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Steve Grand (born February 28, 1990)[1] is an American singer, songwriter and model from Lemont, Illinois, a Chicago suburb.[2] He became an overnight internet celebrity and the music video of his first hit "All-American Boy" went viral on YouTube in less than a week in July 2013.[3][4][5] This attention landed Grand on Good Morning America, CNN and other national media.[6][7][8] In addition to being a musician, Grand has become an active figure in the LGBT equality movement.[9][10][11] He released his debut album titled All American Boy financed by a successful Kickstarter public funding campaign. The follow-up album Not the End of Me was released in 2018.
Life and career
[edit]1990–2010: Early life
[edit]Grand grew up in the town of Lemont, Illinois, which he has "lovingly described as one of the 'blandest suburbs outside of Chicago'."[12]
Grand started writing music when he was 11 years old. After graduating from Lemont High School, Grand attended Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee, for a year. He then returned to Chicago to enroll at the University of Illinois and later left to focus on his musical career.[3][13]
Grand cites a wide range of musical influences, including: The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Neil Young, Bruce Springsteen, Elton John, Billy Joel, Blink-182, Green Day, Taking Back Sunday, Brand New, Lady Gaga and Fall Out Boy.[12] Grand told QVegas: "But it was Dad who got me started. He would listen to a song and tell stories about what each song meant to him: where he was in life, who he was dating, what car he was driving. He made me realize the lasting power of music -- how a great song can take you back to the moment you first heard it. From that point on, I knew that's what I wanted to do in life, create something so real and beautiful that it stays with its listener forever."[14]
2011–2015: Career beginnings and All American Boy
[edit]Prior to launching his musical career, Grand modeled under a number of pseudonyms;[12] he was a cover model for Australia's DNA magazine in 2011 with a photo session shot by photographer Tom Cullis.[15] He played piano at four Chicago-area churches and at various clubs in Chicago, most notably The Joynt in downtown Chicago, until 2013.[13] He also performed cover songs, including hits by Lady Gaga, Bruno Mars, One Direction and Journey, and uploaded these to YouTube under the name Steve [Starchild]. However, Grand wanted to release original music.[12]
On July 2, 2013, Grand uploaded a music video for his song "All-American Boy" to YouTube—producing it himself at a cost of US$7,000. The video almost immediately went viral. Just eight days later, "All-American Boy" had more than 1 million views.[3][16][17][18][19] The song, set against a backdrop of country roads, an American flag and friends around a campfire, tells the story of a young man in love with a heterosexual male friend. Grand recorded the vocals in his parents' basement and maxed out his credit card to self-fund the video. The video was directed and edited by filmmaker Jason Knade.[20] BuzzFeed ranked the video for "All-American Boy" on its list of the "24 Most Brilliant Music Videos from 2013", and Out magazine named Grand to its annual "Out100" list of the year's most compelling LGBT people.[21][22] On July 18, 2013, Grand made his television debut, performing "All-American Boy" on WLS-TV produced program Windy City Live.[23]
Some media have claimed that Grand is the "first openly gay male country singer", although this has been disputed.[24] Grand does not claim to be the first of his kind, and often talks with praise about the trailblazers who have come before him. Several gay male country musicians have toured gay bars and other venues for decades, beginning with Patrick Haggerty's band Lavender Country in 1972,[25] and two months before Grand's video hit, The New York Times profiled openly gay singer/songwriter Shane McAnally,[26] who has had charted songs as a vocalist in the past and is currently one of the most successful songwriters in the industry. Other openly gay or bisexual male vocalists who have had successful careers in the country music industry as songwriters or musicians have included Jimbeau Hinson, Drake Jensen, Mark Weigle, Brian Glenn,[27] and Shane Stevens.[28] Openly gay country star Chely Wright lauded Grand as "brave" in remarks to Michael Musto of Out.com, saying: "This is uncharted territory, as you know. I came out after having been in the business for years. He's trying to get into the business."[29]
On a number of interviews and media appearances, Grand disputes himself being a country artist. In an interview with Time Out, New York in preparation for the launching of his debut album All-American Boy, he says: "There's a lot of talk about me being a country artist, and that was the headline from the start: Gay country artist. I never really identified with that — I certainly didn't put that out there myself, and I've never done anything to affirm that label. That was something that was just placed on me. I mean, I understand, [the song] "All-American Boy" does sound country, and the video is certainly very country. But there's stuff that's very dance-pop with not a trace of country on the record. So I think that will surprise people. But I'm a songwriter, and I've always been much more concerned about just the basic elements, the lyric and the melody rather than the production."[30] Metrosource wrote that All-American Boy has "disparate" song styles, but it "works as a cohesive unit - rarely seen today...."[12]
On September 6, 2013, Grand released "Stay", the follow-up single to "All-American Boy".[31] followed by "Time" in 2014.[32]
He announced plans to release his debut album financed by a successful Kickstarter public funding campaign. Just one day after the launch, the original $81,000 goal had been reached and in within 5 days, double the original funding goal, and by close, $326,593 had been pledged by 4,905 backers.[33] The album titled All-American Boy was released on March 24, 2015.[34] Since releasing his first album, Grand has travelled across the United States performing at Gay Pride Festivals and supporting gay causes.
On June 20, 2014, Grand performed at the WorldPride Toronto 2014 opening ceremonies. Steve Grand performed during the ceremony along with Melissa Etheridge, Deborah Cox, and Tom Robinson. Toronto, with a population of approximately 6.4 million people, held 3 marches over 3 days: Trans march, Dyke march, and the WorldPride Parade.
In June 2015, Grand made his first trip to Europe as an Arts Envoy of the Bureau of Educational and Cultural Affairs for the U.S. State Department. He and his band promoted LGBT rights in Austria. While in Austria, he gave a talk and did a video for the local NGO "It Gets Better."[35] He gave a concert hosted by the Tri-Mission Ambassadors at the residence of Ambassador Alexa Wesner, a concert for Vienna's LGBT community as well as a concert at the Pride festival in Graz.[36] He also performed at Europride in Riga, Latvia.[37]
In December 2015, Grand produced a bluesy and soulful reprise of Mariah Carey's "All I Want for Christmas Is You".[38]
2016–2018: Not the End of Me and acting
[edit]In March 2016, Grand and singer/songwriter Eli Lieb co-wrote a duet "Look Away".[39] By November 2016 the music video had received over 1,000,000 views on YouTube.
In March 2017, Grand performed at the Gay Mardi Gras in Sydney, Australia [40] and Gay Pride Tampa, Florida.[41]
Grand made his acting debut in December 2017 on the web series "Falling for Angels" (a Here TV/Pride Media project).[42]
During the summers of 2017 and 2018, Grand took up residence in Provincetown, Massachusetts, while performing weekly at the Art House.[43]
Grand's second album, "Not the End of Me," was released on July 6, 2018.[44] The music on this album reflects Grand's development as an artist and performer with a wide array of songs capturing his moods and personal experience.[45] Not The End Of Me appeared at number 10 on the Billboard independent charts for the week of July 21, 2018.[46]
Personal life
[edit]By age 13, Grand had come to the realization that he was gay[47] and struggled to gain acceptance of his sexuality within his Catholic family and faith.[2] He came out to friends starting in eighth grade.[citation needed]
On Good Morning America Steve shared how difficult it was for him to come out to his parents as a high school student—saying with obvious emotion "I felt like I was a shame to my parents and that there was no way I could ever make them proud"․ When his parents learned of his homosexuality, they encouraged him to seek counseling that would last five years. While some have called his therapy conversion therapy, he has not. In an interview with Michael Musto of Out.com, Grand said: "I want to make it clear that it's been misrepresented that I went through what most people know as conversion therapy. I saw a Christian therapist who, among many other beliefs, believed I'd be happier in a straight life. He didn't shame me for being gay. Most of the focus, we weren't even talking about my sexuality. But certainly his belief that I'd be living a happier life as a heterosexual was indeed harmful. In no way, shape, or form ... do I condone ex-gay therapy. I think it's a horrible practice. There's no scientific basis for it. A person's sexuality is a part of who they are. And I certainly suffered for not having my sexuality affirmed."[29]
He came out at age 19, and has attended the Chicago Gay Pride parade.[12]
In June 2015, Steve was interviewed by Johnny McGovern and described his coming out process as well as his musical development through his first album.[48]
In December 2015, Steve went public with his move toward sobriety.[49]
Activism
[edit]Grand has become an active figure in the LGBT equality movement.[citation needed] In addition to being a singer-songwriter and performer, Grand has performed at Pride events – and has partnered with The Human Rights Campaign[clarification needed] The Anti-Violence Project, Bailey House, the GLSEN Respect Awards, Out & Equal Workplace Advocates and the March on Springfield for Marriage Equality.[citation needed]
In 2014, he was one of the performers at the opening ceremonies of WorldPride in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.[50]
In June 2015, Steve Grand visited Riga, Latvia, to teach a master's class and to take part in the Europride festival that was held in the country's capital city.[51]
In popular culture
[edit]Steve Grand has become a media-sought figure as a gay young artist.[citation needed] In 2013, he appeared on Out magazine's "Out100" list of prominent LGBT people.[citation needed] He also appeared in 2013 on Instinct gay American magazine's cover as one of its "Leading Men".
In 2016, Grand was included in Out Magazine's 100 Most Eligible Bachelors.[52] In May 2017 Steve was named the #3 most eligible Gay Bachelor by Attitude Magazine.[53][54]
Discography
[edit]- All American Boy (2015)
- Not the End of Me (2018)
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[edit]Steve Grand
View on GrokipediaEarly Life
Childhood and Family Background
Steve Grand was born on February 28, 1990, and raised in Lemont, Illinois, a suburb of Chicago, in a Polish Catholic family.[9] His parents supported his early creative interests by purchasing an old upright piano after moving to a new house, which sparked his lifelong engagement with music.[9] Grand began playing piano at age five, inspired in part by the character Schroeder from the Peanuts comic strip, and started learning guitar around ages nine or ten.[9] He composed his first song at age eleven and participated in school music programs, including jazz band, symphonies, and musicals.[9] His early musical tastes were shaped by his father's preferences, including artists such as John Lennon, Billy Joel, Elton John, Neil Young, Carole King, and James Taylor.[4] Grand has a brother with whom he shared childhood experiences, such as joining Boy Scouts at age six and both attaining the rank of Eagle Scout as teenagers; he has also referenced a sister in personal posts.[7] His Catholic upbringing involved regular church attendance, where he played music, but it intersected with personal struggles over sexuality.[4] At age thirteen, Grand experienced his first crush on a male counselor during a Boy Scout summer camp, prompting his parents to seek intervention through an Evangelical Christian psychologist, involving weekly sessions for five years aimed at addressing his homosexuality.[4] In high school, after his parents discovered an AOL instant message indicating same-sex attraction, they enrolled him in ex-gay therapy and restricted his social activities out of concern.[10] Over time, his family became more accepting, though initial discussions of his sexuality were limited and emotionally challenging for his mother.[10][4]Musical Beginnings and Education
Grand began playing the piano at the age of five and took up the guitar around nine or ten years old.[9] He composed his first song at age eleven.[11] [9] During high school at Lemont High School in Lemont, Illinois, Grand participated extensively in music-related activities, including playing piano in the jazz band and performing as the lead in a production of West Side Story in his senior year.[9] He graduated from Lemont High School before pursuing higher education.[12] Following high school, Grand enrolled at Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee, where he completed his freshman year in a music business program and studied songwriting.[9] [13] He then returned to Chicago and attended Columbia College Chicago to study music production and engineering but ultimately dropped out after approximately three years of college to focus on his music career full-time.[13] [4]Career
Breakthrough with "All American Boy" (2013–2014)
Steve Grand achieved his initial prominence through the independent release of the music video for his debut single, "All-American Boy", uploaded to YouTube on July 2, 2013. Self-financed and largely self-produced, the video portrayed a narrative of unrequited attraction from Grand, playing a gay man, toward his straight best friend during a lakeside weekend. [14] [15] The video rapidly gained traction, accumulating over 500,000 views within its first week and exceeding 1.5 million shortly thereafter, propelled by shares within LGBTQ+ communities and broader online audiences. [16] [17] This viral success marked Grand as one of the first openly gay artists to blend country-rock elements with themes of same-sex desire for a straight counterpart, drawing attention for challenging genre norms without major label support. [10] [14] Media coverage amplified the breakout, with outlets like ABC News highlighting its resonance and unexpected appeal beyond niche markets, while the Los Angeles Times profiled Grand's deliberate choice to release the video amid personal reservations about visibility. [16] [14] The song did not chart on major Billboard lists during this period due to its independent status, but its cultural impact fostered fan engagement that sustained momentum into 2014. [18] Building on this foundation, Grand launched a Kickstarter campaign on February 12, 2014, to fund production of a full debut album under the same title, initially seeking $81,000. [19] The effort quickly escalated, entering Kickstarter's top tiers for music projects; by late March 2014, it ranked as the third most-funded music campaign in platform history, ultimately raising $326,593 from over 3,000 backers. [20] [18] This crowdfunding milestone validated the single's grassroots appeal and enabled independent album development without traditional industry backing. [21]Album Releases and Independent Challenges (2015–2019)
Grand's debut studio album, All American Boy, was released on March 23, 2015, following the viral success of its title track single. The project was financed through a Kickstarter crowdfunding campaign launched in February 2014, which sought $81,000 but ultimately raised $326,593 from nearly 5,000 backers, ranking it among Kickstarter's top-funded music efforts at the time.[21][19][22] As an independent artist without major label backing, Grand handled production and promotion himself, leveraging fan support and digital distribution to achieve initial chart placements on platforms like Billboard's Heatseekers Albums.[18] Operating independently presented ongoing hurdles, including self-managing marketing, distribution, and creative control amid limited resources, with Grand noting in interviews that the absence of label infrastructure meant bearing full accountability for setbacks. He released singles "Look Away" in 2016 and "Walking" in 2017, maintaining momentum through online platforms and live performances while experimenting with pop influences beyond his initial country roots. These efforts highlighted the demands of sustaining visibility without institutional promotion, compounded by personal strains like social media toxicity and isolation during career lulls.[23][5] Grand's sophomore album, Not the End of Me, arrived on July 6, 2018, comprising 10 tracks entirely written and recorded by him in his bedroom studio, underscoring his commitment to autonomy despite resource constraints. The release emphasized introspective themes drawn from personal experiences, serving as a cathartic outlet amid independent production challenges. Throughout this period, Grand's self-reliant approach allowed artistic freedom but required navigating funding dependencies on direct fan engagement and digital sales, free from traditional industry gatekeepers.[24][25][26]Diversification into Acting, Modeling, and Fashion (2020–Present)
In 2019, Grand launched Grand Axis, a clothing line specializing in men's premium underwear, swimwear, athletic wear, shorts, socks, T-shirts, and hats, which he personally designs from Chicago.[6] The brand emphasizes high-quality, form-fitting apparel targeted at male consumers, with Grand drawing on his background in music videos—where his physique was prominently featured—to inform the aesthetic.[27] The swimwear collection officially debuted on October 7, 2020, with worldwide shipping announced via his social media, marking a significant expansion into entrepreneurial fashion design amid challenges in the independent music industry.[28] Grand has actively modeled for Grand Axis, featuring in promotional photoshoots, product calendars (such as the 2022 edition), and magazine spreads to showcase the line's designs.[29] His modeling efforts, often highlighting swimwear and underwear on his Instagram account with over 379,000 followers, leverage his established image as a physically fit public figure to drive brand visibility.[30] In July 2024, he appeared as a cover model in Wire Magazine's Issue 7, posed in Grand Axis pieces by photographer Antony Kozz, further blending his modeling with fashion promotion.[31] Transitioning into acting, Grand took on a role in the 2021 TV mini-series Boy Culture: Generation X, a sequel to the 2006 film exploring themes of male escorts in the digital age.[32] The series, directed by Q. Allan Brocka, features Grand alongside returning star Derek Magyar, with episodes addressing generational shifts in the sex work industry; it became available for streaming in November 2023.[33] This marked his most notable acting credit post-2020, building on prior smaller appearances while aligning with his interest in LGBTQ+-themed narratives.[34] By 2024, Grand described this pivot from music as a deliberate "sexy" evolution into design and visual media, citing creative fulfillment and business independence in interviews.[35]Personal Life
Religious Upbringing and Identity Conflicts
Steve Grand was raised in a Polish Catholic family in Lemont, Illinois, where religious faith was central to family life and moral upbringing.[9][36] At around age 13, while attending Boy Scout camp, Grand first recognized his attraction to the same sex, prompting him to come out to his parents shortly thereafter.[37][4] In response, his parents, concerned about the implications for his future happiness and influenced by their Catholic beliefs that viewed homosexuality as incompatible with church teachings, arranged for him to undergo Christian counseling sessions from ages 13 to 18.[38][39][4] The therapist, an Evangelical Christian, did not engage in overt shaming but emphasized that Grand would likely achieve greater fulfillment in a heterosexual life, fostering a period of internal conflict marked by self-doubt and shame rooted in doctrinal views of homosexuality as sinful.[40][9][41] Grand has recounted initially resisting his sexual orientation due to these religious influences, describing an early aversion to being gay as tied to familial and communal expectations of moral conformity.[9][40] Despite the tensions, he remained engaged with his Catholic parish during his rise to fame in 2013, receiving public praise from congregants and clergy for reconciling his faith with openness about his sexuality, though this compatibility was strained over time.[42] By October 2016, Grand publicly distanced himself from organized religion, stating he no longer identified as a practicing Catholic or adherent to any faith, reflecting unresolved conflicts between his identity and doctrinal constraints.[43]Relationships and Sexuality
Grand publicly identified as homosexual in 2013 through the release of his debut single "All American Boy," a music video depicting unrequited same-sex attraction based on his experiences with a male childhood friend.[10] He has stated that he first recognized his sexual orientation at age 13, after previously feeling different without a clear explanation.[9] Upon coming out to his parents as a teenager, they arranged for him to undergo ex-gay conversion therapy, an experience he later described emotionally in interviews as contributing to internal conflict.[44] Grand's longest documented relationship began at age 18 and lasted seven years, ending around 2015 amid personal challenges including increased alcohol use.[45] In mid-2015, he shared social media posts referencing a boyfriend, though details were limited.[46] By June 2016, he publicly introduced Andres as his partner in a YouTube video series sponsored by Cricket Wireless, documenting their travels across the United States.[47] No subsequent long-term relationships have been publicly confirmed, and as of 2024, Grand has not disclosed current romantic involvement in available interviews.[6]Activism
LGBTQ+ Advocacy Initiatives
Grand has participated in international advocacy efforts, serving as a cultural ambassador for the U.S. State Department to promote LGBT rights in Europe, including discussions and performances in Latvia, Lithuania, and Austria. In summer 2016, he performed at EuroPride in Riga, Latvia—the first such event in a former Soviet country—emphasizing its role in advancing visibility and political dialogue for LGBTQ+ individuals in challenging regions.[48][9] Domestically, Grand headlined performances at key LGBTQ+ events focused on community support and equality. In spring 2016, he appeared at the Louisville Pride Festival, performing for an estimated 12,000 attendees and singing at the largest LGBT wedding reception during the "Say I Do In Lou" contest, organized by the Louisville Pride Foundation to celebrate same-sex marriage milestones.[48] That May, he headlined the 5th Annual LGBT Military Leadership Conference (May 19–22, 2016), hosted by OutServe-SLDN to address discrimination and foster networking among active-duty service members, veterans, and advocates in the military.[49] He has also contributed to fundraising initiatives aiding vulnerable LGBTQ+ populations. Around 2017, Grand performed in a Broadway Bares benefit event in San Francisco for the Richmond/Ermet Aid Foundation (REAF), which supports homeless LGBT youth and individuals living with HIV/AIDS, raising significant funds through the stripped-down show.[9] Additionally, he has directed portions of concert ticket revenues to organizations like the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), citing admiration for their equality work, as noted in a 2019 interview where he committed half of certain event proceeds to the group.[11] These efforts align with his stated goal of using visibility to inspire authenticity and change, particularly for youth facing identity-related struggles.[48]Controversies and Criticisms of Public Stance
In March 2016, Steve Grand faced significant backlash within the LGBTQ+ community following comments he made in an interview with PrideSource, where he attributed much of the online hate directed at him to his identity as a "young, good-looking, white gay man," claiming that "99% of the hate I get is from other gay people."[8][50] Critics, including commentators from LGBTQ Nation and Out magazine, accused Grand of dismissing legitimate concerns about privilege and underrepresenting the experiences of gay individuals who are not young, white, or conventionally attractive, labeling his remarks as an expression of "white male privilege" that overlooked intersectional dynamics within the community.[51][52] Grand responded to the criticism by attempting to clarify his statements on social media, insisting he was "shootin' this shit" informally and not intending to invalidate others' struggles, though this did little to quell the online uproar, which amplified discussions about intra-community tensions and the perceived insensitivity of celebrity narratives centered on personal victimhood.[53][54] The incident highlighted broader debates on social media platforms, where Grand's defenders argued the hate he referenced was empirically observable in his comment sections, often rooted in envy or niche tribalism, while detractors viewed it as tone-deaf amid ongoing advocacy for marginalized subgroups within LGBTQ+ spaces.[55] Additional criticisms of Grand's public persona have surfaced sporadically, such as in 2015 when he defended posting images in revealing swimwear against accusations of immodesty, asserting a "time and place for modesty" but prioritizing personal expression on social media, which drew mixed reactions from fans and observers who debated the boundaries of visibility in gay advocacy.[56] These episodes, while less widespread than the 2016 controversy, underscore recurring tensions between Grand's unapologetic self-presentation and expectations for restraint or deference in public discourse among some community members.Works
Discography
Steve Grand has independently released two studio albums, self-financing his debut through a Kickstarter campaign that raised over $100,000.[57] His music blends country, pop, and rock elements, often exploring themes of love, identity, and resilience. The debut album, All American Boy, was released on March 24, 2015, via Grand Nation distributed by BDG.[58] [59] Produced by Aaron Johnson, it features 12 tracks including the title song, which originated as a 2013 single that amassed millions of views on YouTube.[60] The album peaked at number 2 on the Billboard Heatseekers chart.[59] Not the End of Me, Grand's sophomore effort, followed on July 6, 2018, self-released with all songs written and recorded by the artist.[24] [61] Comprising 10 tracks, it reflects personal growth and was made available in digital, CD, and vinyl formats through his official store.[62]| Title | Release date | Label/Distributor |
|---|---|---|
| All American Boy | March 24, 2015 | Grand Nation / BDG[63] |
| Not the End of Me | July 6, 2018 | Independent[64] |
