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Find Yourself
Chinese下一站是幸福
Hanyu PinyinXiàyízhàn Shì Xìngfú
GenreRomantic comedy
Written byShui Qianmo
Wang Xiongcheng
Directed byDing Xinguang
StarringVictoria Song
Song Weilong
Wang Yaoqing
Country of originChina
Original languageMandarin
No. of episodes41
Production
ProducerLong Ya
Production companyHuace Media
Original release
NetworkHunan TV
ReleaseJanuary 26, 2020 (2020-01-26)

Find Yourself (Chinese: 下一站是幸福; pinyin: Xiàyízhàn Shì Xìngfú; lit. 'Next Stop Is Happiness') is a 2020 Chinese television series starring Victoria Song, Song Weilong and Wang Yaoqing.[1] The series airs on Hunan TV and Netflix starting January 26, 2020.[2]

Synopsis

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He Fanxing (Victoria Song) - a director of administration at a design company - is relentlessly pursued by the company intern Yuan Song (Song Weilong). Despite him being much younger, she eventually agrees to enter into a relationship on the condition of a three-month secrecy because she is highly concerned about how her parents and others may view their large age gap. Facing problems in their relationship, mature and dependable Ye Luming (Wang Yaoqing) - CEO of an advertising agency - appears in her life under the guise of a relationship mentor. Yet, Ye Luming has a secret agenda - to win He Fanxing over from Yuan Song.

The appearance of Ye Luming causes Yuan Song to feel insecure about his relationship with He Fanxing, which spurs the creation of misunderstandings between them. For He Fanxing, the choice between Yuan Song and Ye Luming is not merely about love, but also the expectation that she should uphold traditional relationship and marriage rules. As the misunderstanding between He Fanxing and Yuan Song worsens, Yuan Song attempts to reveal their relationship to the public at a masquerade ball, yet He Fanxing finds herself unable to accept this, and decides to break up with Yuan Song. To worsen her situation, her company faces the threat of acquisition by a rival design company Aijia, plunging her into a "mid-life" crisis.

Unbeknownst to all, He Canyang (Zhang Yujian) - He Fanxing's younger brother - enters into a relationship with Cai Minmin (Yu Shuxin) - Ye Luming's niece and Yuan Song's schoolmate - which dramatically complicates the already complex situation between the characters. He Fanxing tries to start a relationship with Ye Luming, which becomes immediately viewed by others as a highly compatible couple. He Fanxing's father is diagnosed with early-stage dementia, which makes her increasingly impatient to get married and have children for the sake of her parents. She decides to make a more conscious attempt to fall in love with Ye Luming. He Fanxing and Ye Luming attends the birthday party of Steven's - chairman of Aijia - daughter. Yet, they unexpectedly run into Yuan Song, who is revealed as Steven's son.

Eventually, He Fanxing finds that no matter how hard she tries to fall in love with Ye Luming, she is just unable to do so. Realising that his pursuit has become a lost cause, Ye Luming decides to end their relationship, and return to being friends. After breaking up, He Fanxing has become much clearer of what she wants in a relationship. Finding out that Yuan Song has gone to Suzhou with another girl to attend an architectural conference, He Fanxing abruptly rushes to follow him there, eventually reconciling and making their relationship public straight away. Yuan Song decides to study overseas, yet their relationship is not affected in any way because of the long distance. He Fanxing has also resigned from her job, instead opening a store and becoming a florist, finally achieving a sense of fulfilment in both her career and relationship.

Cast

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Main

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Actor Character Introduction
Victoria Song He Fanxing A career woman who is inexperienced in love.
Song Weilong Yuan Song A university student in love with He Fanxing.
Wang Yaoqing Ye Luming CEO of a company. He is romantically interested in He Fanxing.
Zhang Yujian He Canyang He Fanxing's younger brother. Yuan Song's advisor and close friend.
Yu Shuxin Cai Minmin He Canyang's love interest, Yuan Song’s University’s Junior and Lu Ming’s niece.

Supporting

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Actor Character Introduction
Fu Jia He Qingfeng Fanxing and Canyang's father.
Mary Ma Shen Hongmei Fanxing and Canyang's mother.
Yang Zhiying Cong Xiao Salesperson at Amazing Decoration.
Wei Zheming Chang Huan Designer at Amazing Decoration.
Cai Yatong Yang Xiaoyu Fanxing’s best friend
Zeng Li Wu Meiyin AIJIA’s director
Zhou Qiqi Song Xue Professor in University and Fanxing’s best friend.
Li Xian Jin Tian
Zhang Lei Li Mingliang
Wang Yuhao[3] Ding Da

Production

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Filming took place in Shanghai and Suzhou. The series began filming in September 2018, and wrapped up in November 2018.[4]

Ratings

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  • Highest ratings are marked in red, lowest ratings are marked in blue
Air date Hunan TV CSM59 City ratings[5] CSM National Network
Ratings (%) Audience share (%) Rank Ratings (%) Audience share (%) Rank
2020.1.26 1.657 4.98 3 1.02 3.3 1
2020.1.27 1.648 4.7 4 1.22 3.9 1
2020.1.28 1.78 4.95 3 1.3 4.01 1
2020.1.29 1.841 5.15 3 1.3 4.07 1
2020.1.30 1.834 5.11 3 1.53 4.78 1
2020.1.31 2.031 5.58 2 1.48 4.51 1
2020.2.1 2.432 6.78 1 1.56 4.81 1
2020.2.2 1.868 5.07 3 1.51 4.54 1
2020.2.3 2.162 5.89 1 1.7 5.08 1
2020.2.4 2.108 5.69 2 1.71 5.12 1
2020.2.5 2.461 6.63 1 1.87 5.62 1
2020.2.6 2.441 6.56 1 1.87 5.47 1
2020.2.7 1.977 4.87 3 1.6 4.28 1
2020.2.9 2.144 5.75 3 1.66 5.05 1
2020.2.10 2.413 6.94 1 1.85 6.06 1
2020.2.11 2.288 6.48 3 1.82 5.79 1
2020.2.12 2.533 7.26 1 1.98 6.46 1
2020.2.13 2.238 6.44 4 1.85 6.15 1
2020.2.14 2.191 5.6 3 1.78 5.06 1
2020.2.15 2.073 5.2 3 1.6 4.48 1
2020.2.16 2.415 6.56 2 1.84 5.6 1
2020.2.17 2.968 8.77 1 2.05 6.86 1
2020.2.18 2.363 6.19 3 1.91 5.5 1

Award and nominations

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Award Category Nominee Result ref.
30th China TV Golden Eagle Award Outstanding Television Series Find Yourself Nominated [6][7]
Audience's Choice for Actress Victoria Song Nominated
Yu Shuxin Nominated

References

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from Grokipedia
Find Yourself (Chinese: 下一站是幸福; pinyin: Xià Yī Zhàn Shì Xìngfú) is a 2020 Chinese romantic drama television series directed by Ding Zi Guang and starring , Song Weilong, and . Consisting of 41 episodes, each approximately 45 minutes long, it premiered on Hunan TV on January 26, 2020, and concluded on February 18, 2020, while also being released internationally on starting January 14, 2020. The series centers on He Fanxing, a successful but overworked executive in her early thirties navigating career instability and personal relationships. The plot follows He Fanxing () as her company faces a potential acquisition, coinciding with the breakdown of her long-term engagement to her boyfriend. Amid these challenges, she forms a close bond with Yuan Song (Song Weilong), a talented young intern who harbors romantic feelings for her despite their 10-year age difference, and receives support from the mature and dependable Ye Luming (), her company's vice president. This propels He Fanxing toward and unconventional choices in love and life, highlighting themes of , age-disparate romance, and work-life balance in contemporary urban . Find Yourself garnered positive reception for its fresh take on mature romance and relatable depiction of professional women, achieving high viewership ratings during its broadcast on Hunan TV. It received multiple nominations at the 30th China TV Golden Eagle Awards, including for Outstanding Television Series and Outstanding Actress for . On IMDb, the series holds a 7.5 out of 10 rating from over 5,500 user reviews (as of 2025), praised for its heartfelt storytelling and strong .

Plot and themes

Plot summary

He Fanxing, a 32-year-old director of administration at MZ , encounters a significant career when her faces an impending acquisition, threatening her professional stability. Concurrently, she experiences a painful with her boyfriend Shen Jing, stemming from conflicting life goals, leaving her navigating emotional turmoil alongside her work pressures. Amid these challenges, He Fanxing meets Yuan Song, a young intern at her company who strikingly resembles her ex-boyfriend and quickly develops feelings for her, introducing tense workplace interactions and the gradual emergence of a romantic connection. Following the acquisition, Ye Luming assumes the role of company president, forging a key professional partnership with He Fanxing that shapes her career decisions and adds layers to her personal growth. The narrative also explores a subplot centered on He Fanxing's best friend Song Xue, whose long-term relationship faces strain from relational discord. Spanning 41 episodes, the series charts He Fanxing's progression from these lows—marked by doubt and instability—to a path of self-empowerment, emphasizing resilience amid evolving relationships and opportunities.

Central themes

"Find Yourself" delves into age-gap relationships by presenting a nuanced romance between an older woman and a younger man, emphasizing mutual respect and emotional maturity rather than stereotypical power imbalances or superficial attractions. This portrayal challenges conventional narratives, showcasing how such dynamics can foster genuine connection and personal empowerment for both partners. Central to the series is the theme of self-discovery and personal growth for women in their 30s, as the navigates the tension between ambitious career pursuits and the pursuit of emotional fulfillment. Through her experiences, the drama illustrates the importance of and resilience, allowing the character to redefine her priorities beyond societal expectations of and . This motif resonates with contemporary viewers by highlighting the ongoing journey toward authenticity in mid-life. The narrative critiques workplace gender dynamics, exposing the obstacles women face in male-dominated corporate settings, such as and unequal opportunities, while underscoring the role of in overcoming them. It portrays supportive professional relationships that blend objectivity with empathy, demonstrating how guidance from peers can empower women to thrive amid competitive pressures. Friendship and support networks among women form a vital backbone, exemplified by the close bond between He Fanxing and Song Xue, which provides emotional sustenance and practical advice during personal and professional trials. This theme celebrates female as a counterforce to isolation, reinforcing the value of communal strength in addressing life's challenges. Subtly woven throughout is a commentary on modern dating pressures, urging a redefinition of away from traditional milestones like early toward individual happiness and . The series reflects broader societal shifts, encouraging viewers to prioritize personal agency over in romantic pursuits.

Cast and characters

Main cast

Victoria Song stars as He Fanxing, a 32-year-old administrative manager at a company who faces challenges and explores unexpected romantic possibilities after a decade-long relationship ends. Song Weilong plays Yuan Song, a 22-year-old and optimistic intern at He Fanxing's company, whose youthful enthusiasm and talents make him both a valuable colleague and her primary romantic partner, driving the series' exploration of age-gap relationships. Wang Yaoqing portrays Ye Luming, the 37-year-old CEO of an advertising firm who mentors He Fanxing through her career uncertainties while developing a subtle romantic interest in her, creating tension in the central love triangle. These lead performances anchor the narrative's focus on self-discovery, professional growth, and unconventional romance, with Yuan Song's alliance providing comic relief and emotional support amid He Fanxing's dilemmas.

Supporting cast

The supporting cast in Find Yourself contributes to the central narrative by depicting dynamics, workplace rivalries, and secondary romances that underscore the protagonists' struggles with love, career, and societal expectations. Fu Jia portrays He Qingfeng, He Fanxing's father, a supportive yet traditional figure who appears in key gatherings to offer guidance on her romantic decisions and career ambitions, emphasizing intergenerational perspectives on for women in their thirties. Ma Li plays Shen Hongmei, He Fanxing's mother, who provides emotional backing amid her daughter's uncertainties but also exerts gentle pressure toward marriage, to illustrate familial influences on personal growth. Zhang Yujian depicts He Canyang, He Fanxing's younger brother and a charismatic , whose interactions with his sister offer and solidarity; his involving concern over relationships enriches the support system without overshadowing the leads. Complementing this, Yu Shuxin as Cai Minmin, Ye Luming's niece and a second-year student and He Canyang's love interest, injects youthful optimism and parallel age-gap romance themes, with her persistent pursuits creating lighthearted conflicts that highlight mismatched life stages in supporting interactions. In the professional sphere, Wei Zheming's Chang Huan, a dedicated at Amazing Decoration, and Yang Zhiying's Cong Xiao, a capable employee, form a recurring couple whose workplace flirtations and collaborations provide comic relief and mirroring He Fanxing's own romantic tensions through shared banter and minor conflicts. Zeng Li embodies Wu Meiyin, head of investments at rival firm Aijia, who generates business antagonism for He Fanxing via competitive deals and strategic maneuvers, appearing in pivotal corporate scenes to amplify themes of .

Production

Development

The development of Find Yourself began with an original screenplay co-written by Wang Xiong Cheng and Shui Qian Mo, marking the duo's first collaboration after previous individual works like . The story centers on a professional woman in her thirties navigating career pressures and an unexpected romance with a younger colleague, drawing from contemporary urban life experiences without adaptation from any novel. This narrative choice aimed to portray a positive depiction of an age-gap relationship, deliberately challenging traditional societal views on intergenerational romance in , where such pairings are often stigmatized. The project was officially announced on July 31, 2018, with and Song Weilong cast as the leads. Directed by Ding Ziguang, it was produced by Huace Media and greenlit for production in 2018, with commencing that year and wrapping up by November. Trailers and promotional materials were released in 2019, building anticipation ahead of its 2020 broadcast on Hunan TV.

Filming

Principal photography for Find Yourself commenced on September 3, 2018, and concluded on November 14, 2018, primarily in and , with an emphasis on capturing urban office environments and apartment interiors to reflect the story's contemporary setting. To enhance realism, the production utilized actual offices of firms for key workplace sequences, supplemented by constructed studio sets for controlled interior shots. Filming encountered logistical hurdles, including coordination around the cast's existing obligations—such as lead actress Victoria Song's commitments to previous endeavors—and interruptions from inclement weather that affected exterior scenes. The approximately three-month schedule accommodated the production of all 41 episodes through intensive daily shoots, with finalization achieved by late 2019. Cinematographic techniques highlighted the pulsating rhythm of modern urban existence, employing fluid camera movements and natural lighting to underscore Shanghai's dynamic skyline and daily life.

Music

Soundtrack

The original soundtrack album for Find Yourself was released on January 28, 2020, via Tencent Music Entertainment's QQ Music platform, featuring four tracks that enhance the series' romantic and emotional narrative. These songs, performed by established Chinese artists, integrate seamlessly with key plot moments to amplify themes of love and self-discovery. The album's opening theme, "Letter From the Wind" (风的来信) by Jin Wenqi, introduces the protagonists' budding relationship with its gentle, windswept melody evoking hope and serendipity; it plays during early episodes highlighting He Fanxing's professional life and initial encounters with Yuan Song. The ending theme, "Amazing" (迷人的你) by Lin Shimin, serves as a poignant ballad that closes each episode, reflecting the couple's growing affection and the age-gap romance's tender moments. Additional tracks include "Light in Heart" (心光) by Hu Xia, a soft ballad underscoring intimate age-gap interactions, and "The Gentleness of the Left Hand" (左手的溫柔) by He Yi Chen, featured in workplace and heartfelt scenes to convey emotional warmth.
Track No.Song TitleArtistDurationEpisode Integration Example
1Letter From the Wind (风的来信)Jin Wenqi4:36 and initial romantic setups
2Amazing (迷人的你)Lin Shimin3:56Ending credits and romance climax scenes
3Light in Heart (心光)3:52Age-gap emotional dialogues
4The Gentleness of the Left Hand (左手的溫柔)He Yi Chen4:04Workplace tension and affectionate moments
The soundtrack's tracks reference of personal growth, enhancing the series' focus. The album achieved strong streaming performance in , with individual songs like "Amazing" gaining widespread playthroughs amid the drama's popularity. The songs were composed and written primarily by , with additional lyricists including , Lin Qiao, and .

Composition and themes

The score for Find Yourself was overseen by acclaimed music producer Tian Chang Ye, who served as and led a team in creating the original compositions to complement the series' romantic and dramatic narrative across its 41 episodes. The overall style blends contemporary influences with light orchestral elements, incorporating pop ballads that emphasize emotional depth in romantic scenes and subtle string arrangements for heightened drama. Tian Chang Ye's team drew from the series' core themes of self-discovery and female empowerment, employing upbeat motifs in vocal-driven tracks to underscore arcs of personal growth and more melancholic tones with and acoustic elements for moments of relationship tension and introspection, such as those involving He Fanxing. This approach aligns with broader trends, prioritizing empowering female vocals to reinforce the narrative's message of independence and resilience. The background score enhances the series' intimate character moments without overpowering the dialogue.

Release

Broadcast

Find Yourself premiered on Hunan TV on January 26, 2020, airing two episodes nightly from 20:00 to 22:00 China Standard Time, Sunday through Thursday. The series consisted of 41 episodes, each approximately 45 minutes in length, and concluded its broadcast run on February 18, 2020. Episodes were simultaneously available for online streaming on Mango TV, allowing viewers broader access during the initial airing. The promotional campaign for the series began in early January 2020, featuring the release of official trailers and behind-the-scenes videos, alongside cast interviews to build anticipation ahead of the premiere. These efforts highlighted the romantic storyline and key performances, contributing to strong initial buzz. During its run, Find Yourself achieved significant viewership milestones, including over 1.08 billion views on Mango TV within the first 11 days of airing, reflecting its popularity amid the early stages of the COVID-19 pandemic in China. Peak engagement occurred around episodes featuring major plot twists in the central romance, driving sustained audience interest. The broadcast timing on Hunan TV helped capture prime-time viewers, influencing overall reception.

International distribution

Find Yourself received an exclusive worldwide streaming release on on January 14, 2020, and features official subtitles in multiple languages including English, Spanish (), German, Simplified Chinese, and Traditional Chinese. The series is accessible via 's global service, which operates in over 190 countries, enabling broad international distribution beyond .

Reception

Ratings

"Find Yourself" achieved an average rating of 2.161% in the CSM59 city metrics during its broadcast on Hunan TV, reflecting strong domestic viewership performance amid the early 2020 period. The series peaked at 2.252% in CSM52 cities, with the highest rating occurring in the penultimate episode near the finale, underscoring heightened engagement during the concluding arcs. Key episode highs included 1.657% for the premiere episodes, establishing early momentum, and approximately 1.5-2.0% during pivotal romantic confession scenes in mid-run episodes, such as those involving the leads' emotional developments around episodes 20-25, which drove incremental gains. These fluctuations were influenced by time slot competition, particularly during the Spring Festival holiday and subsequent COVID-19 lockdowns, which reduced rival programming and boosted at-home viewership as audiences sought escapist content. In comparison to other 2020 Chinese dramas in the romantic genre, "Find Yourself" ranked highly by average ratings, outperforming several contemporaries in urban romance categories thanks to its timely themes of relationships and self-discovery. On the streaming front, the series amassed over 4.1 billion views on Mango TV by mid-2020, with cumulative plays exceeding 34 billion by the end of its run, highlighting its dominance in online metrics and contributing to platform growth.

Critical and audience response

"Find Yourself" received positive critical acclaim for its portrayal of mature female leads navigating career and personal challenges, particularly resonating with audiences through the He Fanxing's journey as a 32-year-old . Early audience reviews on averaged around 8/10, reflecting enthusiasm for its empowering themes amid initial broadcast in 2020, though as of November 2025, the rating stands at 5.9/10 based on over 211,000 user comments. Critics and viewers praised the on-screen chemistry between and Song Weilong, which added emotional depth to the age-gap romance, despite criticisms that the series relied on predictable tropes such as contrived misunderstandings and rapid resolutions. Audience feedback highlighted the drama's empowerment themes, emphasizing self-discovery and defiance of societal expectations for women, which sparked widespread discussions on platforms like during its 2020 run. However, the series faced criticisms for uneven pacing, particularly in mid-season subplots involving rivalries that felt dragged out or underdeveloped, and for stereotypical supporting characters that reinforced clichés about interference and secondary romances. As of 2025, the drama maintains a dedicated following on , with rewatches contributing to ongoing conversations about age-gap relationship normalization in modern Chinese media, evidenced by its inclusion in lists of influential age-difference romances. The series has had a notable cultural impact, boosting the careers of its leads—Victoria Song and Song Weilong—through increased visibility in subsequent projects, and inspiring a wave of similar dramas focusing on empowered female protagonists in intergenerational relationships.

Awards and nominations

Major awards

Find Yourself received recognition in late 2020. At the 2020 Tencent Video All Star Awards held on December 20, won the Annual Breakthrough Figure award for her portrayal of He Fanxing. The series was nominated for Excellent TV Drama at the 30th China TV Golden Eagle Awards, announced in September 2020. Although it did not win in that category, the recognition underscored its popularity and quality as a newcomer in urban romance dramas.

Other recognitions

Victoria Song received a fan-voted nomination for Audience's Choice Actress at the 30th China TV Golden Eagle Awards in 2020, reflecting viewer appreciation for her portrayal of a career-driven woman navigating romance. Internationally, Find Yourself was featured in curated lists of top Chinese series available on Netflix, contributing to its global visibility as a feel-good romance in 2021.

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