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Chirlane Irene McCray (born November 29, 1954)[1] is an American writer, editor, and activist. She was married to former New York City Mayor Bill de Blasio and had been described as de Blasio's "closest advisor."[2] She chaired the Mayor's Fund to Advance New York City and was appointed by her husband to lead a billion-dollar initiative called ThriveNYC.[3] She has also published poetry and worked in politics as a speechwriter.
Key Information
Early life and education
[edit]McCray was born in Springfield, Massachusetts, and spent her early years there. Her mother, Katharine Clarissa Eileen (née Edwards), was an assembly worker at an electronics factory, and her father, Robert Hooper McCray, was an inventory clerk at a military base.[4] She is of Barbadian and St. Lucian descent, but traces her grandmother's last name (Quashie) to Ghana.[5]
When she was ten years old, her family moved to Longmeadow, Massachusetts, becoming only the second black family in the area. Other families in the neighborhood circulated petitions demanding they leave.[6][7] During a portion of her high school years, McCray was the only black student in her school.[8] McCray cites her early experience with racism and bullying as part of the reason she began to write, using her poetry as an outlet for her anger.[6][7][8] She wrote a column for her school newspaper in which she denounced classmates for their racism.[8]
McCray enrolled at Wellesley College in 1972. While studying there, she became a member of a black feminist organization known as the Combahee River Collective.[6][8]
Career
[edit]After graduating from college, McCray moved to New York City to work for Redbook. She published an essay in Essence in 1979 titled "I Am a Lesbian".[6][9] Essence later described the essay as "groundbreaking", asserting that it was "perhaps the first time a Black gay woman had spoken so openly and honestly about her sexuality in a Black magazine".[7] The purpose of the essay was to "dispel the myth that there are no gay black people".[10] Some of her poetry is included in Home Girls: A Black Feminist Anthology.[11]
In 1991, McCray entered politics. She worked as a speechwriter for New York City Mayor David Dinkins.[12] During the Clinton administration, she worked for the New York Foreign Press Center as a public affairs specialist.[13] She also worked as a speechwriter for the New York State Comptroller Carl McCall and for New York City Comptroller Bill Thompson.[14]

In 2004, McCray left Thompson's office to work in the private sector.[15] She worked for five years at Maimonides Medical Center.[16] She also worked for Citigroup in its public relations department for six months before deciding it was "not a good fit".[8] During her husband's campaign for mayor of New York City in the 2013 election, she edited his speeches and helped interview candidates for staff positions.[8]
Involvement in de Blasio administration
[edit]When de Blasio became mayor, he hired publicist Rachel Noerdlinger to be McCray's chief of staff.[17] Later in 2014, Noerdlinger resigned her post following a series of controversies surrounding her behavior and that of persons close to her.[18]
In his second month in office, de Blasio named McCray chair of the Mayor's Fund to Advance New York City.[19] Since then, the Fund has focused on mental health, immigration, and youth workforce projects.[20] In May 2018, The New York Times reported that McCray had last visited the offices of the Mayor's Fund in May 2017. The Times further reported that according to McCray's public schedule, she had spent 19.5 hours in 2017 on work for the Mayor's Fund; however, her spokeswoman estimated that McCray spent 10% of her work schedule on Mayor's Fund business.[21]
ThriveNYC
[edit]In November 2015, McCray led the launch of ThriveNYC, a plan to overhaul the city's mental health and substance abuse services.[22][23] ThriveNYC promoted an integrated public health approach focusing on awareness and early identification.[24][25] In February 2019, Politico criticized ThriveNYC for having an "opaque budget" and "elusive metrics".[26] In a March 2019 article on ThriveNYC, The New York Times reported: "Public health officials credit the plan for drawing attention to mental health… At the same time, some initiatives failed to get started, while others placed unrealistic demands on already strained mental health services". The Times added: "A spreadsheet of nearly 500 data points tracked by City Hall included almost none related to patient outcomes".[27]
ThriveNYC drew harsh criticism over allegations of mismanagement and accusations that it had failed to produce records of tangible results.[3] As of March 2019, nearly $850 million in funding for McCray's mental health program was unaccounted for; furthermore, the program was on track to spend $1 billion over five years. Bronx Councilman Ritchie Torres criticized ThriveNYC, stating that there was "no evidence it’s working".[28]
In 2021, ThriveNYC was made permanent by executive order, "rebranded" as the Office of Community Mental Health, and allocated a further $115 million. The spending plan includes $96 million for B-HEARD, an initiative that dispatches EMTs and social workers as first responders to 911 calls involving mentally ill people in an effort to prevent confrontations with the police.[29][30]
Political ambitions
[edit]In March 2018, McCray stated that she was "seriously considering" running for office in 2021 (the year that de Blasio's second and final term as New York City mayor ended). McCray added that she would not run for mayor of New York City.[31][32]
Personal life
[edit]McCray published an essay in Essence in 1979 entitled "I Am a Lesbian". In that essay, McCray "frankly discussed her sexuality and expressed gratitude that she came to terms with her preference for women before marrying a man".[6][9] McCray met Bill de Blasio in 1991, when they both worked at New York City Hall for then Mayor David Dinkins.[6][12] At the time, de Blasio was an aide to a deputy mayor and McCray was a speechwriter. McCray and de Blasio were married in 1994 in Prospect Park, Brooklyn.[6][33] Asked about her sexuality, McCray has stated that she hates "labels".[34] In 2012, when asked about her 1979 essay, she commented: "In the 1970s, I identified as a lesbian and wrote about it. In 1991, I met the love of my life, married him."[35]
McCray and de Blasio have a daughter, Chiara, and a son, Dante.[36] The family lived in Park Slope, Brooklyn,[6][12] until their 2014 move into Gracie Mansion,[37] the official residence of the Mayor of New York City.[38]
In July 2023, McCray and de Blasio announced their separation and that they will start dating other people, though the two would not be seeking a divorce.[39]
References
[edit]- ^ Fermino, Jennifer (December 3, 2014). "Chirlane McCray in sling after birthday injuries". New York Daily News. Archived from the original on February 23, 2017. Retrieved December 29, 2014.
- ^ Gonen, Yoav (March 7, 2018). "De Blasio gripes about rules barring spouses from paid gigs in government". New York Post. Retrieved March 8, 2018.
- ^ a b Goodman, J. David (March 22, 2019). "Chirlane McCray, de Blasio's Wife, Is Questioned Over His 'Revolutionary' $1 Billion Mental Health Plan". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved October 18, 2019.
- ^ "NYC'S New First Lady Makes Barbadians Proud - Caribbean and Latin America Daily News". December 12, 2013. Retrieved August 1, 2018.
- ^ de Blasio, Bill; McCray, Chirlane (March 29, 2012). "My family's journey to Ghana". Amsterdam News. Retrieved January 2, 2015.
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- ^ a b c Villarosa, Linda (May 9, 2013). "Chirlane McCray: From Gay Trailblazer to Politician's Wife". Essence.com. Retrieved August 14, 2013.
- ^ a b c d e f Barbaro, Michael (October 1, 2013). "Once Alienated, and Now a Force in Her Husband's Bid for Mayor: Chirlane McCray Plays Key Role in de Blasio Campaign". The New York Times. Retrieved October 23, 2013.
- ^ a b Walker, Hunter (December 5, 2012). "Ancient History: The Lesbian Past of Bill de Blasio's Wife". New York Observer. Retrieved January 2, 2015.
- ^ Mcdonough, Katie (May 9, 2013). "Bill de Blasio's wife, Chirlane McCray, on the "fluidity of love" and the political spotlight". Salon.com. Retrieved August 14, 2013.
- ^ Mance, Ajuan (October 18, 2009). "Pioneering Black Feminist Makes History Again". Black On Campus. Retrieved August 14, 2013.
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- ^ "About Chirlane". BilldeBlasio.com. Archived from the original on March 30, 2014. Retrieved January 2, 2015.
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- ^ Fermino, Jennifer (February 28, 2015). "Rachel Noerdlinger, former Chirlane McCray aide, kept ex-con boyfriend updated through controversy". New York Daily News. Retrieved July 28, 2018.
- ^ Taylor, Kate (February 6, 2014). "De Blasio Appoints Chirlane McCray, His Wife, to Lead Nonprofit Group". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved October 11, 2017.
- ^ "Priority Areas - Mayor's Fund". www1.nyc.gov. Archived from the original on November 2, 2017. Retrieved October 11, 2017.
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- ^ "NYC First Lady Chirlane McCray Weighs in on Federal Mental Health Reform". The New York Observer. December 4, 2017.
- ^ "ThriveNYC: A Mental Health Roadmap for All" (PDF). NYC.gov.
- ^ "Fund for Public Health - New York". www.fphnyc.org. Archived from the original on August 12, 2018. Retrieved October 11, 2017.
- ^ "ThriveNYC". www1.nyc.gov. Archived from the original on August 12, 2018. Retrieved October 11, 2017.
- ^ "With opaque budget and elusive metrics, $850M ThriveNYC program attempts a reset". Politico PRO. February 27, 2019.
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- ^ McManus, Bob (March 28, 2019). "There's too much money in Chirlane McCray's hands".
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- ^ Hicks, Nolan (May 6, 2021). "De Blasio rebrands wife's $1B ThriveNYC, makes program permanent". Retrieved September 30, 2024.
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- ^ Belonsky, Andrew (September 3, 2013). "When Bill de Blasio's Wife Was a Lesbian". Out. Retrieved January 2, 2015.
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External links
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Chirlane McCray
View on GrokipediaChirlane Irene McCray (born November 29, 1954) is an American writer, editor, and activist who served as First Lady of New York City from 2014 to 2021 during the mayoralty of her husband, Bill de Blasio.[1][2] A poet and former speechwriter for public officials including David Dinkins and Carl McCall, McCray assumed an unusually influential policy role in city government, co-chairing the NYC Domestic Violence Task Force and launching the NYC Unity Project.[1][3] Her signature initiative, ThriveNYC, aimed to address mental health issues citywide and allocated over $850 million by 2019, though it drew criticism for opaque budgeting, elusive performance metrics, and failure to demonstrate clear reductions in mental health crises or related violence.[2][4][5]
Early Years
Childhood and Family Background
Chirlane Irene McCray was born on November 29, 1954, in Springfield, Massachusetts, to Robert Hooper McCray and Katharine Clarissa Eileen McCray (née Edwards).[1][6] Her mother was of Caribbean descent, with family roots tracing to Barbados and St. Kitts, while the family identified as part of the Black working class in a region dominated by white, working-class communities.[6][7] McCray grew up in Springfield during the 1950s and early 1960s, an era when the city's demographics offered limited interaction with larger Black communities, fostering a sense of racial isolation from an early age.[8] In the mid-1960s, her parents relocated the family—including McCray and her two younger sisters—to Longmeadow, a suburb where they became only the second Black family in town, prioritizing access to superior public schools amid economic modesty.[9][8] This move underscored her parents' focus on education as a pathway to self-reliance, though it intensified experiences of being the sole Black student in her classes and high school, where subtle racial tensions prevailed over overt hostility.[8][10] The family's working-class circumstances, marked by modest means and a compartmentalized daily life—school among white peers followed by home with Black relatives—shaped McCray's early worldview, highlighting contrasts between economic stability pursuits and the psychological strains of demographic rarity in Western Massachusetts.[7][11] Her parents instilled values of perseverance and academic achievement as countermeasures to these environmental challenges, without broader communal support networks until later exposure in adolescence.[8][3]Education
McCray attended public high schools in the Springfield, Massachusetts, area, including Longmeadow High School, from which she graduated in 1972 amid the ongoing social upheavals of the early 1970s, including civil rights advancements and busing debates in Massachusetts.[1][9] For portions of her high school tenure, she was the sole Black student in her school, an experience she has cited as involving encounters with racism and bullying that prompted her retreat into writing and poetry as coping mechanisms.[12][13] McCray enrolled at Wellesley College, an elite women's liberal arts institution in Massachusetts, in 1972 and graduated in 1976 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in English.[14][1] During her time there, she engaged with the college's intellectual environment, including exposure to feminist thought, though records indicate limited direct involvement in campus activism.[7] As one of the few Black students—prior to the class of 1973, Wellesley typically enrolled only a handful of Black women per class, reflecting the institution's predominantly white demographics—she later described feeling alienated in the all-white academic setting juxtaposed against her family life.[15][11]Pre-Political Career
Writings and Early Activism
In September 1979, McCray published the essay "I Am a Lesbian" in Essence magazine, recounting her progression from relationships with men—marked by experiences of racial fetishization and patriarchal dynamics—to embracing a lesbian identity through encounters with women and immersion in black feminist thought.[16][17] The piece articulated a rejection of heterosexual norms, influenced by radical critiques of intersecting racism and sexism, and aligned with black feminist separatism by prioritizing same-sex bonds as a refuge from male dominance and white supremacist structures.[18] During her college years at Wellesley, beginning in 1972, McCray joined the Combahee River Collective, a Boston-based black feminist organization active from 1974 to 1980 that advocated for liberation from multiple oppressions including heteronormativity, class exploitation, and racial hierarchy, often drawing on separatist strategies to foster autonomous black women's spaces separate from white feminism and black patriarchy.[19] The group's statement, co-authored by members including influences on McCray, emphasized identity-based activism as essential for dismantling systemic violence, a perspective echoed in her writings that framed separatism as a pragmatic response to exclusion from broader movements.[7] McCray contributed poetry to feminist publications in the early 1980s, notably "I Used to Think" in the 1983 anthology Home Girls: A Black Feminist Anthology, which critiqued internalized racism, colorism, and gendered stereotypes—such as the "evil, pouting mammy bitch"—while grappling with self-doubt under patriarchal scrutiny and the constraints on black women's expression.[20][21] These works reflected a radical lens on how racism amplified patriarchal control, urging black women toward unapologetic self-assertion amid societal devaluation. McCray's trajectory from these separatist-infused expressions to subsequent heterosexual commitments has prompted divergent interpretations: proponents of fluidity attribute it to personal evolution in understanding sexuality as non-binary, while skeptics highlight potential inconsistency, suggesting accommodation to conventional norms over sustained radicalism, though McCray has described her early stance as context-specific rather than absolute.[22][10]Professional Roles
Following her graduation from Wellesley College in 1976, McCray relocated to New York City and commenced her career in publishing as an editorial assistant at Redbook magazine in 1977.[1] [10] She pursued freelance writing opportunities, including an essay published in Essence magazine in 1979.[23] Throughout the late 1970s and 1980s, McCray held various positions in magazine publishing, encompassing roles as a writer, editor, and marketing research analyst, with employment at New York magazine.[1] [24] In the early 1990s, McCray entered government communications, serving as a speechwriter for New York City Mayor David Dinkins from approximately 1991 onward.[3] [6] From 1994 to 1996, she acted as speechwriter for New York State Comptroller Carl McCall.[1] Following this, McCray joined the New York Foreign Press Center as a press officer.[1] McCray resumed speechwriting in 2001 for New York City Comptroller Bill Thompson.[1] [3] In 2004, she shifted to the private sector, holding a public relations position at Citigroup for six months.[25] Subsequently, she joined Maimonides Medical Center, a nonprofit hospital in Brooklyn, where she worked for five years in roles including human resources, executive office support, and marketing, such as drafting ad copy.[1] [11] [26]
Personal Life
Early Relationships and Identity
In the mid-1970s, while attending Bowdoin College, McCray engaged in same-sex romantic relationships, including falling in love with a woman during her freshman year, which she later described as a source of ecstasy and exploration through intimacy, literature, and community.[10] She reported discovering her attraction to women early in life, prior to any involvement in traditional heterosexual commitments, amid the era's burgeoning feminist and lesbian subcultures that encouraged personal disclosures as acts of defiance against societal norms.[23] McCray publicly identified as a lesbian in a September 1979 essay titled "I Am a Lesbian," published in Essence magazine, where she detailed her experiences and expressed gratitude for embracing this orientation, marking one of the earliest open discussions of Black lesbian identity in mainstream African American media.[27] The piece positioned her within the lesbian-feminist milieu of the time, emphasizing themes of self-acceptance and visibility for women of color outside conventional heterosexual expectations.[28] Subsequent reflections by McCray indicate an evolution in her self-understanding of sexuality, stating in 2013 that she had "evolved" from her earlier identification while remaining proud of that phase, and rejecting rigid labels such as straight, gay, or bisexual to describe her orientation.[29] This shift has prompted skepticism from some commentators, who highlight the apparent inconsistency between her 1970s declarations and later heterosexual partnership, interpreting it as evidence of situational fluidity rather than fixed identity, though McCray has framed it as personal growth unbound by categorical constraints.[30][31] Following the 1970s, McCray did not pursue formal activism centered on LGBTQ+ issues, instead channeling her writings and efforts toward racial justice and women's rights, reflecting a pivot in her public identity priorities amid changing personal circumstances.[32]Marriage to Bill de Blasio
Chirlane McCray met Bill de Blasio in the early 1990s while both were employed in the administration of New York City Mayor David Dinkins.[33] Their initial encounter occurred in a professional setting within city government, where de Blasio served as a regional director for a nonprofit affiliated with Dinkins' campaign efforts, and McCray worked in community affairs.[34] The couple married on March 20, 1994, in a modest ceremony held under a tree in Prospect Park, Brooklyn, officiated by two gay men and followed by a reception featuring casual elements such as a dance to "Super Freak."[35] This low-key event aligned with their shared commitment to progressive causes, emphasizing inclusivity over extravagance.[35] Throughout de Blasio's political ascent, McCray functioned as an informal advisor, contributing to strategy during his early campaigns, including his 2009 run for public advocate.[36] Their partnership was marked by mutual ideological alignment on social justice issues, with McCray providing counsel drawn from her background in activism and writing.[36] As an interracial couple—de Blasio white and McCray Black—their marriage drew attention in New York politics, symbolizing a break from historical norms and appealing to diverse voter bases in a multiethnic city.[37] De Blasio highlighted the relationship in campaigns to underscore themes of racial equity, positioning it as emblematic of progressive values amid scrutiny over interracial unions in public life.[38] Media coverage often portrayed them as a modern, unconventional pairing that challenged traditional political imagery, contributing to de Blasio's 2013 mayoral victory as the first white mayor with a Black spouse.[39] Voter perceptions varied, with some viewing it as a strength in appealing to minority communities, though it occasionally surfaced in discussions of racial dynamics in urban governance.[37]Family and Children
Chirlane McCray and Bill de Blasio have two children: a daughter, Chiara, born in 1994, and a son, Dante, born in September 1997.[40][41] The family maintained a residence in Park Slope, Brooklyn, a neighborhood known for its family-oriented community and brownstone homes, before relocating to Gracie Mansion during de Blasio's tenure as mayor.[42][43] Chiara de Blasio experienced clinical depression throughout her adolescence, which contributed to substance use including alcohol and marijuana during college; she entered outpatient treatment and reported achieving sobriety by late 2013.[40][44] McCray has described learning of Chiara's struggles as a pivotal moment in recognizing signs of mental distress in her children, influenced by her own family's history of depression in both parents and her sister's death by suicide at age 24 due to bipolar disorder, pointing to potential hereditary vulnerabilities alongside environmental stressors within the household.[45][46] Dante de Blasio, the younger child, attended Brooklyn Technical High School and later pursued higher education, with the family publicly supporting his milestones such as his senior year in 2014; no major mental health disclosures have been made regarding him akin to Chiara's experience.[41] McCray has emphasized her parental role in addressing familial mental health challenges through open dialogue, though observers have noted risks in generalizing personal family anecdotes—such as intergenerational depression patterns—to broader causal explanations without distinguishing genetic predispositions from upbringing factors.[47][45]Role in De Blasio Administration
Appointment and Responsibilities as First Lady
Chirlane McCray assumed the role of First Lady of New York City on January 1, 2014, coinciding with her husband Bill de Blasio's inauguration as mayor.[48] In this capacity, she operated as a volunteer without a formal salary, yet her position involved substantive engagement in city initiatives beyond traditional ceremonial functions.[49] Early appointments included a chief of staff, Rachel Noerdlinger, hired in January 2014 to support undefined duties that encompassed policy advocacy and public representation.[48] On February 6, 2014, de Blasio appointed McCray as unpaid chair of the Mayor's Fund to Advance New York City, a nonprofit entity that solicits private donations to support municipal programs and allows for policy influence without direct elected authority.[49] Her responsibilities extended to overseeing the city's mental health portfolio, where she promoted key resources such as the NYC WELL hotline, announced as a citywide service on October 24, 2016, providing 24/7 crisis counseling via phone, text, and chat.[50] This role marked a departure from prior first ladies' more limited engagements, granting her access to policy discussions and administrative resources, including a growing staff funded by city taxpayers—initially a small team that expanded over time to handle operational needs.[48] The structure of McCray's position, combining volunteer status with advisory power over funded initiatives, prompted observations about the boundaries of spousal influence in governance, as her involvement in areas like mental health lacked a public electoral mandate.[51] Official descriptions emphasized fundraising and advocacy through the Mayor's Fund, yet her portfolio enabled direct input into program launches and resource allocation, distinguishing it from predecessors' roles focused primarily on social hosting and charity events.[49]