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| Single by Sheryl Crow | ||||
| from the album The Globe Sessions | ||||
| B-side | "There Goes the Neighborhood" | |||
| Released | August 31, 1998 | |||
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| Length | 4:08 | |||
| Label | A&M | |||
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| Producer | Sheryl Crow | |||
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| "My Favorite Mistake" on YouTube | ||||
"My Favorite Mistake" is the first single from Sheryl Crow's third studio album, The Globe Sessions (1998), released on August 31, 1998, through A&M Records. Crow wrote the song about a relationship with a man who proves to be unfaithful. Released in 1998, the single peaked at number 20 on the US Billboard Hot 100, becoming Crow's fifth top-20 single in the United States, while reaching number two in Canada and giving Crow her seventh top-five hit there. In the United Kingdom, it reached number nine, becoming her last top-10 single in Britain.
Writing and recording
[edit]The song "My Favorite Mistake" was written by Sheryl Crow and her regular collaborator Jeff Trott. The song is about a philandering ex-boyfriend, rumored to be Eric Clapton.[1][2] Crow, however, has refused to say who the song was about, telling Billboard on the release of her album The Globe Sessions, "Oh, there will be just so much speculation, and because of that there's great safety and protection in the fact that people will be guessing so many different people and I'm the only person who will ever really know. I'm really private about who I've had relationships with, and I don't talk about them in the press. I don't even really talk about them with the people around me."[3] Crow compared "My Favorite Mistake" to "You're So Vain" by Carly Simon.[4] However, she later claimed that she does not look at her relationship with Clapton as a mistake and verified that the song was not about him.[2] As further corroboration, Crow introduced Clapton as "a really good friend of mine" in her 1999 performance in Central Park, later to be released as the live album Sheryl Crow and Friends: Live from Central Park.
The songs on The Globe Sessions including "My Favorite Mistake" were written in the first person as opposed the narrative songs featured on her first two albums. Crow was having so much difficulty with the honesty of the lyrics on the album that she was considering cancelling the release of the record in June 1998 and cancelled an appearance at Lilith Fair in the summer of that year. However, eventually the release of the album was deferred for six weeks while she recorded some new songs with a subsequent delay in the release of the leadoff single.
The song was recorded at Globe Recording Studio in New York owned by Robert FitzSimons and Tracey Loggia. Despite the difficulties in recording the album, Crow told the BBC in 2005 that: "My favorite single is 'My Favorite Mistake'; it was a lot of fun to record and it's still a lot of fun to play."[5]
Release and promotion
[edit]"My Favorite Mistake" was released in the US to rock, pop and adult alternative stations in the US on August 18. It was considered to be the obvious choice as the lead single from the album and was widely considered to be one of the best songs from it. A&M Records heavily promoted the single and The Globe Sessions. Samuel Bayer directed the video which was played heavily on both MTV and VH1. Crow was the artist of the month on VH1 for September 1998 with an episode of Storytellers being devoted to her.
The single debuted at number 23 on the Billboard Hot 100 on December 5, 1998, and peaked at number 20, as well as reaching number two on the Billboard Adult Top 40 chart and Canada's RPM Top Singles chart. Crow did not tour immediately on the release of the single or album with a US tour scheduled in February/March 1999. In fact, Crow took time off from promoting the single to tour Vietnam in September 1998 with Steve Earle to promote the International Campaign to Ban Landmines. "My Favorite Mistake" was nominated for the Grammy Award for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance in the 41st Annual Grammy Awards losing to Céline Dion for "My Heart Will Go On". Crow won the Grammy Award for Best Rock Album.
The single was released as a two part set (sold separately) in the United Kingdom. The first part contained two previously unreleased b-sides. The second part contained the songs "Subway Ride" and "Crash & Burn". Though billed as "2 brand new tracks" by a sticker on the front of the release, both songs were actually album tracks from The Globe Sessions. "Subway Ride" is contained on the album as a hidden track. It is also titled on the sticker as "Subway".
Crow performed the song on her live album Sheryl Crow and Friends: Live from Central Park. A different live version appears on some formats of the "There Goes the Neighborhood" single.
Critical reception
[edit]Larry Flick of Billboard wrote, "This first single from her imminent third album, The Globe Sessions, isn't a radical departure, but it certainly displays a laudable degree of growth and an apparent desire to be taken seriously. "My Favorite Mistake" is devoid of quirks and gimmicks. It's a simple rock song with smart, heartfelt lyrics. The overall tone of the song feels far more personal this time, and perhaps that's what has inspired such a restrained, almost introverted vocal, as well as an appealing but low-key arrangement. And while that would normally spell commercial death for a record, it will actually serve this one well. Quite frankly, Crow is just too intriguing here to toss this single off after one listen. She inspires you to go back and listen again and again—and the reward is finding something new and interesting about the track each time."[3] In 2017, Billboard ranked the song number six on their list of the 10 greatest Sheryl Crow songs,[4] and in 2023, The Guardian ranked the song number one on their list of the 20 greatest Sheryl Crow songs.[5]
Music video
[edit]The music video for the song features Crow in a room with spotlights, playing bass guitar and making all kinds of movements, wearing two identical outfits composed of a sleeveless top and leather pants, and each of a different colour, black and red. It was directed by Samuel Bayer.
Track listings
[edit]US 7-inch single[6]
- A. "My Favorite Mistake" (LP version) – 4:06
- B. "There Goes the Neighborhood" (LP version) – 5:02
Canadian, UK, European, and Australian CD single[7][8]
- "My Favorite Mistake" – 4:06
- "Subway Ride" – 4:05
- "Crash and Burn" – 6:37
UK cassette single[9]
- "My Favorite Mistake" – 4:06
- "In Need" – 5:35
- "Carolina" – 3:55
Japanese CD single[10]
- "My Favorite Mistake"
- "In Need"
- "Carolina"
- "Subway Ride"
Credits and personnel
[edit]Credits are lifted from The Globe Sessions album booklet.[11]
Studios
- Recorded at Globe Studios (New York City) and Sunset Sound Factory (Los Angeles)
- Mixed at Sunset Sound Factory (Los Angeles) and Soundtracks (New York City)
- Mastered at Gateway Mastering (Portland, Maine, US)
Personnel
- Sheryl Crow – writing, bass, Hammond B-3, Wurlitzer, percussion, production
- Jeff Trott – writing, tremolo guitar
- Wendy Melvoin – guitars
- Gregg Williams – drums
- Trina Shoemaker – recording
- Huksy Hoskolds – additional recording
- Tchad Blake – mixing
- Bob Ludwig – mastering
Charts
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Weekly charts[edit]
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Year-end charts[edit]
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Certifications
[edit]| Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
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| United States (RIAA)[43] | Gold | 500,000‡ |
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Release history
[edit]| Region | Date | Format(s) | Label(s) | Ref(s). |
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| United States | August 25, 1998 |
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A&M | [44][45] |
| United Kingdom | August 31, 1998 |
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| Canada | September 8, 1998 | CD | [47] | |
| Japan | September 18, 1998 | [48] |
Notes
[edit]- ^ Eye.net review of The Globe Sessions recovered 2 November 2005
- ^ Entertainment Weekly, September 25, 1998, p42 recovered on November 2, 2005
- ^ Billboard Magazine, "The Globe's the Limit on new Sheryl Crow album" August 29, 1998, V110 n35 page 3 recovered through Galenet
- ^ (3) Entertainment Weekly Op. Cit. p42
- ^ (4) Transcript of BBC Radio interview with Ken Bruce accessed 2 November 2005
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My Favorite Mistake
View on GrokipediaBackground and Composition
Writing Process
"My Favorite Mistake" was co-written by Sheryl Crow and her longtime collaborator Jeff Trott during the development of her third studio album, The Globe Sessions, with a focus on infusing the track with raw emotional authenticity drawn from Crow's personal life.[8][9] The song's inspiration stemmed from Crow's experiences with an unfaithful ex-boyfriend, exploring themes of betrayal intertwined with persistent affection for the individual despite the hurt caused.[10][8] While speculation has long linked the lyrics to Crow's brief 1998 romance with Eric Clapton—whom Trott confirmed she dated for about six months—the artist has clarified that the composition predates that relationship and represents a broader, composite emotional response rather than a singular person.[2][9] Crow and Trott's collaboration occurred amid a period of personal upheaval for Crow, including the end of an engagement, which informed the song's honest portrayal of loving someone unattainable; this track emerged as part of the broader songwriting efforts for The Globe Sessions, emphasizing vulnerability in her creative process.[8]Recording Sessions
The recording of "My Favorite Mistake" took place primarily at The Globe Studios in New York City during mid-1998, with additional overdubs and mixing completed at Sunset Sound Factory in Los Angeles.[11][8] The sessions were part of the broader production for Sheryl Crow's third studio album, The Globe Sessions, which spanned from 1996 to 1998 but focused intensely on finalizing tracks like this one toward the album's release.[12] Sheryl Crow served as the primary producer, collaborating closely with co-producer and co-writer Jeff Trott to craft a stripped-down rock sound that prioritized a live band feel over polished production.[13] This approach reflected Crow's desire for unforced creativity and emotional authenticity following personal challenges, including a broken engagement that influenced the album's introspective tone.[14] Key recording decisions emphasized organic elements to enhance intimacy and raw energy. Acoustic guitars were prominently featured to provide a warm, textured foundation, while Crow's layered vocals were meticulously built to convey emotional depth without overproduction.[14] Minimal electronic elements were incorporated, aligning with the album's overall vibe of passionate, analog-driven rock that avoided heavy digital processing.[11] The sessions presented challenges, particularly in refining Crow's vocal performances, which required multiple takes to capture the desired vulnerability and nuance.[8] These efforts culminated in the final mix being completed in August 1998, just ahead of the single's release on August 31.[14]Musical Elements
Style and Instrumentation
"My Favorite Mistake" blends pop rock with adult alternative and alternative rock elements, creating a mid-tempo groove that exemplifies late-1990s mainstream rock sensibilities. Clocking in at 4:06, the track maintains a steady tempo of approximately 105 beats per minute, in the key of E minor and 4/4 time, providing a driving yet reflective pace suitable for radio play.[15][16][17][18] The song's arrangement centers on layered guitars, with Sheryl Crow and co-producer Jeff Trott handling both acoustic and electric parts, including tremolo effects for added depth. Bass duties are performed by Crow herself, complemented by Gregg Williams' drum work that establishes a solid rhythmic foundation. Subtle Hammond B-3 organ contributions from Crow add textural warmth, enhancing the overall intimacy without overpowering the core rock elements.[19][18] Structurally, "My Favorite Mistake" adheres to a classic verse-chorus format augmented by a bridge, allowing for dynamic contrasts that build emotional tension. The verses unfold softly with sparse instrumentation, gradually swelling into an anthemic chorus where fuller guitar layers and percussion drive the momentum. This progression underscores the song's introspective quality.[20] Influenced by 1990s alternative rock, the track evolves Crow's signature sound toward greater maturity, incorporating rawer guitar tones and a less polished production aesthetic compared to her prior albums. This shift aligns with broader trends in the era's rock landscape, emphasizing personal narrative through musical restraint and release.[11]Lyrics and Themes
The lyrics of "My Favorite Mistake" center on the core theme of ambivalent love and forgiveness toward a cheating partner, portraying infidelity as a "favorite mistake" that blends pain with nostalgia for a flawed but cherished relationship. Sheryl Crow has described the song as stemming from a "very bad idea" involving emotional subterfuge in a past romance, where she couldn't fully hate the unfaithful ex despite the betrayal. This duality captures the complexity of attachment, where the end of the relationship feels like both a relief and a lingering fondness, as Crow reflected on loving someone she knew would never commit long-term.[21][10] In the verses, the narrator confronts the partner's detachment, as seen in lines like "I woke up and called this morning / The tone of your voice was a warning / That you don't care for me anymore," evoking a moment of dawning realization amid suspicion and broken promises. The chorus reinforces emotional attachment despite the betrayal, repeating "You're my favorite mistake / Maybe nothing, maybe nothing at all / Maybe you just need a friend / Who knows where it ends, oh well," which underscores resignation mixed with reluctant affection. Later verses highlight the partner's feigned adoration in public while friends offer pity, culminating in the admission of repeated heartbreak: "You keep takin' my love and leavin' me lost." These elements build a narrative of quiet confrontation and self-aware endurance.[6] Interpretations of the song often highlight its exploration of female empowerment through vulnerability, as the narrator reclaims agency by reframing betrayal as a bittersweet personal choice rather than utter defeat. Crow has called the track cathartic, noting it allowed her to process raw emotions from a failed engagement without naming the subject, preserving privacy while making the experience universally relatable—who hasn't loved an unattainable partner? This universality stems from her allusions to the ex, akin to Carly Simon's "You're So Vain," avoiding direct accusations to emphasize emotional truth over specifics.[21][10] During composition, the lyrics evolved spontaneously in a rapid session with co-writer Jeff Trott, refined to maintain broad appeal by steering clear of pointed blame, which enhanced the song's timeless resonance. The understated delivery, supported by the track's mid-tempo rock arrangement, amplifies the lyrical intimacy without overwhelming the themes.[22][2]Release and Promotion
Single Release
"My Favorite Mistake" was released as a single on August 31, 1998, in the United States by A&M Records, marking the lead track from Sheryl Crow's third studio album, The Globe Sessions.[1][11] The single's international rollout followed in September 1998, with various editions issued across Europe, Japan, and other markets to coincide with the album's global launch.[23] The single was made available in multiple physical formats, including CD singles, cassette singles in the US, and 7-inch vinyl pressings for promotional use, while digital versions became accessible in later years through streaming platforms.[23] Its release preceded the album's US debut on September 29, 1998, serving as an introductory piece to build anticipation.[11] As Crow's first major release following the success of her previous albums, Tuesday Night Music Club (1993) and Sheryl Crow (1996), the single was positioned to reassert her presence in the pop-rock landscape after a period of relative quiet. Although there were no significant legal controversies surrounding the release, media attention was drawn to speculation about the song's subject, with rumors suggesting it referenced a high-profile ex-partner like Eric Clapton, though Crow has denied this and maintained privacy on the matter.[21]Marketing Efforts
The marketing efforts for "My Favorite Mistake" emphasized radio promotion, with the single garnering substantial airplay on adult contemporary and rock formats beginning in late 1998. It debuted on the Billboard Pop Airplay chart in September 1998 and climbed to number 5 by December, reflecting a targeted push by A&M Records to capitalize on Crow's established fanbase in those genres.[24][25][26] The song was integrated into Crow's 1999 tour supporting The Globe Sessions, where it became a staple of her live sets, including performances at high-profile events like Woodstock '99 and Central Park concerts. Promotion extended to television, with appearances including a live performance on Saturday Night Live on October 3, 1998. The music video also served as a key promotional tool, airing heavily on MTV and other outlets to boost visibility.[27][28][29] Advertising campaigns tied the single to the album through print ads and promotional materials, such as posters and television spots highlighting The Globe Sessions in music publications like Rolling Stone and Billboard. Early digital efforts included availability for download on emerging platforms, aligning with the nascent MP3 era to reach tech-savvy audiences.[30][31][32] In the 2020s, the track experienced re-promotion through streaming services and social media, appearing on nostalgia-themed playlists on Spotify and gaining traction via TikTok, where users created covers and challenges evoking 1990s pop-rock vibes; Crow herself engaged fans by sharing a video of acoustic covers on the platform in 2024.[33][34]Commercial Performance
Chart Positions
"My Favorite Mistake" entered the US Billboard Hot 100 at number 23 on December 5, 1998, and peaked at number 20 on the chart dated December 19, 1998, maintaining a presence on the chart for 26 weeks.[35][36] Internationally, the song achieved strong results, reaching number 2 on the Canada RPM Top Singles chart, number 9 on the UK Singles Chart, and number 17 on the Australia ARIA Singles Chart.[37][5] On additional US charts, it reached number 2 on the Adult Top 40 and number 21 on the Mainstream Rock chart. The track also ranked in the top 100 on several year-end charts for 1999, reflecting its sustained radio airplay and popularity.[38] In the 2020s, "My Favorite Mistake" experienced a resurgence through streaming platforms, appearing sporadically on digital sales charts due to inclusion in Spotify playlists focused on 1990s hits.[39]| Chart | Peak Position | Weeks on Chart | Year |
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| US Billboard Hot 100 | 20 | 26 | 1998 |
| Canada RPM Top Singles | 2 | - | 1998 |
| UK Singles Chart | 9 | - | 1998 |
| Australia ARIA Singles | 17 | - | 1998 |
| US Adult Top 40 | 2 | - | 1998 |
| US Mainstream Rock | 21 | - | 1998 |
Certifications and Sales
In the United States, "My Favorite Mistake" was certified Gold by the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA) on January 11, 2022, denoting 500,000 units (including streaming equivalents).[40] While no additional major certifications were awarded elsewhere, the track achieved strong commercial performance in markets including Canada and Australia, contributing to its global reach. As of November 2025, streaming equivalents have propelled its digital footprint, with over 40 million plays on Spotify alone, reflecting sustained popularity amid 1990s nostalgia trends.[39]Critical and Cultural Reception
Initial Reviews
Upon its release in August 1998 as the lead single from Sheryl Crow's album The Globe Sessions, "My Favorite Mistake" garnered positive feedback from music critics for its blend of pop-rock accessibility and emotional depth. In its October 1998 review, Rolling Stone awarded the album four out of five stars, praising its raw and personal qualities.[41] A 2018 Rolling Stone retrospective on the best songs of 1998 highlighted the track's "wry honesty" in addressing personal vulnerability through its blues-inflected groove and sharp songwriting.[42] Publications including Billboard noted the song's strong appeal due to its infectious hooks and relatable themes.[43] Reviews were generally positive regarding its emotional depth relative to Crow's earlier work. AllMusic's review described The Globe Sessions as returning to the raw, live feel of her 1993 debut Tuesday Night Music Club, calling it her best album since that debut and commending its intimate, personal songs that are alternately angry, weary, and hopeful.[11] The song's lyrics, which depict a philandering ex-lover as an enduring "mistake," fueled media buzz and tabloid speculation that it alluded to Crow's brief romance with Eric Clapton, amplifying its publicity despite her refusal to confirm the inspiration.[43] This intrigue contributed to its cultural resonance upon release. Reflecting its critical acclaim, "My Favorite Mistake" earned a nomination for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance at the 1999 Grammy Awards.Retrospective Assessments
In the 2010s, retrospective rankings affirmed "My Favorite Mistake" as a cornerstone of Sheryl Crow's catalog, emphasizing its emotional depth and rock edge. Billboard's 2017 critic's picks placed the track at number two among her ten best songs, describing it as a standout from The Globe Sessions that showcases Crow’s knack for blending raw emotion with a catchy melody.[44] VH1's 2012 ranking of Crow at number 25 on its list of the 100 Greatest Women in Music highlighted her as an empowering voice in rock.[45] Entering the 2020s, critics reevaluated the track's enduring appeal amid evolving cultural conversations on gender and autonomy. The Guardian's 2023 ranking of Crow's 20 greatest songs crowned "My Favorite Mistake" at number one, praising its "bolshie rock riffs and organ tremolos" paired with a "resigned vocal tone" that navigates conflicting emotions of hope and resignation toward a flawed partner, marking it as her supreme accomplishment.[46] In a 2024 Grammy.com interview promoting her album Evolution, Crow reflected on the song's personal significance, calling it her "favorite child" for its raw depiction of vulnerability and growth.[47] Academic analyses have situated "My Favorite Mistake" within broader examinations of 1990s feminism in popular music, viewing it as emblematic of women singer-songwriters' populist push against traditional gender roles. In Women Singer-Songwriters in Rock: A Populist Rebellion in the 1990s (2010), Ronald D. Lankford Jr. explores Crow's work, including the track, as part of a wave that blended confessional lyrics with rock instrumentation to challenge patriarchal narratives in mainstream pop.[48] Similarly, The Words and Music of Sheryl Crow (2016) by Christopher Gable devotes sections to the song's production and thematic resonance, analyzing how its structure reinforces themes of female agency amid emotional complexity.[49] These studies highlight its role in Lilith Fair-era discourse, where Crow's music exemplified commodified yet subversive feminist expression.[50]Media and Visuals
Music Video
The music video for "My Favorite Mistake" was directed by Samuel Bayer and released in 1998 to promote the single.[51][52] Bayer, renowned for his grunge-era work including Nirvana's "Smells Like Teen Spirit," crafted a straightforward performance-oriented visual that aligned with the song's raw emotional tone. The video's content centers on Sheryl Crow performing the track in a confined, dimly lit space, with close-up shots emphasizing her expressions and guitar work, interspersed with band members in supporting roles.[51] This sparse setup, featuring Crow in black attire against a neutral backdrop, evokes a sense of intimacy and introspection, mirroring the lyrics' themes of regret and ambiguity without elaborate narrative elements.[8] It premiered on MTV shortly after the single's August 1998 release, receiving regular rotation that bolstered the track's visibility on the network.[2] The video has since accumulated over 28 million views on YouTube, reflecting enduring fan interest in Crow's 1990s output.[53]Live Performances
Sheryl Crow debuted "My Favorite Mistake" live on March 26, 1998, during the promotional tour for her album The Globe Sessions, with the song quickly becoming a staple in her concert sets throughout the late 1990s and 2000s, performed over 600 times in total.[54] Early renditions, such as a 1998 performance on MTV's Launch, showcased the track's raw energy with Crow's full band, establishing it as a high-energy closer that engaged audiences with its relatable lyrics on heartbreak.[55] Notable live performances include a 1999 rendition at Central Park, New York, captured on her live album Sheryl Crow and Friends: Live from Central Park, where the song's mid-tempo groove highlighted Crow's vocal dynamics amid a collaborative ensemble featuring guest musicians.[56] In 2023, Crow reunited with John Mayer for a duet at Eric Clapton's Crossroads Guitar Festival in Los Angeles, infusing the track with bluesy guitar solos that amplified its emotional depth during the September 24 set at Crypto.com Arena.[57] More recently, on October 1, 2025, Crow performed the song on NBC's TODAY show as part of the Pink Power concert series, tying the rendition to breast cancer awareness in reflection of her own health journey two decades prior.[58] Adaptations of the song have included acoustic interpretations, emphasizing Crow's guitar work and intimate delivery. During the COVID-19 pandemic, Crow incorporated simpler arrangements into her livestream series, adapting fan favorites to maintain connection amid canceled tours. The song's live appeal often manifests as an encore piece, fostering communal sing-alongs that evoke nostalgia, as seen in crowd participation during festival sets like Farm Aid 2022.[59]Production and Release Details
Credits and Personnel
- Producer: Sheryl Crow, Jeff Trott[6]
- Recording Engineer: Trina Shoemaker[6]
- Mixing Engineer: Tchad Blake[6]
- Mastering Engineer: Bob Ludwig at Gateway Mastering Studios, Portland, Maine[60]
- Assistant Engineers: S. Husky Höskulds, Ryan Baesch, Brant Scott[61]
Songwriting and Composition
"My Favorite Mistake" was written by Sheryl Crow and Jeff Trott.[8][62]Performance
The track features lead vocals, bass, Hammond B-3 organ, Wurlitzer electric piano, and percussion by Sheryl Crow; tremolo guitar by Jeff Trott; guitar by Wendy Melvoin; and drums by Gregg Williams.[62][63]Production
The song was produced by Sheryl Crow and Jeff Trott.[13][6]Recording and Engineering
Recording was handled by Trina Shoemaker.[6][63]Mixing
Mixing was performed by Tchad Blake.[6][13]Mastering
The track was mastered by Bob Ludwig at Gateway Mastering Studios in Portland, Maine.[60][64]Track Listings and Formats
The "My Favorite Mistake" single was released in multiple physical formats in 1998, primarily as a CD single across regions, with variations in B-sides and packaging. The US commercial CD single, issued by A&M Records, featured the album version of the title track alongside two non-album B-sides.[65]| Track | Title | Duration |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | My Favorite Mistake | 4:06 |
| 2 | Subway Ride | 4:05 |
| 3 | Crash & Burn | 6:37 |
| Track | Title | Duration |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | My Favorite Mistake | 4:06 |
| 2 | In Need | 5:35 |
| 3 | Carolina | 3:55 |
