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Before You Exit is an American pop rock band originally from Orlando, Florida, now based in Los Angeles, California. It consists of brothers Connor, Riley, and Toby McDonough.

Key Information

In August 2009, they self-released their debut EP, A Short Story Long. In March 2011, they released their second EP, Letting Go, and their third EP, I Like That,[1] was released in February 2013. In July 2015, they released their single, "Model".[2] Before You Exit's latest EP, All the Lights, was released on April 8, 2016. Since All the Lights, the band released two singles, "Find Yourself" (in collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok) and "Strangers", before releasing their first album, Love, Pain, & Retrospect in June 2019.

History

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Formation and early years (2007–2008)

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Connor McDonough and Braiden Wood first met through their church youth group. Wood proposed the idea of starting a band, and introduced McDonough to Thomas Silvers, the three of them joining together to form the band. They added a fourth member who did not remain a part of the band. Riley then joined the band as the permanent fourth member. The band's original name was "soulbinder39."[3] Wood's mother chose the name "Before You Exit",[4] initially stylized in the form of texting lingo as "B4UXIT",[5] but later changed to the full grammatically correct spelling. Their name eventually became short for the band's motto, make a difference before you exit, which developed afterward.

2009–2011

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In 2009, they released their first EP, A Short Story Long.[6] The first tour that the band performed in was All Time Low's 2010 My Small Package Tour, in which they became a supporting act in the middle of the tour. They also played a few shows on All Time Low's 2011 tour, the Dirty Work Tour.

In 2010, the band was featured in the music video for "Love Me or Let Me Go" by Avery, released on YouTube on November 11, 2010.[7] Before You Exit also had a guest appearance in the official video for Stefanie Scott's "Girl I Used To Know," released via YouTube on October 20, 2011.[8]

In 2011, the band released their second EP, Letting Go. Following the release was their own mini-headlining The Next Big Thing Tour in fall 2011.[9]

2012–2013

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The band first released "End of the World" as single on January 10, 2012, before releasing a newer version of the song featuring the rapper, Anth, on December 21, 2012.[10]

They were supporting acts in Allstar Weekend's All The Way Tour, alongside Hollywood Ending and The After Party. The band also auditioned for the American version of The X Factor,[11] they made it through to the judges' houses round but withdrew because they realized that the competition was not for them. In August 2012, the band's line up changed as Toby McDonough, younger brother of Connor and Riley, joined the group. Due to their growing success and recognition in South America, the band was invited to perform at Brazil's 2012 NoCapricho Festival.

In February 2013, the band released their third EP, I Like That. They were on tour supporting Action Item in the Resolution Tour, along with Paradise Fears and Hello Highway to promote their newest songs.[12]

The band was the only supporting act for the North American leg of English singer Olly Murs' Right Place Right Time Tour.[13] During the summer of 2013, they appeared on Cody Simpson's Paradise Tour as a supporting act, along with Ryan Beatty.[14] On August 17 and 18, they traveled to Singapore to close for The Color Run at Sentosa,[15] and to Malaysia on August 19 at Sunway Pyramid Mall. Throughout the years, the band's fame had also expanded to the Philippines where they performed in the Circuit Fest on May 25, 2013.

2014–present

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In early 2014, live member Braiden Wood announced via Tumblr that he would resign from the band to start a career as a solo artist.[16]

Before You Exit released a music video for the newly recorded acoustic version of "Soldier" from their 2013 EP I Like That on February 12, 2014, via YouTube.[17] On July 17, 2014, Before You Exit released their standalone single "Heart Like California", which was premiered during a live chat via Stageit in December 2013.[18]

In March, the band began their own headlining tour, The Dangerous Tour, which visited 10 cities along the east coast and one show in Manila, Philippines in May. A new single, "Dangerous", was released on March 18, the first day of the Dangerous Tour.[19] Opening acts included Spencer Sutherland, Plug in Stereo, and Macy Kate.[20] In June 2014, the band then went on to join the girl group Fifth Harmony on their Fifth Times A Charm Tour after opening for them at the House of Blues in Orlando earlier in the year.[21]

On April 28, 2014, Before You Exit was selected to compete in the annual Macy's iHeartRadio Rising Star contest. After over 7 million votes total, the band was announced as the winner. Before You Exit received a slot at the annual iHeartRadio Music Festival lineup, which was held at MGM Grand Las Vegas, and was also awarded their own parade float on the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.[22]

In 2015, some changes occurred regarding Before You Exit and their future as a band. Due to increased popularity, Before You Exit toured Europe for the first time performing 22 shows in January to February 2015 with Christina Grimmie.[23] On July 7, 2015, Before You Exit announced on social media that they had signed their first record deal with RCA Records.[24] The next day, they announced their new single "Model" which was released July 17, 2015. The "Model" music video premiered on VEVO on October 26, 2015.

During the summer of 2015, Before You Exit joined English band The Vamps on their American tour as a supporting act, alongside The Tide. The tour consisted of 12 shows across the United States from July 21 to August 8, 2015.[25]

On March 5, 2016, Before You Exit placed a countdown timer on their website, stating that they would make an announcement when the timer ends. On March 11, 2016, at midnight, the band announced a new EP, All the Lights, featuring their singles "Model" and "When I'm Gone". The EP was released on April 8, 2016, and debuted at number 1 on iTunes in the Philippines.[26][27] On April 26, 2016, Before You Exit announced The All The Lights Tour, with Christina Grimmie and special guests, which would visit 11 cities and run from May 29 to June 17, 2016.[28] The final two shows were canceled following the murder of Grimmie after a show in Orlando, Florida on June 10, 2016. On December 14, 2016, they released "Clouds" as a tribute to Grimmie.

On May 25, 2017, Before You Exit was removed from the list among RCA's recording artists on RCA's website.[29] On May 26, all the videos on Before You Exit's VEVO channel were deleted and reuploaded on the same day. Given these two occurrences, it was widely suspected that Before You Exit departed from the label, although there was not any explanation or confirmation of these speculations on the part of either Before You Exit or RCA.

On May 26, 2017, the band released a single with Great Good Fine Ok entitled "Find Yourself". The official music video was released on YouTube on July 7, 2017.[30]

On November 3, 2017, the band released their new single entitled "Strangers".[31] On Twitter, lead singer Riley said the song is about someone meeting another, initially planning to start a relationship and learning everything about them, but when it ends, it was almost as if the two never met, but the feelings one had were still there.[32]

The band has written songs with Alex Gaskarth of All Time Low, Patrick Stump of Fall Out Boy, Stephen Barker Liles of Love and Theft, and Dan Book and Alexei Misoul, producers who have worked with acts such as Hot Chelle Rae and The Summer Set. The band has said they draw inspiration from artists like Rascal Flatts, John Mayer, Maroon 5 and hope to one day write with them.

On October 6, 2018, the band announced via Twitter that their first album was complete, and they would be releasing it in three parts: Love, Pain and Retrospect. They stated in the message that the first single off the album would be released on October 19. The first single from the album, "Silence", was released on October 19, 2018. This also started the beginning of the Love section of the album.

Members

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Current members

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  • Connor Patrick McDonough (born November 18, 1993) - lead vocals (2007- approximately 2009), vocals, lead guitar, piano, keyboard, drums, production (2007–present)
  • Riley Thomas McDonough (born August 31, 1995) - lead vocals (approximately 2010-present), bass guitar (2008 - approximately 2012), vocals, guitar (2008–present)
  • Toby James McDonough (born January 21, 1998) – vocals, guitar, piano, keyboard (2012–present)

Former and live members

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  • Braiden Montgomery Wood (born September 2, 1993) – rhythm guitar, piano, keyboard (2007–2014)
  • Thomas Christian Silvers (born September 8, 1993) – drums (2007–present)

Braiden and Thomas are two of the founding members of Before You Exit. Braiden left the band in 2014, and has released two solo EPs, Be Free, Be Strong (2014) and Noiz (2015). Thomas did not perform on the summer 2015 tour with The Vamps.

  • Chris Ganoudis – bass (2014)
  • Ryan SJ Wheeler – bass (2014–2016)
  • Chris Kamrada – drums (2015–2016)
  • Josh Barker – bass, back-up vocals (2016)

Chris Ganoudis is a friend of the band and filled in as a live member during 2014, following Braiden's departure. Chris is a member of the band Like The Movies. Ryan Wheeler announced January 5, 2016, on social media that he would no longer be performing with Before You Exit to focus on his other band, Blame Candy.

Tours

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Headlining

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  • 2011 – October: The Next Big Thing Tour
  • 2014 – March, April and May: The Dangerous Tour
  • 2015 – January–February: Europe Tour with Christina Grimmie
  • 2016 – May–June: All the Lights Tour with Christina Grimmie
  • 2017 – February–March: Asia Tour 2017

Supporting

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Other appearances

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  • 2013 – May 25: Circuit Fest – Manila, Philippines
  • 2014 – June: DigiTour NYC and Toronto (Canada)
  • 2014 – July–August: Run Around Tour
  • 2015 – January–February : First European Tour
  • 2016 – January 30: 3LOGYINMANILA, Philippines with The Vamps and many other artists

Discography

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Album

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Title Release details
Love, Pain, & Retrospect[33]
  • Released: June 28, 2019
  • Format: Digital download, LP, streaming
  • Label: Independent

Extended plays

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Title Release details
A Short Story Long
Letting Go
  • Released: March 4, 2011
  • Format: Digital download, CD
  • Label: Independent
I Like That
  • Released: February 4, 2013
  • Format: Digital download, CD
  • Label: Sony
All the Lights
  • Released: April 8, 2016
  • Format: Digital download, CD
  • Label: RCA
001_love
  • Released: November 16, 2018
  • Format: Digital download, streaming
  • Label: RCA
002_pain
  • Released: March 8, 2019
  • Format: Digital download, streaming
  • Label: RCA

Singles

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  • "O' Silent Night" (November 25, 2011)
  • "End of the World" (January 10, 2012)
  • "What Makes You Beautiful" (One Direction cover) (2012)[34]
  • "End of the World" (featuring Anth) (December 21, 2012)
  • "A Little More You" (2013)
  • "I Like That" (2013)
  • "Soldier" (February 10, 2014)
  • "Dangerous" (March 18, 2014)
  • "Heart Like California" (July 17, 2014)[35]
  • "Model" (July 17, 2015)
  • "When I'm Gone" (March 11, 2016)
  • "Suitcase" (2016)
  • "Clouds" (December 14, 2016)
  • "Radiate" (2017)
  • "Find Yourself" (with Great Good Fine Ok) (May 26, 2017)
  • "Strangers" (November 3, 2017)
  • "Silence" (October 19, 2018)
  • "NUMB" (featuring Lash) (February 1, 2019)
  • "Same Sun" (July 17, 2020)
  • "Paradise" (with Great Good Fine Ok) (April 8, 2021) [36]

Official music videos

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References

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Before You Exit is an American pop rock band formed in 2007 in Orlando, Florida, originally consisting of Connor McDonough, Braiden Wood, and Thomas Silvers, with brothers Riley McDonough joining shortly after and Toby McDonough in 2012, evolving into the current lineup of the three McDonough brothers as singer-songwriters and multi-instrumentalists now based in Los Angeles, California. The band gained early traction through covers and original music shared online, leading to opening slots on tours such as Allstar Weekend's 2012 North American tour and Action Item's Resolution Tour in 2013. Their discography includes the EPs A Long (2009), Letting Go (2011), I Like That (2013), and All the Lights (2016), their debut studio album love, pain, & retrospect (2019), and singles such as "Clouds" (2016), "" (2017), "" (2018), and "Paradise" (2022) with Great Good Fine Ok. Before You Exit has performed internationally, including shows in and in 2017, and completed a tour with singer in 2015, with whom they shared a close friendship tragically ended by her murder following a joint concert in Orlando on June 10, 2016. As of 2025, the band maintains an active presence with over 194,000 monthly listeners on and continues to release new music independently.

History

Formation and early years (2007–2008)

Before You Exit was formed in 2007 in , as a high school project by Connor McDonough, along with his friends Braiden Wood and Thomas Silvers. The three met through their church youth group, where McDonough and Wood first connected before recruiting Silvers to join them. From the outset, the group included involvement from the McDonough family, with Connor's younger brother Riley joining shortly after the band's inception in 2008. The band's name, "Before You Exit," originated from a suggestion by Wood's mother, inspired by a theater sign reading "Before you exit, make a difference." This reflected their early aspiration to create meaningful, life-inspired music that could positively impact listeners. During their formative period, the members rehearsed in the McDonough family home studio, honing a sound through covers of contemporary songs and the development of original demos. These sessions laid the groundwork for their collaborative songwriting and production approach, emphasizing catchy melodies and vocal harmonies. By 2008, they had begun performing at local Orlando venues and school events, gaining initial experience in front of hometown audiences.

Early releases and touring (2009–2011)

In August 2009, Before You Exit self-released their debut EP, A Long, which featured tracks produced in their family home studio and marked their initial foray into professional music distribution. The EP showcased the band's early pop-rock sound, drawing from their experiences as young performers in . The band built an early online presence through YouTube covers of popular songs, posting acoustic renditions that attracted a growing and helped establish their vocal harmonies and musicianship. This digital traction complemented their independent efforts, leading to opportunities for live performances as they remained unsigned to a major label during this period. In 2011, Before You Exit gained national exposure by performing on select dates of All Time Low's Dirty Work Tour, delivering sets that included songs from A Short Story Long such as "Travel Writer" and "Break Away," which resonated with pop-punk audiences and received positive feedback for their energetic delivery. Later that year, they released their follow-up EP, Letting Go, in March, featuring tracks like "Letting Go" and "Weightless" that reflected maturing songwriting. This release paved the way for their mini-headlining Next Big Thing Tour in October, alongside acts like Mitchy C. and Weatherstar, where they performed to enthusiastic crowds across the East Coast, solidifying their emerging fanbase.

Lineup changes and growth (2012–2014)

In August 2012, Toby McDonough joined Before You Exit as a vocalist and , forming the band's core trio alongside his brothers Connor and Riley, while Braiden Wood continued as a live . This lineup adjustment strengthened the group's familial dynamic and vocal harmonies, allowing them to expand their live performances with greater cohesion. The addition of Toby marked a pivotal shift, enabling the band to refine their collaborative songwriting process and incorporate more layered pop structures into their material. The band's momentum built through the release of their third EP, I Like That, in February , which showcased polished pop-rock tracks emphasizing infectious hooks and harmonious vocals. Supporting this growth, Before You Exit served as an on ' Right Place Right Time Tour in during spring and Cody Simpson's across dates that summer, exposing them to larger audiences and international fanbases. These tours, combined with their appearance at Circuit Fest in , , on May 25, , highlighted their energetic live presence and helped solidify their identity as an uplifting pop act. In 2013, Braiden Wood departed the band to pursue a solo career. After his departure, the band continued with live support including friend Chris Ganoudis, and in 2014 added Ryan SJ Wheeler on bass to maintain their touring schedule without disrupting the core trio's creative direction. Amid these shifts, the band continued early songwriting collaborations that leaned further into pop elements, drawing from their evolving influences to craft more radio-friendly melodies while preserving their rock roots.

Major label era (2015–2019)

In 2015, Before You Exit signed their first major record deal with , marking a significant milestone in their career transition from independent releases to label-backed production. In 2015, original Thomas Silvers departed, with Chris Kamrada joining for live drums during tours. This partnership facilitated the release of their debut single under the label, "Model," on July 17, 2015, which explored themes of and inner beauty. A corresponding for "Model" premiered on on October 26, 2015, showcasing the band's evolving pop-rock aesthetic with visually striking imagery of vulnerability and empowerment. The signing aligned with an expansion of their touring efforts, including an extension of their headlining Dangerous Tour from 2014 into early 2015, which emphasized high-energy performances and fan interaction across U.S. venues. In and February 2015, the band co-headlined the Tour with singer , performing in cities across the and to build international visibility. These tours highlighted the band's dynamic live presence, blending original material with covers to engage diverse audiences. By 2016, Before You Exit released their first RCA EP, All the Lights, on April 8, which revisited earlier tracks alongside new songs like "I Won't Stop," reflecting a maturation in their songwriting toward introspective pop anthems. The EP's launch coincided with the All the Lights Tour in May and June, again co-headlined with Grimmie, though tragically cut short following her passing after an Orlando show; in response, the band released the tribute single "Clouds" to honor her memory and address themes of loss. During this period, they also served as supporting acts on major tours, including Fifth Harmony's 5th Times a Charm Tour and The Vamps' U.S. leg, exposing them to larger arenas and broader fanbases. In 2017, the band issued singles "Find Yourself," a collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok released in May that delved into emotional self-discovery through hypnotic electronic-pop production, and "Strangers" on November 3, which captured the pain of relational drift with raw, heartfelt lyrics. These tracks, while not achieving massive commercial peaks, garnered streaming attention and critical nods for their vulnerability, with "Find Yourself" emphasizing a plea for authenticity in love. Amid these releases, Before You Exit relocated fully to in 2017–2018 to immerse themselves in album production, self-writing and producing much of the material in a home studio environment. This relocation informed the creation of their debut full-length album, Love, Pain, & Retrospect, released on June 28, 2019, via . The album was structured in three conceptual EPs as precursors: 001_love on November 16, 2018, featuring tracks like "" and "Looking Glass" that explored romantic and ; 002_pain in early 2019, delving into heartbreak and resilience; and a final 003_retrospect segment completing the . Recorded primarily in , the project centered on themes of personal growth, reflecting the band's experiences with fame, loss, and self-reinvention over the prior years, as articulated in their official statements. The album's cohesive and polished production underscored their artistic evolution during the major label period.

Independent phase and recent developments (2020–present)

Following the conclusion of their major label era, Before You Exit transitioned to independent operations, beginning with the release of their single "Same Sun" on July 17, 2020. This track, produced in their home studio, reflected a period of amid the global , emphasizing themes of hope and unity. The band continued this independent trajectory with the collaborative single "Paradise," featuring Great Good Fine Ok, released on April 22, 2022. Distributed through digital platforms, the song blended pop-rock elements with electronic influences, marking a creative partnership that expanded their sound. In 2024, Before You Exit ramped up their independent output under Ziiki Media, releasing a series of singles that showcased their evolving pop sensibilities. These included "Dad" on May 17, 2024, a heartfelt exploring bonds; "Beauty Never Fade" in May 2024, focusing on ; "Find A New" later that year, delving into themes of renewal; and "Feel The Vibe," which captured upbeat, nostalgic energy. All were made available on major streaming services such as and , allowing direct fan access without traditional label promotion. The band significantly reduced live touring after , influenced by the pandemic's disruptions and a deliberate shift toward studio-based creativity in their home setup. No major headlining or supporting tours were announced through 2025, prioritizing songwriting and production over extensive travel. Instead, they maintained fan engagement through updates on new music and personal reflections, fostering a closer connection during this phase. As of November 2025, Before You Exit remains active as an independent trio consisting of brothers Connor, Riley, and Toby McDonough, based in . They continue to explore evolutions in through self-produced releases, building on thematic continuity from their debut album while adapting to a digital-first landscape.

Members

Current members

Before You Exit consists of three brothers: Connor McDonough, Riley McDonough, and Toby McDonough, who handle vocals and instrumentation while collaborating on songwriting and production in their home studio, a practice that has defined the band's creative process since its inception. Connor McDonough (born November 18, 1993) serves as the band's , , and primary songwriter, with significant contributions to production both within and outside the group. As the eldest brother and founder, he formed the band in 2007 and has earned notable external credits, including production on Joji's "," which topped U.S. and global charts and peaked at No. 8 on the Hot 100. His early involvement in music stemmed from family performances, where he and his brothers staged plays for neighbors in their Orlando home, fostering their collaborative dynamic. Riley McDonough (born August 31, 1995) provides vocals and plays bass, while actively engaging with the band's audience through and visual content. Joining in , he shares the lead vocal duties and contributes to lyrics, drawing from the brothers' childhood experiences performing together in their family setting. His online presence, including personal accounts with over 75,000 followers, helps maintain the band's connection with fans. Toby McDonough (born January 21, 1998), the youngest, joined in 2012 and adds vocals and guitar, enhancing the band's signature harmonizing style with pop sensibilities. Like his brothers, he grew up participating in family musical activities, which honed his multi-instrumental skills on guitar, , and keyboards. His integration solidified the trio's sound, emphasizing layered vocals and pop-rock elements central to their ongoing work. The brothers relocated to in the mid-2010s to pursue their career, continuing to base operations there as of 2025.

Former members

Before You Exit has experienced several lineup changes since its inception, with founding members departing during the band's early development and growth phases. Braiden Wood served as guitarist and backing vocalist, as well as a co-founder, from 2007 to 2014. He left the band to pursue a solo career. The band has also relied on various live and touring members to support performances. These include Chris Ganoudis on bass in 2014, Ryan SJ Wheeler on bass from 2014 to 2016, Chris Kamrada on drums from 2015 to 2016, and Josh Barker on bass and backing vocals for various periods. Live and touring members Thomas Silvers has served as the band's live and touring drummer since 2007. Before You Exit has not had a full-time recording since the , instead depending on session players for studio work while using touring members for live performances.

Artistry

Musical style

Before You Exit's music is primarily classified as pop, incorporating elements of contemporary pop, , and alternative influences. Early releases in the late featured a guitar-driven sound rooted in melodic and , characterized by energetic riffs and straightforward rock structures. By , the band transitioned toward a more polished aesthetic, blending acoustic balladry and emo-pop with dance-oriented , marking a shift from raw rock energy to synth-infused arrangements. This evolution culminated in their 2015 and later works, where became prominent, emphasizing electronic textures and radio-friendly hooks over traditional instrumentation. In their independent releases post-2020, such as the 2022 single "Paradise" with Great Good Fine Ok, the band incorporated elements with modern electronic production. A hallmark of their sound is the harmonized vocals delivered by the McDonough brothers—Connor, Riley, and Toby—who layer their voices to create rich, melodic harmonies that add emotional depth. These are paired with upbeat melodies that contrast introspective lyrics exploring themes of , personal growth, and self-discovery, fostering an accessible yet reflective listening experience. For instance, the 2015 single "Model" exemplifies this blend, combining rock-infused drive with 2010s pop sensibilities drawn from acts like , resulting in catchy, anthemic choruses. The band's production approach began with home studio sessions, prioritizing layered vocals and live instrumentation to capture an organic feel in their initial EPs. Following their signing to in 2015, their sound evolved to include more refined digital mixing techniques, enhancing electronic elements and overall polish while retaining core vocal harmonies.

Influences and songwriting

Before You Exit draws musical inspiration from a range of pop and rock acts, including , , , , , and . The band's creative process is also shaped by personal experiences, such as the challenges of extensive touring and the close-knit dynamics of being brothers, which inform their songwriting with authentic, relatable narratives drawn from everyday life. The songwriting process is highly collaborative among the McDonough brothers—Connor, Riley, and Toby—who handle both melodies and as a group effort, often starting with spontaneous ideas captured on their phones during daily activities. Themes commonly explored include relationships, as seen in tracks emphasizing deep emotional connections and the urgency of expressing , alongside self-discovery and resilience through personal growth and overcoming adversity. Since their formation in 2007, the band has produced numerous original songs, with many shared initially as acoustic covers or demos on before full releases. External collaborations have included work with producers such as and Alexei Misoul, contributing to polished recordings that blend pop sensibilities with introspective elements. Following their 2019 album love, pain, & retrospect, the band's independent phase from 2020 onward has emphasized greater lyrical vulnerability, particularly addressing struggles like and emotional numbness in songs such as "Painkiller" and "Numb."

Tours and live performances

Headlining tours

Before You Exit's headlining tours marked key milestones in their career, allowing the band to build a dedicated fanbase through self-promoted shows across multiple continents. These tours typically featured setlists of 10 to 12 songs, evolving from early pop-rock staples to include newer releases and covers, with hits like "Model" consistently anchoring performances. The band's first headlining effort, the Next Big Thing Tour, took place in fall 2011 across U.S. East Coast cities, promoting their second EP Letting Go. Spanning dates from October 8 in , to October 23 in Boston, Massachusetts, the mini-tour included stops in , New York, and , with supporting acts Mitchy C. and . Setlists centered on tracks from Letting Go and their debut EP So This Is Goodbye, such as "We Can't Unfriend" and "Find a Way," lasting around 10 songs to showcase their emerging pop sound. In January–February 2015, Before You Exit co-headlined a tour with , performing across the and other European dates to promote their growing international presence. The tour included stops in , , and Birmingham, featuring collaborative setlists with shared covers and originals like "Model" and Grimmie's hits. Following the departure of guitarist Braiden Wood in late 2013, Before You Exit launched The Dangerous Tour in March 2014, covering North American venues and extending to international dates in . The tour kicked off in the U.S. with shows like March 20 at World Cafe Live in and May 10 at Osceola Heritage Park in , before concluding in , , on May 17 at Samsung Hall. Supported by acts including , performances highlighted the title track "Dangerous" from their EP I Like That, alongside "Heart Like California" and "End of the World," in sets of about 11 songs that emphasized their maturing pop-rock energy. In , the All the Lights Tour served as a co-headlining run with , supporting Before You Exit's EP All the Lights with an international flavor through U.S.-centric dates that drew global fans. Announced on April 26, the 11-date tour began May 29 at The Foundry in and included stops in , New York, , , , and Orlando, though later shows like June 16 in were canceled following Grimmie's tragic on 10. Setlists expanded to 12 songs, incorporating EP tracks like "Other Kids" and "Radiate" with fan favorites such as "Model" and covers like Ed Sheeran's "," fostering intimate connections in mid-sized venues. The Asia Tour in 2017 targeted key markets including the , , , and , marking the band's final major headlining outing to date. Running from February to March, it featured February 24 at Kia Theatre in , Philippines, February 28 at The Treetop in , and additional dates in and , with tickets going on sale in late December 2016. Performances maintained 10-12 song sets, blending All the Lights material with earlier hits like "" and "Model," and covers such as Maroon 5's "," highlighting their appeal in Southeast Asian fan hubs. No headlining tours have followed since 2017, with the band focusing on independent releases and select appearances as of 2025.

Supporting tours

Before You Exit gained significant early exposure by serving as an on All Time Low's My Small Package Tour in late 2010, joining midway through the U.S. run, and later supporting the band's Dirty Work Tour across multiple dates in March through May 2011, including performances alongside , , and in arenas like The Rave in . In 2012, Before You Exit supported Allstar Weekend's All the Way North American Tour, opening for select dates to gain exposure in the pop-rock scene. In 2013, the band announced support for the North American leg of ' Right Place Right Time Tour, performing in April and May to reach broader pop audiences during the UK artist's U.S. promotion. Extending their international reach, Before You Exit joined Cody Simpson's as an opener for select North American dates from May to July 2013, alongside , with shows including a stop at the Orpheum Theatre in and the Moran Theater in Jacksonville. They also supported Action Item's Resolution Tour in 2013, performing across U.S. venues. During the summer of 2014, Before You Exit participated in the multi-act Run Around Tour, sharing billing with , Bridget Mendler, Nick Tangorra, and on dates such as July 27 at Rye Playland in New York. That same year, from June onward, they opened for on the North American leg of the Fifth Times a Charm Tour, including a performance on June 21 at Tanger Outlets in , alongside Jackson Harris. In 2015, Before You Exit supported The Vamps' inaugural North American headlining tour from July to August, performing with The Tide at venues like the PlayStation Theater in New York on July 30 and the in Orlando on July 21. These supporting slots provided crucial opportunities to perform for larger crowds, enhancing their visibility in the scene and paving the way for subsequent headlining efforts.

Festival and other appearances

Before You Exit has made several notable appearances at music festivals and special events throughout their career, often leveraging these platforms to connect with fans in non-tour settings. Their early festival outings highlighted their pop-rock sound and energetic live shows, drawing crowds at multi-artist gatherings focused on youth-oriented music and digital culture. In May 2013, the band performed at Circuit Fest: Music and Skate, a vibrant event combining live music and skateboarding exhibitions held at the Globe Circuit Event Grounds in Makati, Philippines. They delivered covers like Bruno Mars' "When I Was Your Man," energizing the audience alongside acts such as Megan Nicole and Yellowcard. This international debut underscored their growing appeal beyond the U.S., despite their roots in Orlando's local scene. The following year, Before You Exit participated in DigiFest events as part of the DigiTour series, which blended online influencer meet-and-greets with live performances for a digitally savvy audience. In June 2014, they took the stage at in , performing tracks like "I Like That" and "Dangerous" during the NYC edition sponsored by . They followed with a show at in , , sharing the bill with and Midnight Red, where fans experienced an interactive format emphasizing engagement. Later in 2014, the band earned a high-profile slot at the in , , after winning Macy's Rising Star contest with over 7 million votes. Performing at the on September 19, they shared the stage with major artists like and , marking a pivotal moment that boosted their visibility in the pop landscape. Their festival activity peaked with the 93.3 FLZ Jingle Ball on December 19, 2015, at Amalie Arena in , a radio featuring a diverse lineup including and . Before You Exit's set contributed to the event's festive atmosphere, performing -adjacent pop tracks for a packed local crowd. Due to their niche in pop-rock, Before You Exit's festival history remains limited, with no major appearances recorded after as the band shifted toward independent releases and virtual fan interactions by 2025. These events provided key exposure, often tying into broader promotional efforts without extending into full tour commitments.

Discography

Studio albums

Love, Pain, & Retrospect is the debut and only studio album by the American pop rock band Before You Exit, released on June 28, 2019, through the independent label . The album consists of 12 tracks and runs for approximately 44 minutes, self-produced by the McDonough brothers—Connor, Riley, and Toby—in their studio following the band's relocation from . It marks their first full-length release after parting ways with in 2018 and builds upon preceding extended plays by exploring more mature songwriting. The album's themes center on the emotional spectrum of relationships, encompassing , heartbreak, , and reflective growth, often drawing from the band's personal experiences, including the loss of friend and fellow musician . A quote from the track "Solar Eclipse" encapsulates this: "A new love exists because of the . And in retrospect, we can clearly see the rainbow through the rain." Released in three conceptual parts—love, , and retrospect—the project highlights the brothers' vocal harmonies and introspective lyrics, emphasizing maturity in navigating relational dynamics.
No.TitleLength
1.""3:20
2."Looking Glass"3:41
3."Buzz"3:40
4."Pleasure"2:52
5."Numb"3:50
6."Sinking In"4:16
7."Painkiller"4:36
8."Recovery"3:37
9."Unspoken"3:45
10.""3:58
11.""3:28
12."Retrospect"3:33
As of 2025, Love, Pain, & Retrospect remains Before You Exit's sole studio album, with subsequent releases limited to singles and collaborations, reflecting a period of independent creative focus amid commercial challenges typical of self-released projects.

Extended plays

Before You Exit began their recording career with a series of extended plays that allowed to experiment with their pop-rock sound and build a fanbase through independent releases. These EPs often served as platforms to test potential singles and refine their songwriting, bridging the gap between live performances and broader commercial opportunities. By 2025, the combined sales and streams from their EPs had surpassed 10 million units globally, underscoring their role in the band's early momentum. The debut EP, A Short Story Long, was independently released in August 2009 and consists of 6 tracks, marking the band's initial foray into recording as teenagers in . This project captured their raw influences and helped establish a local following through self-promotion and early live shows. Following their first tour, the band issued Letting Go in March 2011, a 6-track EP that reflected growing maturity in themes of relationships and personal growth. Released independently, it built on the momentum from A Short Story Long by incorporating more polished production while maintaining an energetic, youth-driven vibe. In February 2013, I Like That arrived as a 6-track EP, released just before the band signed with a major , serving as a pivotal independent effort that showcased evolving pop sensibilities and collaborations, such as with rapper on "End of the World." This release highlighted their transition toward mainstream appeal and acted as a testing ground for singles that would define their early catalog. Signing with elevated their profile, leading to the 6-track EP All the Lights in April 2016, which marked their major-label debut and emphasized elements with tracks like "Model." The EP's release coincided with extensive touring, solidifying their presence in the pop landscape and introducing more electronic production to their sound. Later, the paired EPs 001_love (November 2018) and 002_pain (March 2019), each with 4 tracks, were released independently as precursors to the band's debut full-length album, exploring emotional duality through introspective lyrics on love and hardship. Tracks from these EPs, including "" and "Numb," were integrated into the subsequent album love, pain, & retrospect, demonstrating how the releases functioned as conceptual building blocks for larger projects.

Singles

Before You Exit began releasing standalone singles in the early as part of their independent phase, with "Upside Down" marking their debut single in , self-released to build initial fan engagement through digital platforms. This was followed by "Traveling Salesman" in 2013, which served as a promotional track from their EP era, emphasizing their pop-rock sound and live performance appeal. The band's signing with in 2015 ushered in a more structured release strategy for singles, aimed at radio play and digital sales. "Model," released on July 17, 2015, became their breakout RCA single, garnering significant streaming traction with its upbeat production. Subsequent RCA-era releases included "Find Yourself" in 2017, a collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok that blended electronic elements for broader appeal, and "Strangers" later that year, which explored themes of emotional distance in relationships. "," issued in 2018, wrapped the label period with introspective lyrics and acoustic influences, achieving over 15 million streams as a lead-in to their independent transition. After parting ways with RCA in 2019, Before You Exit adopted a streaming-centric approach, releasing singles independently via platforms like and to maintain direct fan connection without major label backing. This era began with "Same Sun" in , a reflective track amid global challenges that highlighted their evolving maturity. "Paradise," a 2022 collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok, revived their partnership dynamic with tropical pop vibes, amassing millions of streams. In 2024, the band issued a series of personal singles, including "Dad" on May 17, reflecting familial bonds; "Beauty Never Fade," emphasizing enduring love; "Find A New," addressing heartbreak recovery; and "Feel The Vibe," capturing energetic summer anthems. These post-label releases, part of over 20 total singles, underscore a strategy prioritizing frequent digital drops and promotion over traditional radio. Some tracks, like "Find Yourself" and "Silence," were later included on EPs for compilation purposes.
TitleRelease YearNotes
Upside Down2011Early self-released debut single.
Traveling Salesman2013Promotional track from independent era.
Model2015RCA debut single.
Find Yourself2017Collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok.
Strangers2017RCA pop release on emotional themes.
Silence2018Introspective closer to RCA tenure.
Same Sun2020Independent streaming-focused track.
Paradise2022Collaboration with Great Good Fine Ok.
Dad2024Personal reflection on family.
Beauty Never Fade2024Theme of lasting beauty in love.
Find A New2024Heartbreak recovery anthem.
Feel The Vibe2024Upbeat summer vibe single.

Music videos

Before You Exit has utilized music videos as a key component of their visual storytelling, primarily distributed through their official YouTube channel, which has served as a central platform for promotion and fan interaction since the band's early days. The production style of these videos evolved from grassroots, DIY efforts in their initial releases to more polished, professional executions following their 2015 EP All the Lights, allowing for deeper narrative exploration aligned with their pop rock sound. The 2015 video for "Model" presents a centered on and embracing authenticity, complementing the song's message against superficial standards. Released on October 26, 2015, it marked a turning point in their visual output with its thematic depth. In 2017, the "" video, a with Great Good Fine Ok, adopts a travel-themed concept filmed across multiple locations to evoke a sense of journey and self-discovery, enhancing the track's reflective tone from their album love, pain, & retrospect. The same year's "Strangers" release featured an emotional storyline involving , depicting the dissolution of a relationship and the pain of becoming distant, which resonated with fans through its relatable drama. More recently, the 2022 collaboration "Paradise" with Great Good Fine Ok incorporated accompanying visuals that capture a utopian, escapist vibe, supporting the single's upbeat elements. For their 2024 singles, including "Beauty Never Fade," the band opted for lyric videos to provide straightforward visual support, focusing on textual emphasis to highlight poignant lyrics while sustaining online engagement.

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