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Taylor Armstrong (born Shana Lynette Hughes; June 10, 1971) is an American television personality. She is known as an original cast member of the Bravo reality series The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. In 2022, it was announced that she would join The Real Housewives of Orange County, making her the first American housewife to transfer franchises.

Key Information

After starring in the show's first three seasons from 2010 until 2013, Armstrong continued to make guest appearances on the Beverly Hills installment between 2013 and 2016. In June 2022, Armstrong starred in the second season of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip.

Biography

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Armstrong was born Shana Lynette Hughes in Independence, Kansas, on June 10, 1971.[1][2] Her family later left Kansas for Tulsa, Oklahoma, where Armstrong attended Union High School and was a cheerleader. She graduated in 1989.[3] She later changed her name to Taylor Ford and moved to Beverly Hills, California, after starting her own e-commerce business. She met her future husband, venture capitalist Russell Armstrong, at a local restaurant in Beverly Hills while waiting to be seated.[4] The two married less than a year later, and Armstrong gave birth to their only child, a daughter named Kennedy Caroline Armstrong, who was born in 2006.

Armstrong first appeared in the public spotlight in 2010, as part of the cast of the Bravo reality television series The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.[5] During the series' run, Armstrong's appearance on the show was plagued by rumors of financial issues and domestic violence, and she later confirmed that she had been physically abused by Russell Armstrong and had to undergo reconstructive surgery for an orbital fracture after being hit by him.[5][6]

In July 2011, after the filming of the second season of Real Housewives, she filed for divorce, citing verbal and physical abuse. The next month, her estranged abusive husband died by suicide; she found his body on August 15, 2011, dead from an apparent hanging, at a home he rented on Mulholland Drive following their separation.[7][5][8]

Armstrong is married to John Bluher, an attorney, as of April 4, 2014, in Pacific Palisades, Los Angeles.[9]

In June 2022, Armstrong starred in season two of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, which premiered on Peacock. Filming was completed in September 2021 at Dorinda Medley's Blue Stone Manor in The Berkshires.

On August 1, 2022, it was announced that Armstrong would be joining The Real Housewives of Orange County as a "friend of the housewives" for the seventeenth season, making her the first American housewife to switch franchises.[10]

Armstrong came out as bisexual on an episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County on June 28, 2023, and mentioned in that episode that she had been in a five-year relationship with a woman before she was married to Russell.[11]

On November 29, 2023, it was revealed that Armstrong would not be returning to The Real Housewives of Orange County, after only one season.[12]

Internet meme

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In 2019, a screen-capture of Armstrong on the second season of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills was used in an Internet meme called "woman yelling at a cat". The meme depicts an upset Armstrong during a heated discussion about her husband's abuse juxtaposed with a photograph of a cat named Smudge. Armstrong reacted positively to the meme. She also talked about her relationship with her ex-husband.[13][14][15]

Filmography

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Television

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Year Title Role Notes
2008 The Hills Herself Episode: "When Lauren's Away..."
2010–2016 The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Herself Series Regular (Seasons 1–3)
Guest (Seasons 4–6)
2014 Couples Therapy Herself Season 4
2022 The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Herself Season 2
2023 The Real Housewives of Orange County Herself Friend of (Season 17)

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Taylor Armstrong (born Shana Lynette Hughes; June 10, 1971) is an American television personality, author, and advocate who rose to prominence as a cast member on the Bravo reality series The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills during its first two seasons from 2010 to 2011. Born in Independence, Kansas, she gained widespread attention amid personal turmoil, including her 2011 filing for divorce from financier Russell Armstrong on grounds of physical and emotional abuse, followed shortly by his suicide by hanging at age 47. The incident revealed Russell's $1.5 million in debts and business failures, casting scrutiny on their marriage and her public narrative of concealed domestic violence. Armstrong detailed these experiences in her 2012 memoir Hiding from Reality: My Story of Love, Loss, and Finding the Courage Within, which became a bestseller, and has since positioned herself as a speaker and volunteer for domestic violence prevention organizations.

Early Life

Childhood and Family Background

Taylor Armstrong was born Shana Lynette Hughes on June 10, 1971, in . Her family relocated to , during her early years, where she spent much of her childhood and attended Tulsa Union High School as Shana Hughes. Prior to her entry into public life, Hughes adopted the name Shana Taylor to honor her , reflecting a personal effort to redefine her identity amid family dynamics. She later changed it to Taylor Ford, inspired by the fashion designer, before assuming the surname Armstrong through marriage. Limited public details exist regarding her biological parents or siblings, with Armstrong's accounts emphasizing a Midwestern upbringing marked by these name changes rather than extensive family disclosures.

Education and Early Career

Armstrong, born Shana Lynette Hughes on June 10, 1971, in Independence, Kansas, relocated with her family to Tulsa, Oklahoma, during her childhood. She attended Union High School in Tulsa, where she participated as a cheerleader and graduated in 1989. After high school, Armstrong moved to New York City to study at New York University, earning a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Drama from the Tisch School of the Arts. Details on her immediate post-college professional pursuits remain limited in public records, though by the early 2000s, she had established herself in business, eventually owning a consulting firm prior to her entry into reality television in 2010.

Television Career

Entry into Reality Television

Taylor Armstrong debuted in reality television as a main cast member on the first season of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, a Bravo series that premiered on October 14, 2010. The program chronicled the personal and social lives of six affluent women in Beverly Hills, California, with Armstrong selected for her position within the community's elite circles. Prior to this appearance, Armstrong had no documented experience in television or public media, marking her initial foray into the genre as a then-39-year-old socialite married to financier Russell Armstrong. The casting positioned Armstrong to showcase aspects of her family life, including her daughter Kennedy, amid the show's format of interpersonal dynamics and luxury lifestyles. Her participation from the outset contributed to the series' early narrative of blending glamour with underlying personal tensions, though specific recruitment details remain undisclosed in . This entry established her as a foundational figure in the franchise, preceding later guest roles and crossovers.

The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills


Taylor Armstrong joined The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills (RHOBH) as a main cast member in its second season, which began airing on September 5, 2011. Her introduction portrayed her as a Beverly Hills socialite married to financier Russell Armstrong, with whom she shared a young daughter, Kennedy. The season highlighted tensions in her marriage, including financial strains and interpersonal conflicts with other cast members.
A pivotal moment occurred during a season 2 tea party hosted by Lisa Vanderpump, where Armstrong broke down in tears and confided to castmates that Russell physically abused her, revealing emotional distress over maintaining a facade of marital harmony. Russell Armstrong denied these abuse allegations in public statements, asserting they were unfounded and attributing marital issues to other factors. On August 15, 2011, Russell was discovered deceased in a friend's home from an apparent suicide by hanging; investigations revealed he carried over $1.5 million in debts from business ventures and efforts to sustain their lifestyle. The suicide occurred amid ongoing season 2 production and airing, prompting Bravo to air a special discussing the event and re-edit episodes sensitively. Season 3, premiering in late 2012, opened with cast members Kyle Richards and others reflecting on the tragedy's impact, while Armstrong appeared sparingly, focusing on grief and single parenthood. She exited as a full-time housewife after season 3, stating the need to retreat from media attention and paparazzi following the personal upheaval. Armstrong returned for guest and "friend of" roles in seasons 4 through 6, participating in events like dinner parties but maintaining a lower profile amid ongoing scrutiny of her storyline.

Subsequent Appearances and Franchise Shifts

After departing as a main cast member following the third season of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills in 2013, Armstrong made recurring guest appearances on the series during seasons 4 through 6 (2013–2015), providing updates on her personal recovery and family life amid ongoing media scrutiny. Armstrong took a hiatus from the Real Housewives franchise after 2015, focusing on private endeavors including relocation to Colorado and remarriage, before returning to Bravo programming in June 2022 with season 2 of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Ex-Wives Club, a Peacock spin-off featuring former cast members from various franchises; her participation reignited tensions with ex-castmate Brandi Glanville, stemming from prior Beverly Hills conflicts. In a franchise first, Armstrong transitioned to The Real Housewives of Orange County as a "friend of the housewives" for its 17th season, which premiered on June 7, 2023; the move, announced on August 1, 2022, followed her relocation to Orange County and marked the inaugural intra-franchise shift for a Housewives cast member across U.S. iterations. Her role involved attending social events and interacting with the core cast, including Heather Dubrow, without full-time status, and she highlighted a "different side" of herself post-Beverly Hills trauma during BravoCon 2022 promotions. Beyond Housewives properties, Armstrong appeared on VH1's in 2012 with her then-husband David Schwart, addressing relational strains shortly after her prior personal losses, and guest-starred on WE tv's in 2014 for event-planning segments. No major Housewives commitments have been announced as of October 2025, though she has pursued minor acting roles in independent films, defending her expanding against castmate skepticism during Orange County filming.

Personal Life

Marriages and Relationships

Taylor Armstrong had a five-year romantic relationship with a prior to her first . She publicly identified as bisexual in 2023, describing the prior partnership as enduring longer than some . Armstrong married her first husband, Russell Armstrong, on October 27, 2005, after a brief . The couple, who met while she worked as a , wedded in a and resided in Beverly Hills. Their marriage lasted nearly six years until Armstrong filed for on July 15, 2011, citing amid allegations of physical and . Russell Armstrong died by on August 15, 2011, shortly after the filing. Following Russell's death, Armstrong entered a relationship with attorney John H. Bluher, whom she began dating in 2012 after his own divorce. Bluher proposed to her in 2013 during a trip to . The pair married on April 4, 2014, in a beachside ceremony in Pacific Palisades, , blending their families which included children from prior relationships. As of 2025, Armstrong and Bluher remain married, with her describing the union as a source of stability after previous turmoil.

Children and Family Dynamics

Taylor Armstrong has one child, a daughter named Kennedy Caroline Armstrong, born in May 2006 to her and her second husband, Russell Armstrong. Kennedy, who turned 18 in 2024, graduated from high school that year amid discussions of potential majors and locations. Following Russell Armstrong's suicide on August 15, 2011, during their ongoing proceedings, Taylor Armstrong became Kennedy's sole custodial parent and relocated with her to to focus on personal recovery and family stability. Armstrong has described the period as challenging, with Russell's death profoundly impacting Kennedy, though she has stated that her daughter "couldn't care less" about certain aspects of her father's memory and does not actively miss him. The family does not commemorate in relation to Russell, opting instead to honor John Bluher, whom Armstrong married on April 4, 2014, as Kennedy's father figure after his legal of her. Armstrong and Bluher, along with Kennedy, later settled in , forming a stable family unit of three. Armstrong has publicly expressed pride in Kennedy's growth, sharing milestones such as her high school senior year and emphasizing a close mother-daughter bond forged through adversity. Russell Armstrong had a , Aiden, from a prior relationship, making him Kennedy's half-brother, but no ongoing family dynamics involving him with Taylor or Kennedy have been documented post-2011. Russell Armstrong, the estranged husband of Taylor Armstrong, died by on August 15, 2011, at the age of 47. He was found hanged in a guesthouse on in , with the Los Angeles County coroner's office ruling the a and noting no drugs or alcohol in his system at the time. The revealed no underlying physical health issues contributing to the , and no was left behind. The suicide occurred approximately one month after Taylor Armstrong filed for divorce on July 15, 2011, citing irreconcilable differences and allegations of physical and verbal abuse by Russell, though he had publicly denied such claims prior to his death. Contributing factors included severe financial distress; Russell faced over $1.5 million in debt, including a recent $1.5 million lawsuit from a former client alleging fraud in investment dealings, and a prior 2005 Chapter 7 bankruptcy filing where he listed $50,000 in assets against debts exceeding $1 million. His attorney attributed the act to mounting pressures from the divorce, financial collapse, and the public scrutiny of Taylor's role on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which Russell had reportedly funded heavily in hopes of advancing her career. In the legal aftermath, Russell's family explored suing Bravo and , blaming the network's portrayal of their family dynamics and the ensuing media pressure for exacerbating his stress, though no materialized. Estate disputes arose between Taylor and Russell's relatives over asset distribution, including a $1 million policy, with questions raised about rights given the pending divorce; probate proceedings ultimately hinged on existing documents, potentially favoring Taylor as the surviving despite estrangement. Taylor also managed fallout from Russell's unresolved $1.5 million client , which alleged undisclosed financial maneuvers involving funds used for home renovations. Prior to his , Russell had settled a separate accusing him of diverting business funds for personal use and had considered legal action against a Real Housewives castmate over on-show conflicts.

Advocacy and Writing

Domestic Violence Awareness Efforts

Following the suicide of her second husband, Russell Armstrong, on August 15, 2011, Taylor Armstrong publicly disclosed experiences of physical and emotional abuse during their marriage, which she had previously concealed on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. In September 2011, she detailed these incidents in interviews, emphasizing the fear that prevented disclosure and the impact on her daughter. This marked the beginning of her advocacy, framed as breaking the cycle of silence affecting an estimated 80 percent of domestic abuse victims. In 2012, Armstrong published Hiding from Reality: My Story of Love, Loss, and Finding the Courage Within, a chronicling her abusive relationship and path to recovery, which reached the New York Times bestseller list. The book served as a platform to highlight dynamics, including financial control and self-doubt, and launched a national speaking campaign on the topic. She established the Taylor Armstrong Foundation, a nonprofit aimed at raising awareness and providing financial assistance to survivors for costs like relocation and therapy. Armstrong has delivered speeches at events focused on prevention and survivor support, including the Kristin's Fund gala, where she underscored that affects individuals across socioeconomic lines. In October 2025, she participated in the Evanston/North Shore's "In Her Voice" series during Awareness Month, discussing realities of abuse and the need for community action, with proceeds funding services like crisis support and housing. Her efforts emphasize and early intervention, drawing from personal accounts rather than institutional statistics.

Publications and Speaking Engagements

Armstrong published her Hiding from Reality: My Story of Love, Loss, and Finding the Courage Within on February 7, , through Gallery Books, an imprint of . The book chronicles her childhood exposure to , her to Russell Armstrong marked by alleged physical and emotional violence, and the events surrounding his in 2011, framing these as catalysts for her . It received mixed reception, with some readers praising its raw account of survival while others questioned elements of her narrative amid broader scrutiny of her claims. No subsequent books by Armstrong appear in major publisher catalogs or retailer listings as primary authorship beyond editions of this . Her writing efforts tie into her role as founder and president of the Taylor Armstrong Foundation, a nonprofit supporting victims, though the organization emphasizes outreach over additional publications. Armstrong has pursued speaking engagements centered on awareness, positioning herself as a survivor at events hosted by universities, charities, and women's organizations. Notable appearances include a at on October 15, 2018, as part of Awareness Month, where she discussed breaking cycles of ; a , event on October 17, 2014, sharing her personal story; and an speaking engagement in December 2016 focused on recognizing red flags. She has also keynoted at galas like Kristin's Fund and programs, emphasizing prevention and support for victims. Agencies such as AAE Speakers Bureau list her for bookings on these topics, highlighting her transition from to motivational speaking.

Controversies

Skepticism Surrounding Abuse Claims

Skepticism regarding Taylor Armstrong's allegations of physical and emotional abuse by her husband Russell Armstrong emerged primarily from his legal representatives, the absence of contemporaneous police reports, and ambiguities in supporting documentation. Russell Armstrong's attorney, Ronald Richards, publicly asserted in September 2011 that photographs Armstrong presented as evidence of her injuries—depicting bruises and swelling—were fabricated, claiming they lacked authenticity and were inconsistent with genuine trauma. Russell himself denied striking her, acknowledging only instances of pushing during arguments but rejecting claims of sustained physical violence. Armstrong later conceded that she never filed police reports during the alleged six-year period of , explaining in a 2019 interview that her affection for Russell and reluctance to see him incarcerated deterred her from doing so; she estimated physical incidents occurred approximately 20 times without external intervention. This lack of official records fueled doubts, as advocates and legal observers note that unreported cases are common, yet the absence of any prior documentation or third-party corroboration beyond her disclosures on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills invited scrutiny, particularly given the high-profile context. Medical records released by Armstrong in 2012 documented instances of "" to her head and eye but did not explicitly attribute them to spousal abuse, leaving causation open to interpretation and prompting questions about alternative explanations such as accidents or self-infliction. Castmates on the show, including and Camille Grammer, expressed initial reservations during filmed interactions and reunions, viewing Russell's reserved demeanor as inconsistent with an abuser's profile and questioning whether Armstrong's revelations served dramatic or financial motives amid the couple's mounting debts exceeding $1.5 million. These elements contributed to a narrative divide, with some media outlets and observers attributing Russell's August 2011 more to financial ruin and public exposure of his business failures than to the abuse allegations aired on the series.

Interactions with Castmates and Media Scrutiny

During the second season of of Beverly Hills, which aired in 2011, Armstrong's castmates, including and Camille Grammer, confronted her about signs of in her marriage to Russell Armstrong, such as a visible and reports of controlling behavior. This led to a tense dinner scene at Vanderpump's home where the group pressed Armstrong to acknowledge the abuse on camera, amid her initial denials and efforts to maintain a facade of marital harmony. Armstrong later described the interactions as stemming from genuine concern but also as exacerbating her isolation, with castmates like forming closer bonds while others viewed her reticence suspiciously. Post-filming, Armstrong's relationships with castmates remained strained; Russell Armstrong had reportedly threatened legal action against them for discussing the couple's marital issues on the show, creating behind-the-scenes friction that only surfaced publicly after his death. Some cast members expressed ongoing support, with Armstrong maintaining that the "original six" shared a "special bond" forged through the season's events, though later appearances like The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip in 2022 highlighted lingering tensions, such as with Brandi Glanville, whom Armstrong had clashed with during her RHOBH tenure. Russell Armstrong's on August 15, 2011, at age 47, drew intense media scrutiny to the show's handling of and financial distress themes, with outlets questioning whether the production's focus on personal turmoil contributed to his mental state amid reported debts exceeding $1.5 million. Coverage in major publications highlighted ethical concerns in reality TV, including unedited portrayals of vulnerability and the one-sided dynamics where producers prioritized drama over participant welfare, though Armstrong maintained the show did not directly cause the tragedy. The coroner's report confirmed no foul play, attributing the death to asphyxiation, but public discourse persisted on Bravo's lack of intervention protocols for at-risk individuals.

Public Image and Internet Memes

Armstrong's portrayal on of Beverly Hills (RHOBH) from 2010 to 2012 established her public image as that of an emotionally intense figure navigating personal turmoil, including marital strife and allegations that castmates publicly questioned during filmed confrontations. This depiction, amplified by the show's format emphasizing interpersonal drama, led to perceptions of her as fragile or overly reactive, with some viewers and media outlets attributing her behavior to genuine distress while others viewed it as performative or evasive amid skepticism over the veracity of her claims. Following her departure from RHOBH after her husband Russell Armstrong's in August 2011, her image evolved into one associated with resilience through advocacy, yet persistently linked to the raw, unfiltered moments captured on camera that fueled ongoing scrutiny and cultural referencing. A pivotal element of Armstrong's enduring public footprint involves memes derived from her RHOBH appearances, particularly a season 2 scene from October 2011 where she became visibly agitated during a dinner party hosted by Camille Grammer, leading to Kyle Richards physically restraining her amid arguments over her marriage. This image of Armstrong mid-outburst—blonde hair disheveled, mouth open in distress—has been widely repurposed online, symbolizing exaggerated frustration or denial. The most prominent adaptation emerged in late 2018 to 2019 as the "" meme, which composites the RHOBH with a separate viral photo of Smudge, a confused-looking white (owned by Tabs Hers) seated at a dinner table before a plate of and tomatoes, often captioned to depict mismatched arguments or absurd confrontations. The meme's virality exploded in 2019, amassing millions of shares across platforms like (now X), , and , where variations incorporated audio clips or text overlays referencing pop culture denial scenarios, such as "I did not hit my wife, I did not. Oh, hi Mark." Its origins trace to the RHOBH episode airing on January 23, 2012, but the mashup gained traction after Smudge's image circulated independently since 2015, highlighting how reality TV can intersect with unrelated viral content to create lasting digital artifacts. Despite the meme's humorous intent, its roots in Armstrong's real-time marital —disclosed shortly before Russell's death—have prompted reflections on the commodification of trauma, with analyses noting the irony of a moment born from intervention over alleged abuse becoming a detached comedic staple. Armstrong has addressed the meme's prominence in subsequent years, expressing a degree of acceptance while contextualizing its personal cost. In a June 13, 2025, interview, she reacted to TikTok adaptations of the scene, stating she finds some iterations amusing but acknowledges the underlying pain from the filmed event, which occurred amid her separation filing on , 2011. This response underscores a shift in her public engagement with the , from initial surprise at its 2019 surge to viewing it as an unexpected form of immortality, though it perpetuates a simplified, meme-ified lens on her RHOBH tenure rather than her post-show endeavors in writing and speaking. The phenomenon has also inspired anniversary celebrations among online communities, such as a May 2024 group post marking five years since the meme's peak, illustrating its sustained cultural resonance.

Later Career and Current Activities

Life Coaching and Professional Shifts

Following her exit from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills after appearing as a main cast member in seasons 1 through 3 and as a friend in subsequent seasons, as well as a brief stint as a friend on The Real Housewives of Orange County in season 17, Taylor Armstrong shifted her professional focus from to life coaching and . This transition, evident by 2025, emphasizes empowering women through structured programs rooted in her narrative of resilience amid personal hardships. Armstrong's primary offering is the "Comeback Queen Course," a 12-week online program aimed at guiding participants—primarily women—from states of personal crisis, described as "rock bottom," toward reinvention, incorporating elements of confidence-building, humor, and graceful recovery. She also facilitates the "Comeback Community," a membership group that provides ongoing support via monthly Zoom calls to foster recovery and mutual encouragement among members. These initiatives operate through her dedicated platform at taylorarmstrong.live, reflecting a pivot to digital wellness services over on-camera . In promoting her coaching work, Armstrong maintains an active presence on , including and , where she disseminates content on practical tools for overcoming adversity, encapsulated in her self-applied moniker "Comeback Queen." A representative sentiment from her outreach states, "That’s why we gain tools, not pity," underscoring a centered on actionable strategies rather than . This professional evolution positions her as a resilience-focused coach, distinct from her earlier pursuits in and , though it draws directly from the publicized aspects of her life story for credibility and relatability.

Recent Media Appearances

In 2023, Armstrong appeared as a "friend of the housewives" on season 17 of The Real Housewives of Orange County, marking her return to the Bravo franchise after departing The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills in 2013. During an episode aired on June 28, she publicly came out as bisexual, discussing a past relationship with a woman that occurred before her marriages. She announced her exit from the series in November, citing a desire to focus on other endeavors, and did not return for season 18. That September, Armstrong guested on Watch What Happens Live with , where she reacted to a involving RHOC cast drama and shared candid opinions on ongoing franchise storylines. She also participated in panels at BravoCon 2023, further addressing her personal disclosures from the RHOC season. In September 2024, Armstrong appeared on Turtzed the , discussing her reality TV experiences and post-Housewives life. The following year, on March 25, 2025, she was a guest on the Rooted Recovery Stories episode titled "The Comeback Queen: Life Beyond The Spotlight," where she reflected on trauma, recovery, and contrasts between her public persona and private struggles. Armstrong featured prominently in the April 2025 documentary series Hollywood Demons, specifically 4, "Housewives Gone Bad," aired on April 14. In the segment, she recounted alleged abuse by her late husband Russell Armstrong, including previously unreported incidents, and addressed rumors surrounding his 2011 . The , part of a series examining scandals, drew from her firsthand accounts but has been critiqued in online discussions for its sensational framing typical of true-crime formats.

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