanente for 30 years.[9]

In 2000, Wong graduated from San Francisco University High School in San Francisco [10][11] where she was student body class president.[12] She went to UCLA, majoring in Asian American studies. During her junior year, she studied in Hanoi, Vietnam.[13][14][15] After college, she continued her education in Vietnam through a Fulbright program.[16][17]

Career

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Wong in a promo for Sad People Talking, June 2012

After graduating from college, Wong first tried stand-up comedy when she was 23. She soon moved to New York City to pursue comedy and began performing as often as nine times in one night.[18]

In 2011, Variety named her one of the "10 Comics to Watch".[19] Soon after, she appeared on The Tonight Show, John Oliver's New York Stand Up Show and Dave Attell's Comedy Underground Show. She was also cast as series regular in the NBC comedy series Are You There, Chelsea? and appeared on Chelsea Lately.[20] Next, she was in VH1's Best Week Ever,[21] and MTV's Hey Girl in 2013.[22] Additionally, she starred in Oliver Stone's Savages,[19] and as Kate in the film Dealin' with Idiots.[23]

In 2014, Wong played Dr. Lina Lark in the ABC medical drama series Black Box, opposite Kelly Reilly and Vanessa Redgrave.[24][25] She guest-starred in three episodes of Inside Amy Schumer. Wong worked as a writer on Fresh Off the Boat, which premiered in 2015.[26][27] Randall Park, who was a main cast member, had suggested Wong for the writing role.[14] On Mother's Day 2016,[28] Netflix released a stand-up special called Baby Cobra; the special was filmed at the Neptune Theater in Seattle in September 2015, when Wong was seven months pregnant with her first child.[29][18][30][31] According to New York Magazine, "The special's arrival on Netflix is the sort of star-making moment that unites the tastes of the unlikeliest fans".[32]

On September 11, 2016, Wong spoke at, and walked the runway during New York Fashion Week for Opening Ceremony's show.[33] Also in 2016, Wong starred in the ABC sitcom American Housewife until its cancellation in 2021.[34][35] In 2018, Wong's second Netflix special, Hard Knock Wife, was released. It was filmed in 2017 at the Winter Garden Theatre in Toronto when she was seven months pregnant with her second child.[36][37] In the same year, she voiced the character Citrus Twisty, a soda genie, in an episode of OK K.O.! Let's Be Heroes.[38]

Wong starred with Randall Park in the 2019 Netflix film Always Be My Maybe, a film directed by Nahnatchka Khan, and written by Wong, Park, and Michael Golamco.[39] From 2019 to 2022, Wong voiced Bertie in the Netflix/Adult Swim animated sitcom Tuca & Bertie.[40][41] On October 15, 2019, Wong published a book entitled Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets and Advice for Living Your Best Life.[42][43] She described it as a life guide for her daughters to read when they become adults.[44] The book won the 2019 Goodreads Choice Award for Humor.[45] In February 2022, Wong released her third Netflix stand-up special, Don Wong.[46]

Wong co-starred with Steven Yeun in the 2023 Netflix drama-comedy series Beef,[47] and was credited as an executive producer alongside Yeun. For her performance in Beef, Wong received a Golden Globe Award for Best Actress – Miniseries or Television Film. She was the first actress of Asian descent to win a Golden Globe in the category.[a] Wong won a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie making her the first actress of Asian descent to win a lead acting Emmy Award in this category.[b]

In October 2024, Wong was featured on the YouTube talk show Hot Ones.[60]

Personal life

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Wong met entrepreneur Justin Hakuta, the son of inventor Ken Hakuta, at the wedding of mutual friends in 2010.[61] At the time, Hakuta was a Fulbright Scholar and a student at Harvard Business School.[62] They married in 2014 and have two daughters.[63][64] In April 2022, Wong and Hakuta announced they had separated.[65][66] Wong has said that they remain "best friends".[62][67] In December 2023, Wong filed for divorce citing "irreconcilable differences",[68] and the divorce was finalized in May 2024.[69]

Wong briefly dated actor Bill Hader in late 2022.[70] In April 2023, they reportedly resumed their relationship. They were seen together at the 75th Emmy Awards on January 15, 2024.[71][72] In April 2025, Hader discussed how Wong comforted him and helped him replace his destroyed wardrobe after the January 2025 Southern California wildfires.[73]

Filmography

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Film

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Year Title Role Notes Ref.
2012 Savages Claire [74]
2013 Dealin' with Idiots Katie [75]
2016 The Angry Birds Movie Betty Bird (voice) [76]
2017 The Lego Ninjago Movie General Olivia (voice) [77]
Father Figures Ali [78]
The Hero Herself [79]
2018 Ralph Breaks the Internet Felony (voice) [80]
2019 Always Be My Maybe Sasha Tran Also writer and producer [81]
2020 Birds of Prey Ellen Yee [82]
Onward Gore (voice) [83]
Phineas and Ferb the Movie: Candace Against the Universe Super Super Big Doctor (voice) [84]

Television

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Year(s) Title Role Notes Ref.
2011 Breaking In Ana Ng 3 episodes [85]
2012 Are You There, Chelsea? Olivia 12 episodes [86]
2014 Black Box Dr. Lina Lark 13 episodes [87]
2014–2015 Inside Amy Schumer Various characters 3 episodes [88]
2015 BoJack Horseman Maddy (voice) Episode: "Escape from L.A." [89]
2016 Animals Dana (voice) Episode: "Rats" [90]
2016–2021 American Housewife Doris Series regular [91]
2017 Fresh Off the Boat Margot Episode: "The Flush" [92]
2018 Ask the StoryBots The Brain Episode: "How Do Ears Hear?" [93]
OK K.O.! Let's Be Heroes Twisty (voice) Episode: "Soda Genie" [94]
2019–2022 Tuca & Bertie Bertie (voice) Main role and executive producer [95]
2019–2025 Big Mouth Ali (voice) 19 episodes [96]
2020 Love, Victor Ms. Thomas Recurring role [97]
2022 Human Resources Becca Lee (voice) 5 episodes [98]
Paper Girls Adult Erin 5 episodes [99]
2023 Beef Amy Lau Main role and executive producer [100]
2024 Jentry Chau vs. The Underworld Jentry Chau (voice) Lead role and executive producer [101]
Monsters at Work Jill (voice) 5 episodes [102]

As herself

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Year Title Notes Ref.
2012 Chelsea Lately 9 episodes [103]
2013 Hey Girl 5 episodes [104]
Best Week Ever 16 episodes [105]
2016 Ali Wong: Baby Cobra Netflix comedy special [106]
2017 Bill Nye Saves The World Episode: "Sex, Drugs and Superbugs" [107]
2018 Ugly Delicious Episode: "Stuffed" [108]
Ali Wong: Hard Knock Wife Netflix comedy special [109]
2022 Celebrity IOU "Ali Wong's Renovation Surprise" [110]
Ali Wong: Don Wong Netflix comedy special [111]
2023 RuPaul's Drag Race Guest judge; Episode: "Two Queens, One Joke" [112]
RuPaul's Drag Race: Untucked
2024 Ali Wong: Single Lady Netflix comedy special [113]

Book

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Year Title Publisher Identifier Ref.
2019 Dear Girls Random House Paperback: ISBN 978-0-525-50885-4
Hardcover: ISBN 978-0-525-50883-0
[114]

Accolades

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Awards and nominations received by Ali Wong
Organizations[c] Year[d] Category Work Result Ref.
AACTA Awards 2024 Best Actress in a Series Beef Nominated [115]
Best Drama Series Nominated
American Film Institute Awards 2023 Top 10 Television Programs of the Year Won [116]
Annie Awards 2020 Outstanding Achievement for Voice Acting in an Animated Television/Broadcast Production Tuca & Bertie Nominated [117]
Astra TV Awards 2024 Best Streaming Limited or Anthology Series Beef Won [118]
Best Actress in a Streaming Limited or Anthology Series or Movie Won
British Academy Television Awards 2024 Best International Programme Nominated [119]
Critics' Choice Television Awards 2024 Best Limited Series Won [120]
Best Actress in a Limited Series or Movie Made for Television Won
2025 Best Comedy Special Ali Wong: Single Lady Won [121]
Directors Guild of America Awards 2025 Outstanding Directing – Variety Specials Nominated [122]
Dorian Awards 2023 Best TV Performance – Comedy Beef Nominated [123]
Gold Derby Awards 2023 Limited/Movie Actress Won [124]
Golden Globe Awards 2024 Best Limited or Anthology Series or Television Film Won [125]
Best Actress – Miniseries or Television Film Won
2025 Best Performance in Stand-Up Comedy on Television Ali Wong: Single Lady Won [126]
Goodreads Choice Awards 2019 Humor Dear Girls Won [127]
Gotham Awards 2019 Breakthrough Series – Short Form Tuca & Bertie Nominated [128]
2023 Beef Won [129]
Outstanding Performance in a New Series Won
Independent Spirit Awards 2024 Best New Scripted Series Won [130]
Best Lead Performance in a New Scripted Series Won
Legionnaires of Laughter Legacy Awards 2019 Best Stand Up Comedian Female Nominated [131]
NAACP Image Awards 2024 Outstanding Actress in a Television Movie, Mini-Series or Dramatic Special Beef Nominated [132]
Online Film & Television Association 2023 Best Actress in a Motion Picture, Limited or Anthology Series Won [133]
People's Choice Awards 2018 Comedy Act Herself Nominated [134]
2019 Comedy Movie Star Always Be My Maybe Nominated [135]
2021 Comedy Act The Milk & Money Tour Nominated [136]
2024 Bingeworthy Show of the Year Beef Nominated [137]
Female TV Star of the Year Nominated
Comedy TV Star of the Year Nominated
Primetime Creative Arts Emmy Awards 2024 Outstanding Character Voice-Over Performance Tuca & Bertie: Fledging Day Nominated [138]
Primetime Emmy Awards 2022 Outstanding Writing for a Variety Special Ali Wong: Don Wong Nominated [139]
2024 Outstanding Limited or Anthology Series Beef Won [140]
Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie Won
2025 Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Variety Special (Pre-Recorded) Ali Wong: Single Lady Nominated [141]
Producers Guild of America Awards 2024 Best Limited Series Television Beef Won [142]
2025 Outstanding Producer of Live Entertainment, Variety, Sketch, Standup & Talk Television Ali Wong: Single Lady Nominated [143]
Satellite Awards 2024 Best Miniseries or Television Film Beef Nominated [144]
Best Actress – Miniseries or Television Film Nominated
Screen Actors Guild Awards 2024 Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Miniseries or Television Movie Won [145]
TCA Awards 2023 Outstanding Achievement in Movies, Miniseries and Specials Won [146]

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Ali Wong (born Alexandra Dawn Wong; April 19, 1982) is an American stand-up comedian, actress, and writer renowned for her bold, observational humor centered on Asian American experiences, motherhood, and relationships. Born in , , to a Vietnamese immigrant mother and an father, she is the youngest of four siblings and grew up in a diverse household that influenced her comedic perspective. Wong attended the (UCLA), where she earned a degree in Asian American studies, and later participated in a in to deepen her cultural connections. After graduating, she moved to to pursue comedy, training at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater. She guest-starred in and wrote for . Her breakthrough came with the 2016 Netflix special Baby Cobra, filmed at seven months pregnant, which earned critical praise for its raw energy and propelled her to stardom. This was followed by Hard Knock Wife (2018), recorded shortly after giving birth, further showcasing her unfiltered take on family life. Wong expanded into acting and producing, co-writing and starring in the romantic comedy Always Be My Maybe (2019) opposite Randall Park, which highlighted her screen presence and collaborative talents. Her role as the rage-fueled Amy Lau in the Netflix anthology series Beef (2023) marked a dramatic pivot, earning her a Primetime Emmy Award for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited or Anthology Series—the first for an actress of Asian descent in that category—as well as a Golden Globe. In stand-up, she released Ali Wong: Single Lady (2024), which won her a Golden Globe for Best Performance in Stand-Up Comedy on Television in 2025, and as of November 2025, she is nominated for a Grammy in the Best Comedy Album category. Wong's multifaceted career also includes voice acting in animated films like Ralph Breaks the Internet (2018) and directing projects, solidifying her as a trailblazing figure in comedy and entertainment.

Early life

Childhood and family

Ali Wong was born on April 19, 1982, in the Pacific Heights neighborhood of , , to parents Tam "Tammy" Wong and Adolphus Wong. Her mother, a social worker who immigrated from , , in 1960 at age 20, arrived in the United States knowing no English amid the era. Her father, a Chinese-American anesthesiologist who worked for for over 30 years, was born in 's to immigrant parents and grew up in a one-bedroom apartment without running water. As the youngest of four children—with two older sisters who became stay-at-home mothers and a brother described as an acupuncturist with entrepreneurial side hustles—Wong grew up in a bustling, multicultural household shaped by her parents' immigrant experiences. The 10-year age gap to her siblings often left her feeling like an , immersed in a blend of Vietnamese and Chinese traditions that emphasized education, hard work, and familial duty. Her parents' backgrounds fostered a strong sense of , with her mother instilling resilience from her wartime escape and her father connecting to his Chinese roots through community involvement, all while nurturing creativity in their children despite the demands of raising a large family. Wong's early exposure to humor stemmed from her family's dynamic, particularly her father's vivid from his medical career, which included graphic anecdotes like patients swallowing heads that he shared openly at the dinner table. These unfiltered tales honed her observational style, blending the absurdities of everyday life with the immigrant hustle she witnessed growing up. Her parents' supportive yet demanding environment, where ambition was encouraged amid the chaos of four kids, laid the groundwork for her later comedic voice.

Education

Wong attended in , , graduating in 2000 as student body class president. In the fall of 2000, she enrolled at the (UCLA), where she majored in Asian American studies with an emphasis on theater and performance. During her undergraduate years, Wong joined the Lapu, the Coyote That Cares Theatre Company—one of UCLA's oldest Asian American theater groups—cofounded by comedian , and participated in and improv productions that honed her performative skills. These campus activities ignited her interest in comedy, leading to her first open-mic stand-up performances in shortly after graduation. Wong graduated from UCLA in 2005 and spent a semester studying abroad in , , through a to explore her mother's heritage and improve her skills. Following her return, she faced initial post-college challenges, taking odd jobs such as a position while dedicating time to writing jokes and performing at local open mics to build her comedy career.

Career

Early career

After graduating from the , with a degree in Asian American studies in 2005, Wong launched her career in her hometown of . There, she drew inspiration from comedians like and began performing at local venues, including —where Phyllis Diller had once started out—and Cobb's Comedy Club. These early gigs marked her entry into the comedy scene, though she later described 's club environment as a "nightmare" due to limited opportunities for consistent performances. In 2007, Wong relocated to to immerse herself more fully in stand-up, honing her craft through grueling routines that sometimes involved up to nine sets per night at clubs such as the and the Village Underground. To make ends meet during this period, she took on waitressing jobs in the East Village while navigating the competitive landscape of open mics and low-paying spots, including free shows at laundromats. Wong encountered common hurdles for aspiring comedians, such as frequent rejections from bookers and agents, and the difficulty of balancing exhaustive performance schedules with financial instability, which she credited with building her resilience. By 2013, Wong gained initial visibility with an appearance on John Oliver's New York Stand-Up Show, where she showcased her emerging style of raw, personal humor. Around this time, she began shifting toward for expanded prospects in television writing, including writing for shows like Inside Amy Schumer and Hot Mess, and on-camera work, while continuing to refine her stand-up amid ongoing industry challenges.

Stand-up success

Ali Wong's stand-up career gained widespread recognition with her debut special, Baby Cobra, released on May 6, 2016, which she filmed at the Neptune Theatre in while seven months pregnant. The hour-long performance candidly explored themes of marriage, impending motherhood, interracial relationships, and Asian American cultural expectations, delivered in her signature raunchy, unfiltered style that challenged stereotypes of Asian . The special received universal critical praise, earning a 100% approval rating on based on nine reviews, and marked a breakthrough for Wong as one of the first pregnant comedians to headline a major streaming special, propelling her from relative obscurity to a global audience. Building on this momentum, Wong released Hard Knock Wife on on May 13, 2018, again performing while pregnant—this time with her second child—at the Bill Graham Civic Auditorium in . The special delved into postpartum challenges, the pressures of balancing motherhood with a demanding career, and the realities of marital dynamics under strain, maintaining her bold, confessional approach that resonated with audiences navigating similar life stages. Like its predecessor, it garnered a perfect 100% score from 21 critics, solidifying Wong's reputation for raw, relatable humor on taboo subjects like and spousal roles. Following these specials, Wong embarked on extensive tours that showcased her evolving material, including sold-out runs across the such as her 2019-2020 appearances at venues like the and international performances in cities like by 2023, drawing diverse crowds with her high-energy delivery and thematic depth on family and identity. These tours, often extending due to demand, highlighted her growth as a live performer capable of filling large theaters while refining the personal anecdotes that defined her work. In her third Netflix special, Don Wong, released on February 14, 2022, and filmed at the Warfield in , Wong shifted focus to the intricacies of long-term , monogamy's challenges, and her "deepest fantasies," blending humor with on commitment shortly before her separation from her husband. The performance retained her filthy, accessible wit, touching on and societal views of singledom, and received positive reviews for its bold exploration of relational tensions. Wong's most recent special, Single Lady, premiered on on October 8, 2024, filmed at The Wiltern in during Netflix Is a Fest, where she humorously unpacked post-divorce , personal reinvention at age 40, and the "highs, lows, and surprises" of single life after her 2022 separation. Embracing themes of empowerment and romantic exploration, the special earned her first Grammy nomination for Best at the 68th Annual in 2026.

Acting roles

Wong's entry into acting was facilitated by her rising stand-up profile, particularly her specials, which opened doors to scripted roles on the platform. Her breakout performance came in 2014 as Dr. Lina Lark, a sharp-witted radiologist, in the ABC series , where she appeared opposite and across the show's single season. Following this debut, Wong expanded into , lending her talents to animated projects that showcased her comedic timing in ensemble casts. Notable examples include voicing the explosive Betty Bird in the family film (2016) and the hormone monster Ali in the adult animated series Big Mouth (2017–2023), contributing to its irreverent exploration of adolescence. In 2019, Wong took a leading role as Sasha Tran in the Always Be My Maybe, co-starring with longtime friend as her character's childhood sweetheart; the film, which she co-wrote with Park and , blended humor with themes of and second chances, earning praise for its authentic representation of Asian American experiences. Wong also delivered supporting performances in live-action films that highlighted her versatility, including the role of , a boisterous cousin, in Lulu Wang's dramedy The Farewell (2019), which delved into family secrets and immigrant dynamics. The following year, she appeared as Ellen Yee, the supportive partner to detective (Rosie Perez), in the action-comedy (and the Fantabulous Emancipation of One ) (2020). A pivotal dramatic shift occurred in 2023 with her portrayal of Amy Lau, a high-achieving businesswoman unraveling amid escalating rage, in the miniseries ; Wong's nuanced depiction of vulnerability and fury alongside drew widespread critical acclaim, earning her a Golden Globe and Emmy for outstanding lead actress in a limited series.

Recent projects

In 2024, Ali Wong released her fourth stand-up special, Single Lady, on October 8, which delves into the themes of post-divorce independence, dating challenges, and personal empowerment through raunchy, candid storytelling. The special received positive critical reception for its atypical, debauched take on divorce, earning an 83% approval rating on . It garnered significant accolades, including a win for Best Performance in Stand-Up Comedy on Television at the 2025 Golden Globes, while also earning an Emmy nomination for Outstanding Variety Special (Pre-Recorded). Building on the success of her role in Beef, which opened doors to broader creative ventures, Wong announced her "Ali Wong Live" tour in October 2025, with dates spanning 2026 across the U.S. The tour kicks off on January 16, 2026, at 713 Music Hall in Houston, Texas, followed by stops in cities like San Antonio and others, with additional shows added due to high demand, such as a second performance in Houston and a new date in St. Petersburg, Florida, on April 4, 2026. In May 2025, Wong expanded her production role by directing fellow comedian Sheng Wang's upcoming Netflix stand-up special, set for release in 2026, following her directorial debut on his 2022 special Sweet and Juicy. The new hour-long set is scheduled to film on November 8, 2025, at the Warner Theatre in Washington, D.C., highlighting Wong's growing influence in shaping comedy content for the platform. Wong also ventured into voice acting with the Netflix animated series Jentry Chau vs. the Underworld, which premiered in December 2024, where she voices the lead character, a Chinese-American teenager battling demons from folklore in a small Texas town. In December 2025, Netflix announced the animated film Steps, a reimagining of the Cinderella story that shifts the focus to the stepsisters, directed by Alyce Tzue and John Ripa. Wong voices one of the lead stepsisters alongside Stephanie Hsu, with the film slated for a 2026 release from Netflix Animation. As of December 2025, Wong continues to explore collaborations within Netflix's comedy and animation slate.

Personal life

Marriage and divorce

Ali Wong met Justin Hakuta, son of Japanese-American inventor and television personality , at a friend's in while Hakuta was a Fulbright Scholar and student at . The couple dated for several years before marrying on November 27, 2014, in an intimate ceremony in . Their relationship often featured in Wong's , including references to their meeting and a in her 2016 special Baby Cobra and explorations of marital life in Hard Knock Wife (2018). In April 2022, after nearly eight years of marriage, Wong and Hakuta announced their separation, describing it as amicable and committing to continue co-parenting their two children with . Wong officially filed for on December 22, 2023, in , citing and listing their date of separation as April 10, 2022; the filing requested enforcement of their and over assets and spousal support. The divorce was finalized on May 21, 2024, by a County judge, with details of the asset division remaining confidential under the terms of their prenup and mediation agreement. Throughout the proceedings, both parties emphasized their ongoing friendship and dedication to amicable co-parenting, with Wong later describing the split as an "unconventional" but positive transition that allowed them to remain best friends.

Children

Ali Wong gave birth to her first daughter, Mari Hakuta, in November 2015 via cesarean section, just months after filming her debut Netflix special Baby Cobra while seven months pregnant. The has described the experience of early motherhood as transformative, noting that it shifted her perspective on her career for the better rather than hindering it. Following Mari's birth, Wong attempted to embrace the role of a stay-at-home mother for eight weeks but found it overwhelmingly exhausting, leading her to resume work while relying on support systems to manage parenting demands. Wong welcomed her second daughter, Nikki Hakuta, in December 2017, during the filming of her second special Hard Knock Wife, where she performed while visibly pregnant. The births occurred with Justin Hakuta, her ex-husband, as the father. In public discussions, Wong has highlighted the challenges of postpartum life, including , which she has humorously likened to "" in her stand-up routines, emphasizing the physical and emotional toll without delving into personal specifics about her children. To balance her demanding career in stand-up, acting, and writing with motherhood, Wong frequently tours with her daughters, incorporating family outings like museum visits during the day before evening performances. She has credited hiring as essential to her success, stating simply, "I have a . That's it," in response to questions about work-life equilibrium. Post-divorce from Hakuta in 2024, Wong has praised their co-parenting arrangement, noting his ongoing support in childcare alongside her mother's involvement, which allows her to maintain her professional momentum. During the , these supports proved crucial as she navigated and family life with young children at home. In her comedy specials and interviews, Wong deliberately avoids naming or detailing her daughters to protect their privacy, given their young ages and limited understanding of her profession. Instead, she explores broader themes of motherhood, such as the chaos of raising toddlers and the realities of postpartum recovery, using these experiences to connect with audiences while shielding her family's personal details. This approach underscores her commitment to separating her public persona from her role as a mother.

Current relationship

Ali Wong was in a relationship with and from April 2023 until early 2026, following a brief period in late 2022. The couple, who had known each other for years through mutual connections in the comedy industry, first drew public attention in December 2022 when sources reported they were , though they split shortly after. Their relationship was confirmed to the public in January 2024, when Hader and Wong shared a kiss on camera at the following her win for Best Actress in a Limited Series for . This moment came amid Wong's pending divorce from Justin Hakuta, which enabled a new personal chapter and was finalized in May 2024. Since then, the pair maintained a low-key dynamic, prioritizing privacy while bonding over their shared love of comedy and creative pursuits. Hader and Wong made select joint appearances, including at the 2024 and their red carpet debut at the 2025 in February. They were also spotted together at the in September 2025 and enjoying a casual outing in in August 2025. In 2025 interviews, Hader highlighted Wong's supportive role in his life, noting how she helped him cope in the aftermath of the wildfires that impacted his home and crediting her influence on his approach to and . Wong similarly expressed in prior discussions that she fell in love again with Hader, emphasizing his encouragement of her career and family life. However, in early 2026, after more than two years together, Wong and Hader ended their relationship, with sources attributing the amicable split to their demanding schedules.

Works

Stand-up comedy specials

Ali Wong released her debut stand-up special, Baby Cobra, on May 6, 2016. The 60-minute performance, directed by Jay Karas, was filmed at the Neptune Theatre in while Wong was seven months pregnant. It covers her experiences with , sexual adventures, hoarding tendencies, and perspectives on , alongside reflections on Asian American family dynamics and cultural expectations. Her second special, Hard Knock Wife, premiered on on May 13, 2018. This 64-minute set, also directed by Jay Karas and recorded at the in , addresses the realities of her second , , and motherhood. Wong delves into the challenges and absurdities of being a working mother and wife, including gender roles in relationships and postpartum life. Don Wong, Wong's third Netflix special, was released on February 15, 2022. The 59-minute performance, directed by , explores her fantasies, the strains of within life, and evolving views on relationships amid personal changes like . It features candid discussions on , sexuality, and singlehood. In her fourth special, Single Lady, released on October 8, 2024, Wong directs her own 59-minute performance. The set focuses on the empowerment found in post- singledom, including the surprises of as a middle-aged mother and newfound independence. It won the Golden Globe Award for Best Performance in Stand-Up on Television at the 82nd Golden Globe Awards in 2025 and earned a nomination for Best at the 68th Annual .

Film

Ali Wong began her feature film career with small roles before gaining prominence in lead and supporting parts, often leveraging her Netflix affiliations to transition from television work. Her film credits include:
YearTitleRoleNotes
2012SavagesClaireMinor role in Oliver Stone's crime thriller.
2017Father FiguresAliSupporting role in the comedy directed by Lawrence Sher.
2017The Lego Ninjago MovieGeneral Olivia (voice)Voiced a key character in the animated action film.
2018Ralph Breaks the InternetFelony (voice)Voiced a supporting character in the Disney animated sequel.
2019Always Be My MaybeSasha TranLead role; co-writer with Randall Park.
2020Birds of Prey (and the Fantabulous Emancipation of One Harley Quinn)Ellen YeeSupporting role as Renee Montoya's assistant.
2020OnwardOfficer Gore (voice)Voiced a character in Pixar's animated fantasy adventure.
2020The King of Staten IslandMrs. KimSupporting role in Judd Apatow's comedy-drama.
2020Promising Young WomanSusanBrief appearance in Emerald Fennell's thriller.
2020Phineas and Ferb the Movie: Candace Against the UniverseSuper Super Big Doctor (voice)Voiced the antagonist in the Disney+ animated musical.
2023Joy RideKatProducer; supporting role in the comedy road trip film.
2023Quiz LadyAnne YumLead role alongside Awkwafina in the comedy.
2024Kung Fu Panda 4Zhen (voice)Voiced the lead fox character in the animated sequel.

Television

Wong made her television acting debut as Dr. Lina Lark, a neurologist's assistant, in the ABC medical drama series , where she appeared as a series regular throughout its single 2014 season. From 2017 to 2025, she provided the voice for the recurring character Ali, a hormone monster, in the animated comedy series Big Mouth, contributing to the show's exploration of and across multiple seasons. In 2023, Wong starred as Amy Lau, a harried businesswoman entangled in a escalating feud, in the limited series , a role for which she also served as an executive producer alongside creator and co-star . In 2024, Wong voiced the lead character Jentry Chau, a Chinese American teen discovering her supernatural powers, in the Jentry Chau vs. The Underworld, which ran for 13 episodes. Wong has frequently appeared on television as herself, beginning with a stand-up set on John Oliver's New York Stand-Up Show in 2013, where she performed material reflecting her early career experiences. She made her network late-night debut on in 2011 and has returned multiple times since 2016, often discussing her comedy specials, acting projects, and personal life. These appearances frequently overlapped with promotions for her stand-up tours and specials. In 2025, Wong continued this tradition with spots on late-night talk shows to promote her "Ali Wong Live" tour dates.

Books

Ali Wong's sole published book, Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, and Advice for Living Your Best Life, was released on October 15, 2019, by Random House. The work is structured as a collection of essays and letters addressed to her two young daughters, providing candid guidance on navigating life, relationships, career challenges, and motherhood. Drawing from her experiences as an Asian American woman, Wong explores themes of feminism, cultural identity, family dynamics, and personal resilience, often through raw, humorous anecdotes about dating, marriage, sex, and professional hurdles in comedy. Wong conceived the book following the death of her father in 2018, aiming to leave a legacy of intimate stories and lessons for her children, much like a letter he had once written to her. Penned amid the demands of raising her family, including shortly after the birth of her second daughter in 2018, the essays blend sharp vulnerability with her signature comedic voice, reflecting the chaos of working motherhood. Influenced by her stand-up storytelling, the narrative eschews traditional self-help tropes in favor of irreverent, unfiltered advice. The book achieved commercial success as a New York Times bestseller upon release. Critics praised its blend of hilarity and honesty, noting how it humanizes the struggles of Asian American women in entertainment and family life. As of 2025, Dear Girls has not been adapted into film, television, or other media, though elements of its themes appear in Wong's later stand-up work, including her 2024 Netflix special Single Lady.

Accolades

Emmy Awards

Ali Wong has received five nominations, with one win, recognizing her contributions to television and specials. Her sole win came at the in 2024 for Outstanding Lead Actress in a or or Movie for her portrayal of Amy Lau in the series . This victory marked her as the first Asian American woman to win in this category, highlighting a for representation in television. In addition to her acting win, Wong earned nominations in multiple categories related to the series at the same ceremony, including Outstanding Limited or as an and Outstanding Character Voice-Over Performance for her role as Bertie in . She also received a for Outstanding Writing for a Variety Special for Ali Wong: Don Wong at the in 2022, and a for Outstanding Variety Special (Pre-Recorded) for Ali Wong: Single Lady at the 77th in 2025. These nods reflect her versatility across acting, producing, writing, and voice work in limited series and specials. During her acceptance speech for Beef at the 75th Emmys, Wong emotionally thanked her late father and her daughters, while emphasizing the importance of Asian representation in Hollywood, stating that the win was for every Asian child dreaming of such achievements. This moment underscored the cultural impact of her recognition, aligning with her concurrent Golden Globe win for the same role.

Golden Globe Awards

Ali Wong has earned two , showcasing her range in dramatic acting and . At the in 2024, she won Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Limited Series, , or Motion Picture Made for Television for her portrayal of Amy Lau in the series Beef. This victory made her the first actress of Asian descent to win in the category, highlighting her dramatic depth in a role that explored rage and reconciliation. In her acceptance speech, Wong opened up about the personal struggles she faced during production, including her divorce from Justin Hakuta, and thanked him for prioritizing peaceful co-parenting amid their separation. This was her first Golden Globe nomination. At the 82nd in 2025, she secured her second win in the category of Best Performance in on Television for Ali Wong: Single Lady, a post-divorce exploration of dating and self-discovery that beat out competitors including and . This achievement emphasized the Golden Globes' broadening recognition of stand-up as a televisual art form, overlapping briefly with her Emmy-nominated projects in specials.

Other awards

In addition to her Emmy and Golden Globe successes, Ali Wong has received numerous other honors recognizing her contributions to comedy, acting, and literature. For her role as Amy Lau in the Netflix series Beef (2023), Wong won the Critics' Choice Award for Best Actress in a Limited Series or Movie Made for Television at the 29th annual ceremony in 2024. She also earned the Screen Actors Guild Award for Outstanding Performance by a Female Actor in a Television Movie or Limited Series for the same performance later that year. Further acclaim came from the Film Independent Spirit Awards, where she received the Best Lead Performance in a New Scripted Series in 2024, and the Gotham Awards, awarding her Outstanding Performance in a New Series in 2023. Wong's stand-up work has also garnered genre-specific recognition. Her 2024 Netflix special Single Lady earned her a nomination for Best Comedy Album at the 68th Annual Grammy Awards, announced in November 2025, marking her first Grammy nod. Earlier, her animated series Tuca & Bertie (2019) brought her the Annie Award for Outstanding Achievement for in an Animated Television/Broadcast Production. On the literary front, Wong's 2019 memoir Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, and Advice for Living Your Best Life won the Choice Award for Best Humor, celebrating its candid and humorous insights into motherhood and . Overall, has amassed over 20 award wins and nominations across various organizations, highlighting her versatility in , , and writing.

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