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Stephanie of Milly (born c. 1145/1155 – c. 1197) was the lady of Oultrejordain in 1169–1197 and an influential figure in the Kingdom of Jerusalem. She was also known as Stephanie de Milly, Etienette de Milly, and Etiennette de Milly. She married three times; firstly to Humphrey III of Toron, secondly to Miles of Plancy; her third and last husband was Raynald of Chatillon.

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Family and early life

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She was the younger daughter of Philip of Milly, lord of Nablus, and Isabella of Oultrejordain, who herself was the daughter and heiress of Maurice of Montreal, lord of Oultrejordain. Through her various marriages, several of her husbands became lords of Oultrejordain. Her first marriage, in 1163, was to Humphrey III of Toron, who died in 1173. This marriage produced two children: a son, Humphrey (the future Humphrey IV of Toron), and a daughter, Isabella, who married Ruben III of Armenia. Her second husband was Miles of Plancy, lord of Oultrejordain, who was assassinated in 1174.

Third marriage

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In 1177, she married Raynald of Châtillon, the former Prince of Antioch, who had recently been released from captivity in Aleppo. Through Stephanie, Raynald succeeded as lord jure uxoris of the lordship of Oultrejordain, and used his new position to harass Muslim caravan and pilgrimage routes; in 1183 he even threatened to attack Mecca itself. In 1180, Baldwin IV of Jerusalem had betrothed his eight-year-old half-sister Isabella to Stephanie's son Humphrey. The marriage took place in the castle of Kerak in 1183. The ceremonies were interrupted by the arrival of Saladin, who besieged the place in response to Raynald's threats against Mecca. According to the chronicle of Ernoul, Stephanie sent messengers to Saladin, reminding him of the friendship they shared when he had been a prisoner in Kerak many years before; this is likely a fiction or some mis-remembered event, as Saladin is not otherwise known to have ever been held hostage at Kerak. Saladin did not lift the siege but agreed not to target Humphrey and Isabella's wedding chamber. The siege was soon raised by King Baldwin. The Old French Continuation of William of Tyre claimed that Stephanie hated Isabella's mother Maria Comnena, and prevented her having any contact with her daughter. This was probably for political reasons: Baldwin had arranged the marriage to remove the little girl from the influence of her stepfather's family, the Ibelins.

Capture of Humphrey

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Raynald continued to harass the caravan and pilgrimage routes, leading to the invasion of the kingdom by Saladin in 1187. Raynald was killed at the ensuing Battle of Hattin, at which Humphrey IV was captured. Saladin agreed to return Humphrey to Stephanie in exchange for Kerak and Montreal; the castles refused to surrender, however, and Stephanie dutifully sent her son back to captivity under Saladin. Saladin took pity on her and released him. Her own principality of Oultrejordain and its castles were lost to Saladin within a few years of Hattin, and, located so far from the Mediterranean coast where the remaining crusader strongholds were located, remained in Muslim hands.

As her son Humphrey had apparently died before her, Stephanie's heiress (as well as the heiress of Toron) was her daughter, Isabella.

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Stephanie of Milly (died 1197), also known as Étiennette de Milly, was a noblewoman of the Kingdom of Jerusalem who inherited and held the lordship of Oultrejourdain, a strategic frontier territory encompassing the fortresses of Kerak and Montréal. As daughter and heiress of Philip of Milly, former lord of Oultrejourdain, she succeeded him following his death around 1168, managing lands vital for crusader defenses against Ayyubid incursions from the east. Her three marriages shaped the administration of her domains, with each husband assuming lordship: first to Humphrey III of Toron from circa 1163 until his death in 1173; then briefly to Miles of Plancy, appointed and married in 1173 before his assassination the next year; and finally to Reynald de Châtillon around 1177, whose aggressive raids into Muslim territories, including expeditions, emanated from her holdings. These unions positioned her at the center of military and political tensions, notably during Saladin's sieges of Kerak in 1183 and 1184, which her forces, aided by royal relief, withstood. Through her inheritance and alliances, Stephanie exemplified the feudal dynamics of crusader nobility, where heiresses like her transferred significant power and resources, contributing to the Kingdom's resilience amid encroaching Islamic forces until the catastrophic defeat at the in 1187, after which Oultrejourdain fell. Her children from the marriage to Reynald included a son who died young and a , Alice, whose betrothal to forged further ties among crusader elites.

Origins and Inheritance

Family Background and Early Life

Stephanie of Milly was born circa 1145 in the Kingdom of Jerusalem, the younger daughter of Philip of Milly, a baron of French origin who held the lordship of Nablus from around 1150, and his wife Isabelle Bouteiller. Philip, born around 1120 to Guy of Milly—a knight from Picardy who arrived during the First Crusade—and Stephanie of Flanders, rose to prominence through military service and land acquisitions that fortified the kingdom's eastern frontiers. In 1161, following the death of Maurice of Montreal, Philip assumed the lordship of Oultrejordain (Transjordan), a vast and vulnerable territory east of the Jordan River, where he oversaw the construction and fortification of key castles such as Kerak and Shaubak to counter raids by Muslim forces under Nur ad-Din. As a trusted counselor to Kings Baldwin III (r. 1143–1163) and Amalric I (r. 1163–1174), Philip participated in critical campaigns, including the siege of Ascalon in 1153 and expeditions into Egypt in 1167–1169, underscoring the family's pivotal role in sustaining Crusader defenses against Ayyubid and Zangid threats. This environment of perpetual border vigilance and feudal consolidation positioned Stephanie as an heiress attuned to the imperatives of territorial retention in a precarious outpost of Latin Christendom.

Acquisition of Oultrejordain Lordship

Stephanie de Milly acquired the lordship of Oultrejordain as the designated heiress of her father, Philippe de Milly, who held titles including lord of Montréal and other associated lands in the region. Philippe's entry into the Knights Templar in January 1166 necessitated the transfer of his secular fiefs, with significant portions of Oultrejordain passing to his daughters; Stephanie, as the relevant heiress for this lordship, assumed control around this period, prior to her father's formal election as Templar Grand Master in 1169 and his death in 1171. The inheritance included the formidable fortresses of Kerak (also known as Krak des Moabites) and Montréal (modern Shaubak), which anchored the lordship's defenses and administration. Oultrejordain functioned as a critical buffer for the Kingdom of Jerusalem, extending east of the and shielding core territories from incursions by Ayyubid forces originating in and . Its economic significance derived from oversight of key caravan trade routes connecting to and , as well as paths used by Christian pilgrims, generating revenues through tolls and tribute from tribes. This position rendered the lordship inherently vulnerable to raids, demanding robust fortification and vigilance to secure its permeable eastern boundaries. As a female inheritor in the Kingdom's feudal structure—where succession favored males but permitted female heirs in the absence of sons—Stephanie encountered administrative hurdles in asserting direct authority amid a martial accustomed to male leadership. She consolidated her position through the strategic involvement of the royal court under King Amalric I (r. 1163–1174), whose oversight helped legitimize her tenure and deter internal challenges from rival barons or vassals. This reliance on monarchical support underscored the pragmatic adaptations required for women to govern large fiefs in the , where often intertwined with alliances to ensure stability.

Marriages and Alliances

First Marriage to Humphrey III of Toron

Stephanie de Milly married Humphrey III, heir to the lordship of , in 1163. This union linked her inherited lordship of Oultrejordain—a vast Transjordanian territory critical for defending the Kingdom of Jerusalem's southeastern flank—with Toron, a northern frontier barony exposed to similar threats from Muslim forces, thereby consolidating noble resources amid ongoing border vulnerabilities. The couple's son, Humphrey IV, was born circa 1166, providing a male heir to perpetuate claims across both families' holdings and stabilize succession in these exposed domains. Humphrey III died in 1173, predeceasing his father Humphrey II and thus never assuming full lordship of . His early death widowed Stephanie at approximately 28 years old, restoring her personal authority over Oultrejordain's castles at Kerak and Montréal while underscoring the fragility of Crusader dynastic arrangements dependent on short-lived heirs.

Second Marriage to Miles of Plancy

Stephanie married Miles of Plancy, of and a close associate of King Amalric I, in 1173 following the death of her first husband Humphrey III of Toron earlier that year. The union, arranged amid the political turbulence of the Kingdom of , aimed to reinforce Stephanie's connections to the royal court through Miles' influential position as a royal official favored by Amalric. By virtue of the marriage, Miles gained control over Stephanie's inheritance, becoming lord of Oultrejordain with authority over key fortresses such as Kerak and Montreal. This arrangement temporarily aligned the frontier lordship with central court interests, potentially stabilizing administration in the volatile Transjordan region during Amalric's final years. Miles' tenure proved short-lived; he was assassinated in Acre in October 1174, shortly after Amalric's death on July 11, 1174, during a period of unrest and power struggles in the kingdom. With no issue from the marriage, lordship of Oultrejordain reverted to , underscoring the alliance's transient nature as a court-centered expedient rather than a transformative strategic shift.

Third Marriage to Raynald de Châtillon

In 1177, shortly after his release from over fifteen years of captivity following his capture in 1161, Raynald de Châtillon married Stephanie of Milly, thereby acquiring the lordship of Oultrejordain as her third husband. King approved and facilitated the union, rewarding Raynald—who had recently returned from a to —with control over Stephanie's extensive territories east of the , including the fortresses of Kerak and Montréal (Shaubak). This arrangement integrated Raynald's martial expertise, gained from his earlier role as (1153–1161), into the governance of a key frontier region vulnerable to Ayyubid incursions. Raynald promptly adopted the title of lord of Oultrejordain , establishing joint authority with Stephanie over administrative and defensive matters. The couple exercised control from the fortified strongholds, which provided economic resources through tolls and , as well as strategic vantage points for monitoring Muslim movements. Raynald's influence shifted the lordship toward a more proactive military stance, utilizing its position to bolster Crusader defenses and pursue opportunities for territorial assertion beyond passive fortification. The marriage yielded no children, maintaining the line of succession through Stephanie's offspring from her prior unions and underscoring Raynald's role primarily as a military partner rather than dynastic founder. This alliance enhanced Stephanie's political leverage within the Kingdom of Jerusalem, aligning her holdings with Raynald's reputation for bold action, though it also amplified the region's exposure to retaliatory conflicts with Saladin's forces.

Role in Crusader Politics and Defense

Administration of Oultrejordain

As heiress and lady of Oultrejordain from 1169 until circa 1197, Stephanie de Milly maintained oversight of the lordship's feudal administration, delegating day-to-day execution to her husbands while retaining titular authority over its resources and defenses. The governance emphasized the strategic fortresses of Kerak and (also known as Shaubak), which anchored the lordship's control over Transjordan's eastern frontier; Kerak, fortified with ditches and towers under her father's tenure in the 1160s, emerged as the primary administrative hub by the 1170s, superseding as the center of power due to its superior defensibility and proximity to key passes. Economic management focused on exploiting the region's position astride trade routes linking , , and Arabia, where the castles enabled the levying of tolls on passing caravans and taxes on local agricultural produce, rendering Oultrejordain one of the Kingdom of Jerusalem's wealthiest fiefs despite its aridity and nomadic populations, who were largely left autonomous in exchange for nominal tribute. These revenues supported the maintenance of garrisons, repairs, and feudal levies, reflecting a calculated of sustainable border retention amid recurrent Muslim raiding pressures rather than resource-draining ideological expeditions. Relations with Jerusalem's monarchy involved balancing duties—such as providing knights and contingents for royal campaigns—with negotiated ; the 1161 grant of Oultrejordain to Stephanie's father Philip of Milly via exchange of the lordship of exemplified this dynamic, as the fief's isolation necessitated occasional royal subsidies for troop reinforcements while ensuring loyalty through oaths of and shared defensive imperatives. This structure allowed Stephanie's administration to adapt pragmatically to the lordship's vulnerabilities, channeling economic outputs into fortifications and local forces to deter incursions without overextending into the kingdom's central politics.

Sieges of Kerak and Relations with Saladin

In late October 1183, launched a against , the principal stronghold of Oultrejordain under Stephanie's lordship, in retaliation for raids into Muslim-held territories. The assault coincided with the wedding of her son to Isabella of , hosted within the fortress. Stephanie initiated diplomatic overtures by dispatching messengers with gifts of bread, wine, sheep, and cattle to 's camp, explicitly requesting that his forces refrain from bombarding the tower housing the nuptial festivities. Saladin accepted the gesture and instructed his artillery to spare that section, allowing the ceremony to proceed uninterrupted. As Lady of Oultrejordain, oversaw the castle's defense, directing the garrison to repel assaults while managing provisions drawn from local stores to sustain both defenders and the influx of guests, thereby preserving amid the . The fortress's robust defenses, including deep ditches and high walls, frustrated 's attempts at breaching, and the siege concluded in December 1183 when Saladin withdrew upon learning of an approaching relief army led by King . Saladin renewed the offensive in early August 1184, besieging Kerak with a larger force and employing sappers to undermine walls and fill protective ditches for deployment. Stephanie again commanded the resistance, coordinating the rationing of supplies from Oultrejordain's agricultural resources to endure the prolonged investment, which tested the garrison's endurance through summer heat. Saladin abandoned the effort in early September 1184, deterred by reports of Crusader reinforcements mobilizing from and the impending seasonal hardships of winter campaigning. These encounters highlight Stephanie's pragmatic approach to Saladin, employing targeted diplomacy—such as the 1183 gifts—to secure tactical advantages and buy time for relief, grounded in the mutual recognition of rather than any substantiated prior personal acquaintance or rapport. Contemporary accounts, including those of Ernoul, portray her actions as calculated extensions of defensive strategy, leveraging cultural norms of to mitigate immediate threats without conceding strategic ground.

Influence on Husband Raynald's Campaigns

Stephanie de Milly's marriage to Raynald de Châtillon in 1177 conveyed to him the lordship of Oultrejordain, encompassing fortified strongholds such as Kerak and Shaubak that commanded key frontier routes east of the . These assets furnished secure bases and logistical resources essential for Raynald's series of raids against Muslim trade convoys between 1181 and 1187, enabling sustained operations that targeted vulnerable supply lines without requiring large-scale field armies. As co-ruler of these territories, Stephanie's provided the feudal and economic incentives that underpinned Raynald's escalation of , allowing him to bypass central royal oversight in and prioritize frontier defense through plunder-driven campaigns. The strategic positioning of Oultrejordain's castles facilitated rapid strikes on passing caravans, yielding captives and goods that bolstered local defenses while imposing costs on Ayyubid . This approach aligned with the economic necessities of a resource-strapped crusader outpost, where such raids supplemented revenues amid ongoing hostilities. A pivotal manifestation of this enablement was Raynald's 1182–1183 expedition, during which prefabricated ships were constructed in Oultrejordain's inland workshops—likely near Kerak—disassembled, and camel-transported to the for reassembly and launch. These vessels preyed on pilgrim and merchant shipping en route to and , severing vital Ayyubid maritime links to and , and generating widespread alarm that compelled to divert forces southward. By exploiting her lordship's proximity to the sea, Stephanie's resources thus amplified Raynald's capacity to project power deep into Muslim territories, framing the raids as calculated disruptions rather than isolated adventurism. Historians such as Bernard Hamilton have characterized these operations as a deliberate crusader effort to thwart Saladin's unification of Syrian and Egyptian forces, with Oultrejordain's bases enabling persistent harassment that delayed Ayyubid consolidation by forcing reactive fortifications and escorts. In the context of total warfare, where conventional armies risked decisive defeat, Raynald's tactics—bolstered by Stephanie's territorial stake—offered a pragmatic means to erode enemy cohesion through economic attrition, sustaining crusader resistance on the periphery until broader reinforcements arrived.

Family Dynamics and Controversies

Relationship with Son Humphrey IV

Stephanie assumed guardianship of her son Humphrey IV following the death of his father, Humphrey III, in 1173, at a time when Humphrey IV was still a minor, born around 1166. As his primary custodian, she oversaw his upbringing amid the feudal structures of the Latin Kingdom, where her own status as heiress to Oultrejordain intertwined with his paternal of . Humphrey IV's position as heir to solidified upon the death of his grandfather Humphrey II in 1179, yet his maternal claims to Oultrejordain remained subordinate to Stephanie's control and her subsequent marital alliances. Her rapid remarriage to Miles of Plancy later in 1173, followed by her union with Raynald de Châtillon in 1177, transferred effective lordship of Oultrejordain to these stepfathers, creating layered dependencies that prioritized custodial over direct filial succession. This arrangement highlighted the pragmatic interplay of within Crusader , where maternal guardianship navigated competing lordly interests without evident disruption to Humphrey's nominal entitlements. The dynamics between Stephanie and Humphrey IV reflected the broader pressures of multiple paternal influences in the household, fostering alliances oriented toward kingdom-wide stability rather than isolated familial sentiment. Under her oversight during his minority, Humphrey demonstrated adherence to royal , aligning his holdings with Jerusalem's defensive posture, though Oultrejordain's administration remained externally managed.

Involvement in Humphrey IV's Marriage and Capture Events

In 1180, King arranged the betrothal of his half-sister Isabella, aged approximately eight, to , Stephanie of Milly's son and heir to the lordships of and Oultrejordain, as a strategic measure to bind these powerful fiefs to the crown and counter potential intrigue from rivals such as Raymond III of Tripoli. The union was consummated with a ceremony in 1183 at , under Stephanie's custodianship, where Isabella resided and was reportedly restricted from visiting her , reflecting Stephanie's endorsement of the alliance's political imperatives despite Humphrey's youth—around seventeen—and contemporary characterizations of his physical delicacy or reluctance to assert marital claims. Following the Crusader defeat at the on July 4, 1187, Humphrey was captured by 's forces alongside much of the kingdom's nobility. Stephanie actively intervened by negotiating directly with , pledging to induce the garrisons of Kerak and Montréal—fortresses under her control—to surrender in exchange for her son's release, though the garrisons ultimately refused, prompting her to return Humphrey temporarily before Saladin freed him out of compassion without full ransom payment. In the ensuing political vacuum after Hattin, mounting pressures emerged to annul Humphrey and Isabella's marriage, culminating in 1190 when Isabella testified to non-consent due to her coerced childhood union, enabling her remarriage to amid Crusader efforts to consolidate leadership. Historians Stephanie's agency here: critics attribute her prior support for the match and resistance to to personal ambition, aiming to leverage Humphrey's royal ties for familial dominance in Oultrejordain, while defenders frame it as adherence to feudal obligations preserving inheritance rights against existential threats to the . These interpretations counter narratives downplaying her influence, as primary accounts affirm her direct role in both marital advocacy and diplomacy, underscoring women's pragmatic interventions in 12th-century Levantine power dynamics.

Death and Historical Assessment

Final Years and Death

Following the catastrophic defeat at the on 4 July 1187, Raynald de Châtillon was captured and personally executed by shortly thereafter. Stephanie's son , who had fought alongside Raynald, was also taken prisoner but was released by in late 1187 after negotiations in which Stephanie pledged to facilitate the surrender of Kerak and Montréal in exchange for his freedom, though the garrisons ultimately resisted immediate capitulation. Amid the ensuing Ayyubid offensives, initiated a prolonged in late 1187, with overseeing its defense as lady of Oultrejordain; the fortress endured until May 1188, when starvation forced its surrender, after which permitted , Humphrey, and the survivors to depart with their movable goods and safe passage to Christian-held territories. Montréal followed in early 1189, marking the effective end of Crusader control over Oultrejordain, though sporadic nominal claims persisted amid the chaos of the Third Crusade (1189–1192). Humphrey briefly asserted rights to the lost lordship as heir through his mother but held no substantive authority thereafter. Deprived of her Transjordan estates, Stephanie relocated to remaining Frankish strongholds, likely including or coastal enclaves, where her influence waned amid the kingdom's contraction. She died around 1197, outliving her husbands and son Humphrey, who predeceased her circa 1198 without issue.

Legacy in Crusader History

Stephanie de Milly's tenure as lady of Oultrejordain from 1169 to 1197 exemplified the role of heiresses in maintaining Crusader frontier fortifications amid persistent Muslim threats. Through successive marriages to Humphrey III of (c. 1168–1173), Miles of Plancy (1173–1174), and de Châtillon (1177–1187), she ensured capable lords administered the lordship's key strongholds, including Kerak and Montréal, preserving them as bulwarks against Ayyubid incursions until Saladin's decisive victories post-Hattin. This continuity delayed full Muslim conquest of Transjordan, with empirical evidence in the repulsion of Saladin's sieges at Kerak in 1183 and 1184, where Crusader relief forces under Baldwin IV and III of Tripoli lifted the investments before breaching the defenses. Her partnership with Raynald facilitated aggressive campaigns that temporarily disrupted 's logistics and unification efforts. Raynald's 1182 raids into the and the 1183 expedition, supported by Oultrejordain's resources under Stephanie's inheritance rights, compelled to redirect troops southward and negotiate truces, buying time for Crusader consolidation elsewhere. These actions, while provoking retaliation, empirically postponed 's ability to focus solely on northern fronts until after Hattin in July 1187, when Oultrejordain's forces were depleted. As a model of female agency in feudal warfare, Stephanie's control over and administration highlighted noblewomen's contributions to resilience in the Latin East, where heiresses like her wielded authority over strategic assets despite patriarchal norms. Her oversight enabled short-term defensive successes, yet also amplified risks through endorsement of escalatory tactics, as Raynald's unchecked raids—enabled by her lordship—fostered the Ayyubid-Zengid coalition culminating in Hattin. This duality underscores causal trade-offs in frontier lordships: bolstered defenses versus heightened provocation of unified adversaries.

Modern Historiographical Debates

Modern historiography has shifted from earlier interpretations, often derived from medieval chroniclers like , which portrayed as an ambitious widow exerting undue influence over her husbands' aggressive policies in Oultrejordain, to more nuanced assessments emphasizing her administrative competence in a volatile frontier zone threatened by 's campaigns. Scholars such as Natasha Hodgson highlight her role as a mediator during the 1183 , where she appealed to leveraging personal acquaintance from his youth as a , securing temporary halts in assaults amid her stepson Humphrey IV's wedding to Isabella of —a pragmatic tactic aligning with gendered diplomatic norms in crusader narratives. This contrasts with traditional toward such female agency, rooted in clerical biases viewing women's political interventions as disruptive, as seen in Tyre's critiques of figures like . Recent scholarship, including Helen J. Nicholson's analysis of chivalric codes, underscores Stephanie's defensive contributions during repeated Saladin invasions of Transjordan (1183–1184), where her oversight of Kerak's fortifications and provisioning sustained resistance until relief forces arrived, framing her actions as rational responses to existential jihadist expansion rather than unprovoked aggression. Bernard Hamilton notes the strategic value of her and remarriages, arranged under royal auspices, which bolstered Oultrejordain's buffer role against Egyptian-Syrian incursions, countering narratives that reduce crusader noblewomen to passive pawns or instigators devoid of geopolitical context. However, debates persist on her familial , with critics citing her enforcement of Humphrey IV's contested —prohibiting Isabella's contact with her mother—to secure dynastic alliances, akin to contemporaneous practices among Latin East elites like the Ibelins, though some post-colonial influenced works amplify this as exceptional without paralleling Muslim contemporaries' manipulations. Empirical reassessments prioritize primary charters and accounts over romanticized legends, affirming her effective land stewardship—evidenced by sustained loyalty until 1187 defections—while cautioning against overreliance on biased Muslim chroniclers like , whose post-conquest portrayals minimize crusader resilience. This causal lens reveals her policies as calibrated defenses against Saladin's unification drives, which by 1187 encompassed Jerusalem's fall, rather than ideological aggression, challenging academy-prevalent tendencies to retroject modern onto 12th-century survival imperatives. Overall, consensus holds her legacy as emblematic of frontier adaptability, balancing administrative prowess with era-typical , though gaps in female-focused archives invite ongoing scrutiny of dynamics in crusader .

References

  1. https://military.wikia.org/wiki/Oultrejordain
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