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Margo Howard (née Lederer; born March 15, 1940) is an American writer and former advice columnist. She is the only child of businessman/innovator Jules Lederer and Eppie Lederer (better known as Ann Landers after her long-time advice column Ask Ann Landers), the niece of Pauline Phillips, and the cousin of Jeanne Phillips (the latter two both better known as Abigail Van Buren and authors of the advice column Dear Abby).[1]

Biography

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Early life and education

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Howard was born in Sioux City, Iowa, to Eppie (née Esther Pauline Friedman) and Jules Lederer, a businessman and eventually the founder of Budget-Rent-A-Car International. She attended Brandeis University but dropped out to marry, after which she worked at the Chicago Tribune and Chicago Daily News, and wrote for The New Republic, People, The Nation, and Boston Magazine. She wrote a syndicated social commentary column, Margo, in the 1970s.[2]

Career

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For eight years, Howard wrote the Dear Prudence column featured in Slate magazine. Dear Prudence also was featured on National Public Radio and syndicated in more than 200 newspapers. In February 2006, she left the Dear Prudence column, and began writing a Dear Margo column for Yahoo, then for Women on the Web (wowowow.com) through Creators Syndicate. On May 11, 2013, Howard ended the Dear Margo column, announcing that she was retiring from writing on a deadline and saying, "I plan to write long-form pieces as the spirit moves me".[3]

Her aunt, Pauline Esther Friedman "Popo" Phillips, wrote the Dear Abby column. Although her mother and aunt were twin sisters, and close while growing up, an intense rivalry developed between them because of their columns.[4] In an echo of that rivalry, Howard and her aunt never got along,[5] and she has had public differences with her cousin Jeanne Phillips,[4] who took over the Dear Abby column when her mother died.

In 2014, Howard published Eat, Drink, and Remarry: Confessions of a Serial Wife, reminisces of her four marriages.[6]

Marriages and family

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Howard has been married four times: first to John Coleman (1962–1967); second to Jules Furth (1971–1976); third to the actor Ken Howard (1977–1991); fourth (and currently) to Ronald Weintraub, a Boston cardiac surgeon. After her divorce from Howard, she retained the surname for professional use.

Howard has three children by Coleman: two daughters, Abra and Andrea, and a son, Adam Coleman Howard, who is an actor and director.[7]

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Margo Howard (born March 15, 1940) is an American writer and former advice columnist, renowned as the only child of pioneering advice columnist , who wrote under the pen name Ann Landers for over four decades. Born and raised in , , Howard grew up immersed in her mother's world of letters and counsel on relationships, though she initially pursued a career in rather than advice-giving. Howard attended but left before graduating in 1962 to marry, later establishing herself as a feature writer and columnist for major publications. Her early career included stints at the Chicago Tribune and Chicago Daily News, where she penned long-form features and a thrice-weekly social commentary column titled "Margo," which was syndicated in over 200 newspapers. Over three decades, she contributed to prestigious outlets such as The New Republic, The Nation, People, , , New York Newsday, and Boston Magazine, honing a witty, incisive style focused on culture and personal matters. At age 58, Howard entered the family trade by taking over the "Dear Prudence" advice column for Slate in 1998, which she wrote for eight years and syndicated to 200 newspapers and NPR's Day to Day. She later transitioned to "Dear Margo" for Yahoo! News and wowOwow.com, offering humorous yet candid responses to readers' dilemmas on love, family, and etiquette until she retired from her regular syndicated columns in 2013, though she has continued to contribute occasional pieces to Slate and other outlets as of 2025. Her work often drew comparisons to her mother's, though Howard emphasized her own irreverent approach, influenced by her aunt Pauline Phillips, who wrote as "Dear Abby." In addition to journalism, Howard authored three books, including biographies of her mother—Eppie: The Story of Ann Landers (1982) and A Life in Letters: Ann Landers' Letters to Her —as well as the memoir (2011), which chronicles her four marriages and offers self-deprecating lessons on relationships. Now residing in , with her fourth husband, retired cardiac surgeon Dr. Ronald Weintraub, whom she married in 2001, Howard has three adult children from her first marriage and remains active, contributing occasional advice columns to and sharing observations on contemporary life via op-eds and as of 2025. Her legacy bridges generational advice traditions while carving a distinct path as a sharp-witted commentator on American social norms.

Early Years

Birth and Family Background

Margo Howard was born Margo Lederer on March 15, 1940, in , the only child of Jules Lederer and Esther "Eppie" Lederer (née Friedman). Her father, Jules Lederer, was a businessman who formed the Budget Rent-a-Car Corporation in in 1960, building it into one of the largest companies in the United States after acquiring the initial franchise founded by Morris Mirkin in 1958, through innovative leasing strategies and expansion. Her mother, Eppie Lederer, became a prominent figure in American media as the syndicated advice columnist Ann Landers, writing the column from 1955 until her death in 2002 and reaching millions of readers daily with her straightforward counsel on personal and family matters. The Lederers, part of a prominent Jewish-American family with roots in Russian immigrant communities, relocated from Sioux City to in 1954 when Margo was 14 years old, after Jules accepted a position heading a firm there. This move established the family in Chicago's intellectual and business circles, where Eppie's rising fame as Ann Landers and Jules's entrepreneurial success drew significant public attention. Margo was the niece of , Eppie's identical twin and the creator of the rival , and first cousin to , who later took over . The twins' columns, both syndicated nationally, fostered a notable professional rivalry that emerged in the over similar content and newspaper placements, creating occasional family tensions that permeated Margo's early environment. From a young age, Margo experienced the intense media scrutiny and public life surrounding her parents' high-profile careers, including the behind-the-scenes dynamics of the world and the contrasting paths of business innovation and journalistic influence that shaped her family's identity.

Education and Early Influences

Margo Howard attended beginning in the fall of 1959, immersing herself in the liberal arts curriculum of the newly established institution. As a student, she engaged deeply with intellectual discourse, admiring professors such as John Van Doren, , , , and , whose teachings in literature, philosophy, and sparked her interest in writing and broader social sciences. She later reflected on her time there as filled with stimulating reading and conversations, though she wished she had applied herself more rigorously to her studies. In 1962, Howard dropped out of Brandeis shortly before graduation to marry her first husband, John Coleman, a decision shaped by the societal pressures on women of her generation to prioritize and over higher education. Born in 1940, she entered college amid post-World War II expectations that often directed young women toward domestic roles, a norm her subtly reinforced through its emphasis on traditional milestones. Growing up in a prominent Jewish-American in after the family settled there in 1954, Howard was influenced by an environment that valued education, public service, and sharp-witted communication. Her mother, (known as Ann Landers), who launched her in 1955 when Howard was 15, provided early exposure to through discussions of her work and letters sent to Howard at Brandeis about publishing opportunities. This familial connection, combined with 's vibrant intellectual scene, fostered Howard's appreciation for articulate expression and social commentary. Prior to her , Howard's personal experiences were guided by her mother's counsel, including restrictions on dating non-Jewish partners during her college years to align with cultural expectations within their Jewish family. Despite limited formal due to earlier family moves, the household's cultural emphasized familiarity and comfort in shared traditions, subtly shaping her worldview and early forays into personal writing influenced by her mother's example.

Career

Early Journalism

Margo Howard began her professional journalism career in the late 1960s at the Chicago Tribune, where she worked as a feature writer and reporter, focusing on lifestyle topics, women's issues, and social trends such as the feminist movement and the Playboy Club. At age 29, she quickly advanced to writing a column, demonstrating her early aptitude for engaging commentary. Seeking greater opportunities for syndication, Howard transitioned to the shortly after, where she penned a thrice-weekly column titled Margo under The Field Syndicate, one of the leading syndication services at the time. Her work there emphasized , blending sharp observations on contemporary culture with a humorous edge that distinguished her voice. In the 1970s, following her move to in 1977, Howard shifted to freelance magazine writing, contributing articles on relationships, family dynamics, and celebrity profiles to outlets including People, The Nation, and The New Republic. This period allowed her to explore broader societal topics while honing a concise, direct, and witty style, influenced by her mother's epistolary approach but applied to general features rather than personal advice. As a working mother of three young children from her first marriage, Howard navigated significant challenges in balancing her demanding career with family responsibilities, often relying on housekeepers and nannies for support. She occasionally took part-time roles to accommodate childcare needs, reflecting the era's limited options for professional women, though she later reflected on these years with self-deprecating humor about imperfect parenting moments. Her experiences as a single mother post-divorce in 1967 further shaped her resilient approach to juggling deadlines and domestic life.

Advice Column Work

Building on her journalism background, she launched her first prominent advice column, "Dear Prudence," for Slate magazine in 1998, continuing it for eight years until 2006. In this role, Howard addressed online reader queries about relationships, ethics, and contemporary personal dilemmas, delivering responses in a characteristically no-nonsense tone that emphasized straightforward guidance. Following the conclusion of "Dear Prudence," Howard transitioned to "Dear Margo," which she began in 2006 initially for Yahoo News and later expanded through contributions to WOWOWOW.com in the mid-2000s. The column was syndicated via Creators Syndicate starting around that time and reached over 200 newspapers, allowing Howard to offer weekly advice on a broad range of interpersonal issues. Her signature style featured blunt yet empathetic and pragmatic counsel, often informed by her own life experiences—such as multiple marriages—without direct self-referential anecdotes, and she was particularly noted for tackling taboo subjects like divorce and infidelity with candor. In July 2013, Howard announced her retirement from "Dear Margo" at age 73, expressing fatigue from the relentless pressure of weekly deadlines and a desire to pursue longer-form writing. Despite stepping away from regular columns, she has made occasional guest appearances, including collaborations with on "Dear Prudence" queries in 2024.

Books and Later Writings

Margo Howard authored her first book, Eppie: The Story of Ann Landers, in 1982, a biography chronicling the life and career of her mother, the renowned advice columnist , known as Ann Landers. The work draws on personal insights and family history to explore Lederer's rise in and her impact on American . In 2003, Howard edited and contributed to A Life in Letters: Ann Landers' Letters to Her Daughter, compiling over 40 years of correspondence from her mother, which offered glimpses into their relationship and the behind-the-scenes world of syndicated advice. This highlighted themes of family dynamics and professional legacy, blending Howard's annotations with the original letters. Howard's 2014 memoir, Eat, Drink, and Remarry: Confessions of a Serial Wife, provided a humorous and reflective account of her four marriages, emphasizing lessons on relationships, resilience, and personal growth. Published by Harlequin, the book incorporated feminist perspectives on independence and self-discovery, often weaving in Jewish cultural references from her upbringing. Following her retirement from regular advice columns in 2013, Howard contributed occasional essays and guest pieces to various outlets. In June 2019, she relaunched her mother's "Ask Ann Landers" column online at annlanders.com, adapting classic advice for contemporary readers. In January 2024, she penned a guest column for Slate magazine titled "I Figured Out a Workaround for the Housing Crisis. My Boomer In-Laws Do Not Approve," offering practical advice on intergenerational living arrangements amid economic challenges. That September, she published an op-ed in The Boston Globe, "I Don't Like Old People," where she candidly discussed aging, social isolation among the elderly, and the importance of intergenerational connections. Howard has maintained an active presence on X (formerly ) under the handle @Margoandhow since joining in March 2010, where she shares political and , blending personal anecdotes with critiques of contemporary issues. As of November 2025, her posts continue to engage followers on topics ranging from current events to cultural observations. Throughout her later writings, Howard frequently explores themes of aging, , and , using personal stories to critique societal norms and advocate for women's autonomy. These pieces often reflect her experience as a foundation for broader societal analysis, without delving into syndicated formats.

Personal Life

Marriages

Margo Howard's first marriage was to John Coleman, a financier and hotel developer, in 1962 while she was attending Brandeis University; the couple met in Boston as fellow Chicagoans, and the union lasted until their divorce in 1967 amid growing personal differences. Her second marriage, to Jules Furth, a funeral director, began on June 27, 1971, and was a shorter arrangement sought for stability following her previous divorce; it ended amicably in 1976, with Howard later citing boredom as a key factor in its dissolution. Howard's third marriage was to actor on March 13, 1977; they met when she interviewed him in for a story on the play Equus, and the relationship provided exposure to Hollywood while offering mutual career support, though it concluded in divorce in 1992 due to fundamental incompatibilities. She has been married to Ronald Weintraub, a cardiac surgeon, since December 23, 2001, a partnership she has described as her most enduring and supportive to date. Across her four marriages, three of her husbands—Coleman, Furth, and Weintraub—were Jewish, while her third husband, , was not, a choice that deviated from her mother's preference for Jewish partners but ultimately received familial approval; in her memoir Eat, Drink, and Remarry: Confessions of a Serial Wife, she reflects on embracing her "serial wife" identity, drawing lessons about the importance of compatibility and recognizing as a valid ground for .

Children and Family Relationships

Margo Howard has three children from her first marriage to John Coleman: daughters Abra and , and son Coleman Howard, an , screenwriter, and director. Howard has described maintaining close relationships with her children, who pursued diverse paths—Abra as a homemaker in , as a in , and as a filmmaker in —while navigating the public scrutiny tied to her high-profile family background. , her only son, is also the stepson of from her third marriage. The longstanding professional rivalry between Howard's mother, Ann Landers (Eppie Lederer), and her twin sister, (), created tensions that extended to family dynamics, including limited closeness between Howard and her aunt or cousin , who succeeded . This feud, which involved years of non-communication between the twins and public disputes between their daughters in the early 2000s, impacted family interactions and gatherings. In her later years, Howard has embraced grandparenting, particularly with Abra's three children, while prioritizing privacy for her despite her public career in advice columns. She has continued to foster ties among her children's families, emphasizing personal bonds over professional legacies.

Legacy and Influence

Familial Connections in Advice World

Margo Howard, as the only daughter of Esther "Eppie" Lederer (Ann Landers), inherited a deep immersion in the tradition from an early age, with her mother launching the column in 1955 when Howard was just 15 years old. Growing up in a household where letters from readers poured in daily, Howard witnessed firsthand the process of sifting through queries and crafting responses, an experience that shaped her later career in journalism and advice-giving. This exposure contrasted sharply with the style of her aunt, (), whose column, starting in 1956, adopted a snappier, more concise tone compared to Ann Landers' direct, often lengthy and serious approach to ethical dilemmas. The familial ties were strained by a prominent between the twin sisters, escalating in the late over syndication exclusivity after Phillips launched "" at a reduced rate, directly competing with Landers' established column. Initially, the sisters attempted a truce by agreeing not to bid against each other in the same markets, but tensions persisted, leading to a public reconciliation in 1964 amid ongoing professional competition that affected their close-knit family dynamics. Howard, caught in the middle as a , maintained a neutral personal stance amid the discord, focusing on her own emerging interests rather than the column wars. This legacy extended to the next generation through Howard's cousin , who assumed primary authorship of "" around 2000 as her mother battled Alzheimer's, evolving the column into a family-run enterprise that Howard has occasionally critiqued for its perceived limitations in depth compared to her mother's work. The family's Jewish heritage profoundly influenced their advice, emphasizing community values, ethical guidance, and debates on intermarriage; Ann Landers initially advised against it to preserve cultural continuity, a view rooted in their Russian-Jewish immigrant background and synagogue upbringing, though she later softened her stance on personal freedoms. Despite this storied lineage, Howard differentiated herself by pursuing an independent path in advice-giving, avoiding direct competition with the family columns and leveraging her name recognition for a modern online role at from 1998 to 2006, where she offered candid, contemporary insights unbound by the traditional newspaper format. Margo Howard played a pivotal role in popularizing online advice columns by launching 's "" in 1998, where she served as the inaugural writer for eight years, adapting the traditional format to the internet's emphasis on , rapid responses, and digital readership. This shift marked an early transition of advice literature to web-based platforms, allowing for broader accessibility and a more conversational tone that resonated with tech-savvy audiences during the late 1990s dot-com era. In her columns and memoir Eat, Drink and Remarry: Confessions of a Serial Wife (2014), Howard infused feminist perspectives that championed women's autonomy, particularly in challenging mid-20th-century norms around , prioritization, and sexual agency. Drawing from her own experiences with four marriages, she frequently advised readers to prioritize personal fulfillment over societal expectations of lifelong , advocating for as a viable path to rather than a —a stance that contrasted with more conservative era views while building on her mother's progressive legacy in supporting the . Her emphasis on "serial " as a modern relational model further promoted feminist ideals of evolving partnerships suited to women's independence. Howard's media appearances amplified her cultural voice, including a 2014 Vanity Fair profile where she discussed her "big life" of analysis, multiple marriages, and advice-giving, urging younger women not to rush into commitments. In a 2015 WBUR , she explored aging gracefully through and reflected on her mother's feminist influence, highlighting how personal history informed her blunt, empowering counsel on relationships. These discussions positioned her as a bridge between classic advice traditions and contemporary dialogues on dynamics. Her work influenced successors in the advice genre, inspiring a confessional style seen in columnists like , who credited the Landers-Howard lineage, and contributing to the evolution noted in modern retrospectives, such as the Chicago Tribune's 2024 coverage of shifts following Amy Dickinson's retirement. By originating Slate's enduring "" format, Howard paved the way for its continuation under writers like and Daniel Mallory Ortberg, embedding her witty, no-nonsense approach into digital advice culture. As of 2025, Howard's cultural footprint persists through widely shared quotes from her columns and book, such as her advice to "don't be in such a hurry" in relationships, which appear in compilations on and resilience. Her sharp retorts on and in a 2024 Boston Globe op-ed critiquing further demonstrate her ongoing relevance in discussions of aging, , and relational wisdom. In June 2025, she published an op-ed in reflecting on friendships and travel in later life.

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