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Dave Bry (December 18, 1970[1] – October 15, 2017)[2] was an American writer, music journalist, and editor. He served as editor of Vibe, Spin, and XXL and was a columnist for The Awl.[3] He also authored a non-fiction book, Public Apology: In Which a Man Grapples with a Lifetime of Regret, One Incident at a Time (Grand Central, 2013).

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Early life

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Bry was born in 1970 in Red Bank, New Jersey and raised in nearby Little Silver. His father was a psychologist and his mother was a faculty member at the Rutgers University Graduate School of Applied and Professional Psychology.[1] Bry attended Red Bank Regional High School[4] then Connecticut College,[5][6] where one of his freshman roommates was Sean Spicer.[7]

Career

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Public Apology

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Begun in 2009 as a column for The Awl,[8] Public Apology is an epistolary memoir in which Bry recounted his life via letters of apology for what Nathan Deuel described in Bookforum as "misdeeds great and small"; Deuel praised the book's "slyly understated style," saying "Bry’s restraint lends his prose its own brand of keenness and charisma."[9][10][11]

In Rolling Stone, Patrick Doyle described the book as "a window into growing up in the late Eighties, when John Hughes films and Def Leppard ruled the world."[6]

Death

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Bry died of cancer on October 15, 2017 in Brooklyn at the age of 46.[3]

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Dave Bry (December 18, 1970 – October 15, 2017) was an American music journalist, editor, and author known for his roles at prominent music magazines and his memoir reflecting on personal regrets. He served as an editor at Vibe, Spin, and XXL, where he helped shape coverage of hip-hop culture and contemporary music during key periods in the genres' evolution. Bry's writing extended beyond editing, including contributions as a columnist for The Awl and freelance pieces for outlets such as The Guardian and The New Republic . His 2013 memoir, Public Apology: In Which a Man Grapples With a Lifetime of Regret, One Incident at a Time, received attention for its humorous yet poignant exploration of everyday mistakes and self-reflection. He passed away on October 15, 2017, at age 46 after a battle with cancer.

Early life

Family background and childhood

Dave Bry was born in 1971 in Red Bank, New Jersey, and raised in the nearby town of Little Silver. His mother, Brenna Bry, was a professor emerita in the Department of Clinical Psychology at Rutgers University's Graduate School of Applied and Professional Psychology, where she specialized in prevention and early intervention for adolescent issues such as school failure, substance abuse, and juvenile delinquency. Limited public sources provide further details on his childhood experiences or early influences. His father predeceased him, as he is not listed among survivors in accounts of Bry's death.

Education

Dave Bry graduated from Red Bank Regional High School in Little Silver, New Jersey. He subsequently attended Connecticut College in New London, Connecticut. During his freshman year at Connecticut College, one of Bry's roommates was Sean Spicer, who later served as White House Press Secretary. Bry recounted this experience in a 2016 Guardian article, describing their brief shared living arrangement in a triple dorm room during orientation, where Spicer campaigned for class president by distributing beers to fellow freshmen while standing on Bry's bed. Bry characterized his former roommate at the time as a "nice guy" and "kind of a goofball," though they were not close friends.

Career

Editorial roles in music magazines

Dave Bry held editorial positions at several prominent music magazines, including Vibe, Spin, and XXL, where he contributed to music journalism with a particular emphasis on hip-hop culture. He served as features editor at XXL, authoring in-depth interviews and articles during his tenure there, including a notable 2005 conversation with Jay-Z. Specific timelines for his roles at Vibe and Spin are not precisely documented in major sources, though his work at XXL concluded around 2009 following his departure from the publication. The loss of his editor position at XXL marked the beginning of a challenging period in his professional life. After these magazine roles, Bry shifted toward online writing and independent columns.

Online writing and columns

Dave Bry became a prolific early contributor to The Awl shortly after its founding in 2009. He launched his signature "Public Apology" column series that same year, beginning with installments such as an open letter reflecting on a past mistake involving actor Robert Sean Leonard. The series, consisting of humorous yet introspective apologies addressed to individuals from his life for various regrets and slights, quickly established itself as one of the site's defining features. Tributes following his death highlighted Bry's generous and humane writing style, describing the column as brilliant and sweetly written in its blend of self-deprecation and empathy. Beyond The Awl, Bry contributed freelance pieces to other outlets, including The Guardian, where he maintained a profile and published commentary. He also wrote for True/Slant, notably in a series titled "Death & Parenting." The "Public Apology" column later provided the foundation for his book of the same name. Bry appeared as himself in the 2016 short documentary Dissertation: A KanYe West Story.

Published book

Dave Bry's only published book is Public Apology: In Which a Man Grapples With a Lifetime of Regret, One Incident at a Time, released by Grand Central Publishing in 2013. The work originated from his "Public Apology" column series at The Awl, which began in 2009, and expands those pieces into a cohesive epistolary memoir consisting of letters in which Bry apologizes for a range of personal incidents and regrets from his life. The book features humorous and moving reflections on everyday embarrassments, mistakes, and emotional moments, often tied to his experiences growing up in the 1980s and 1990s. Reviewers praised its restrained yet charismatic style, noting the effective balance of self-deprecation, sincerity, and wit in addressing lifelong regrets.

Personal life

Marriage and family

Dave Bry married Emily Raimes in 2001, and the couple remained together until his death in 2017. They had one son, Asa, and lived in Brooklyn, New York. Bry was survived by his wife and son.

Death

Illness and death

Dave Bry was diagnosed with cancer and died on October 15, 2017, after a battle with the disease, at the age of 46. He passed away in New York City. He is survived by his wife of 16 years, Emily Raimes, and their 12-year-old son. Tributes from colleagues and friends emphasized his generosity, humor, decency, and prolific contributions as a writer and editor. The Awl, where he was a longtime and highly prolific contributor, noted his passing on October 15, 2017, and remembered his integral role since shortly after the site's inception. An announcement shared on his social media account described how he lived life with joy, humor, music, and friendship.

References

  1. https://variety.com/2017/music/news/dave-bry-author-and-former-editor-at-vibe-xxl-and-spin-dies-1202590856/
  2. https://www.theawl.com/2017/10/dave-bry-1970-2017/
  3. https://www.theguardian.com/profile/dave-bry
  4. https://newrepublic.com/authors/dave-bry
  5. https://patch.com/new-jersey/littlesilver/little-silver-author-dave-bry-is-sorry
  6. https://gsapp.rutgers.edu/brenna-bry
  7. https://alumni.denison.edu/citations/brenna-hafer-bry/
  8. https://www.huffpost.com/author/dave-bry
  9. https://www.theawl.com/2017/04/roommate-recalled/
  10. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/jul/20/donald-trump-rnc-sean-spicer-my-little-pony-melania-plagiarism
  11. https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/dave-bry-apologizes-to-bon-jovi-bob-mould-in-new-memoir-236031/
  12. https://www.xxlmag.com/jay-z-look-at-me-now-originally-published-august-2005/
  13. https://medium.com/the-awl/public-apology-dear-robert-sean-leonard-3b38fd4e01f9
  14. https://www.bookforum.com/culture/public-apology-by-dave-bry-11182
  15. https://lastwordonnothing.com/2018/01/19/the-awl-died/
  16. https://www.amazon.com/Public-Apology-Grapples-Lifetime-Incident/dp/1455509167
  17. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5463158/
  18. https://www.publishersweekly.com/9781455509164
  19. https://grpl.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S158C46720760
  20. https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/public-apology-in-which-a-man-grapples-with-a-lifetime-of-regret-one-incident-at-a-time_dave-bry/973790/
  21. https://booksrun.com/9781455509164-public-apology-in-which-a-man-grapples-with-a-lifetime-of-regret-one-incident-at-a-time
  22. https://www.imdb.com/name/nm7922349/bio/
  23. https://x.com/davebry9/status/919703024205000704
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