How to Be Lonely

"How to Be Lonely"
"How to Be Lonely"
Single by Rita Ora
Released	13 March 2020
Genre	Pop
Length	2:55
Label	Atlantic
Songwriter(s)	Lewis Capaldi; Peter Rycroft; Thomas Mann;
Producer(s)	aboutagirl;
Rita Ora singles chronology

"How to Be Lonely" is a song by British singer Rita Ora, released as a single through Atlantic Records UK on 13 March 2020.

Composition

"How to Be Lonely" is a mid-tempo ballad that deals with themes about "battling insecurity".^[3]^[4]

Critical reception

Mike Wass of Idolator wrote that the song is a "nice way to kick off an era" that "does showcase the 'Anywhere' singer's powerful pipes and growth as an artist".^[3] Rob Copsey of the Official Charts Company wrote that the song features "opening guitar strums[,] Coldplay-sized chantalong chorus [and] catchy finger snaps, punchy electronic beats and some killer adlibs", concluding that Ora's "take on ugly crying powerhouse pop is masterfully done".^[1]

Music video

In the music video, directed by Dave Meyers, Ora is in an empty room alone and then alone with a lot of people.^[5] An arrow hits her.^[6] In the next scene, she is walking in a room filled with eggshells. Then, she is dancing with a skeleton and a bear hugs her. After that, she falls into the sky.^[7] Then she smashes a wall with a baseball bat.^[8] A UFO lands.^[9]

Live performances

Ora performed the song live at BBC's Sport Relief 2020 telethon on 13 March.^[10]

Track listings

Digital download / streaming^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" – 2:55

Digital download / streaming - Live from London^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (Live from London) – 2:56

Digital download / streaming - MÖWE Remix^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (MÖWE Remix) – 2:54

Digital download / streaming - aboutagirl Remix^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (aboutagirl Remix) – 3:23

Digital download / streaming - LARI LUKE Remix^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (LARI LUKE Remix) – 3:21

Digital download / streaming - Sam Feldt Remix^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (Sam Feldt Remix) – 3:11

Digital download / streaming - Bomba Estéreo Remix Remix^[11]

"How to Be Lonely" (Bomba Estéreo Remix) – 2:50

Personnel

Credits adapted from Tidal.^[12]

Rita Ora - vocals
Lostboy – producer
Tom Mann - producer, background vocals, bass, drums, guitar, keyboard, programming, synthesizer, vocal production, writer
aboutagirl - producer
Siba - additional producer
Amanda Merdzan - assistant engineer

Matt Wolach - assistant mix engineer
Michael Freeman - assistant mix engineer
Lewis Capaldi - songwriter, background vocals, guitar
Mark "Spike" Stent - mastering, mixing
Stuart Hawkes - mastering
Cameron Gower Pool - vocal production
Peter Rycroft - writer

Charts

Chart (2020)	Peak position
Australia Airplay (Radiomonitor)^[13]	32
Belgium (Ultratip Bubbling Under Flanders)^[14]	4
Croatia (HRT)^[15]	17
France (SNEP Sales Chart)^[16]	142
Ireland (IRMA)^[17]	96
Netherlands (Dutch Top 40)^[18]	40
New Zealand Hot Singles (RMNZ)^[19]	19
Poland (Polish Airplay Top 100)^[20]	33
Scotland (OCC)^[21]	8
UK Singles (OCC)^[22]	57

Release history

Country	Date	Format	Version	Label	Ref.
Various	13 March 2020	Digital download streaming	Original single	Atlantic Records Warner Music ^[a]	^[11]
	10 April 2020		Live from London
	17 April 2020		MÖWE Remix
	24 April 2020		aboutagirl Remix
			LARI LUKE Remix
			Sam Feldt Remix
	1 May 2020		Bomba Estéreo Remix Remix

^{^[a]} Ora is signed to Atlantic Records UK who distribute her music in the UK, Warner Records handle releases elsewhere in the world^[11] except several Asian countries licensed by Sony Music Entertainment Asia.^[23]

References

^ ^a ^b Copsey, Rob (11 March 2020). "Rita Ora is learning to love herself on new Lewis Capaldi-penned single How To Be Lonely: First listen review". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 13 March 2020.
^ "aboutagirl release their new track 'SnOoZe'". May 2020.
^ ^a ^b Wass, Mike (13 March 2020). "Rita Ora Returns With New Single "How To Be Lonely"". Idolator. Retrieved 13 March 2020.^{[dead link]}
^ Daly, Rhian (9 March 2020). "Lewis Capaldi gave Rita Ora new single 'How To Be Lonely' because he was "shite" at singing it". NME. Retrieved 13 March 2020.
^ Zemler, Emily (2020-03-13). "Rita Ora Learns to Love Herself on 'How to Be Lonely'". Rolling Stone. Retrieved 2021-12-18.
^ Alston, Trey. "Galactic Shootouts, Skeletal Seduction: What's Going On In Rita Ora's 'How To Be Lonely' Video?". MTV News. Archived from the original on March 27, 2020. Retrieved 2021-12-18.
^ "Rita Ora- How To Be Lonely (Trailer) Video". YouListener. 2020-03-26. Retrieved 2021-12-18.
^ "There's something about Rita". The Face. Retrieved 2021-12-18.
^ "So Much Just … Happens in Rita Ora's 'How to Be Lonely' Video". Vulture. Retrieved 2021-12-18.
^ Fenwick, George (11 March 2020). "Rita Ora and Pussycat Dolls lead Sport Relief 2020 musical line-up". Evening Standard. Retrieved 13 March 2020.
^ ^a ^b ^c ^d ^e ^f ^g ^h ⁱ "Dutchcharts.nl – Rita Ora – How To Be Lonely". MegaCharts (in Dutch). Retrieved 18 April 2020.
^ "Try the TIDAL Web Player".
^ "HOT 100 Issue 1286". The Music Network. Retrieved 20 August 2020.
^ "Rita Ora – How to Be Lonely" (in Dutch). Ultratip. Retrieved 12 June 2020.
^ "Croatia ARC TOP 100" (in Croatian). HRT. Retrieved 24 April 2020.^{[permanent dead link]}
^ "Rita Ora – How To Be Lonely". PureMédias.
^ "Irish-charts.com – Discography Rita Ora". Irish Singles Chart. Retrieved 6 April 2020.
^ "Nederlandse Top 40 – week 18, 2020" (in Dutch). Dutch Top 40. Retrieved 1 May 2020.
^ "NZ Hot Singles Chart". Recorded Music NZ. 23 March 2020. Retrieved 21 March 2020.
^ "Listy bestsellerów, wyróżnienia :: Związek Producentów Audio-Video". Polish Airplay Top 100. Retrieved 22 June 2020.
^ "Official Scottish Singles Sales Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 21 March 2020.
^ "Official Singles Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 21 March 2020.
^ Streaming — "Rita Ora - Let You Love Me". Apple Music. 21 September 2018. Retrieved 1 October 2018.

[OCC-1] Copsey, Rob (11 March 2020). "Rita Ora is learning to love herself on new Lewis Capaldi-penned single How To Be Lonely: First listen review". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 13 March 2020.

[2] "aboutagirl release their new track 'SnOoZe'". May 2020.

[Idolator-3] Wass, Mike (13 March 2020). "Rita Ora Returns With New Single "How To Be Lonely"". Idolator. Retrieved 13 March 2020.^{[dead link]}

[NME-4] Daly, Rhian (9 March 2020). "Lewis Capaldi gave Rita Ora new single 'How To Be Lonely' because he was "shite" at singing it". NME. Retrieved 13 March 2020.

[5] Zemler, Emily (2020-03-13). "Rita Ora Learns to Love Herself on 'How to Be Lonely'". Rolling Stone. Retrieved 2021-12-18.

[6] Alston, Trey. "Galactic Shootouts, Skeletal Seduction: What's Going On In Rita Ora's 'How To Be Lonely' Video?". MTV News. Archived from the original on March 27, 2020. Retrieved 2021-12-18.

[7] "Rita Ora- How To Be Lonely (Trailer) Video". YouListener. 2020-03-26. Retrieved 2021-12-18.

[8] "There's something about Rita". The Face. Retrieved 2021-12-18.

[9] "So Much Just … Happens in Rita Ora's 'How to Be Lonely' Video". Vulture. Retrieved 2021-12-18.

[10] Fenwick, George (11 March 2020). "Rita Ora and Pussycat Dolls lead Sport Relief 2020 musical line-up". Evening Standard. Retrieved 13 March 2020.

[Releases-11] ^ ^a ^b ^c ^d ^e ^f ^g ^h ⁱ "Dutchcharts.nl – Rita Ora – How To Be Lonely". MegaCharts (in Dutch). Retrieved 18 April 2020.

[12] "Try the TIDAL Web Player".

[13] "HOT 100 Issue 1286". The Music Network. Retrieved 20 August 2020.

[sc_Flanders_Tip_Rita_Ora-14] "Rita Ora – How to Be Lonely" (in Dutch). Ultratip. Retrieved 12 June 2020.

[15] "Croatia ARC TOP 100" (in Croatian). HRT. Retrieved 24 April 2020.^{[permanent dead link]}

[16] "Rita Ora – How To Be Lonely". PureMédias.

[sc_Ireland3_Rita_Ora-17] "Irish-charts.com – Discography Rita Ora". Irish Singles Chart. Retrieved 6 April 2020.

[sc_Dutch40_-18] "Nederlandse Top 40 – week 18, 2020" (in Dutch). Dutch Top 40. Retrieved 1 May 2020.

[19] "NZ Hot Singles Chart". Recorded Music NZ. 23 March 2020. Retrieved 21 March 2020.

[sc_Poland_-20] "Listy bestsellerów, wyróżnienia :: Związek Producentów Audio-Video". Polish Airplay Top 100. Retrieved 22 June 2020.

[sc_Scotland_-21] "Official Scottish Singles Sales Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 21 March 2020.

[sc_UK_-22] "Official Singles Chart Top 100". Official Charts Company. Retrieved 21 March 2020.

[23] Streaming — "Rita Ora - Let You Love Me". Apple Music. 21 September 2018. Retrieved 1 October 2018.

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Studio albums	Ora Phoenix You & I
EPs	Bang
Singles	"How We Do (Party)" "R.I.P." "Shine Ya Light" "Radioactive" "I Will Never Let You Down" "Poison" "Body on Me" "Coming Home" "Your Song" "Anywhere" "For You" "Girls" "Let You Love Me" "Only Want You" "Carry On" "Ritual" "How to Be Lonely" "Big" "You for Me" "Follow Me" "You Only Love Me" "Praising You" "Don't Think Twice" "Ask & You Shall Receive"
Featured singles	"Where's Your Love" "Hot Right Now" "Lay Down Your Weapons" "Black Widow" "Doing It" "New York Raining" "Lonely Together" "R.I.P."
Promotional singles	"Bang Bang"
Other songs	"Torn Apart" "Grateful" "After the Afterparty (VIP Mix)"
Concert tours	Ora Radioactive The Girls Phoenix
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