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Pompoir (/pɒmˈpwɑːr/ POM-PWAR)[1], also known as the Singapore grip[2][3], is an ancient sexual technique in which a woman uses her pelvic floor muscles, particularly the pubococcygeus muscle of the Levator ani, to rhythmically stimulate a man’s penis while both partners remain still. The practice emphasizes internal vaginal control to massage the penis with subtle, wave-like contractions, usually performed in a woman on top position.[4][5][6][7][8]
The term pompoir is the French transliteration of the Tamil city name "Pahmpur".[9] Originating over 3,000 years ago in India,[10][11] the practice was performed by Devadasis, female temple attendants skilled in dance and sexual techniques. It spread throughout Asia, particularly among elite escort communities, and was refined in regions like Thailand and Japan.[12]
Pompoir vs Kegels
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A similar exercise, known as "Kegel", was developed in the 1950s by gynecologist Arnold Kegel. In 1952, he created exercises specifically designed for women experiencing urinary incontinence.[13] While Pompoir targets the same muscle group, its primary focus is sexual mastery and pleasure.[14][15]
Pompoir involves more specific control than traditional Kegel contractions, incorporating three primary motions:[16]
- Pulling ▲ - Performed with the inner pull of the back vaginal wall, the same as a Kegel contraction.
- Pushing ▼ - Release of the front vaginal wall to create a downward pressure (unique to Pompoir).
- Squeezing )( - Uses the side vaginal walls to tighten around the penis (advanced Pompoir move).
Techniques
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The pompoir techniques are a combination of the advanced and basic moves:[17]
- Sucking - literally sucking the penis into the vagina after only the glans has been inserted.
- Strangulation - squeezing the base of the glans penis with one of the three vaginal muscle rings.
- Expelling - to force the shaft of the penis out of the vagina leaving only the glans inside.
- Milking - massaging the penis in a manner reminiscent of milking, always using the vaginal muscle rings.
- Twisting - squeezing and turning the penis with the above mentioned vaginal rings.
- Locking - contract the vaginal muscles in order to prevent and literally block the advancement of the penis into the vagina.
Benefits
[edit]- Increased sexual pleasure: Muscle control allows for more intense and varied orgasms, including vaginal, G-spot, cervical, and uterine orgasms (according to anecdotal reports).[18]
- Improved pelvic floor health: Can help combat urinary incontinence and facilitate childbirth by strengthening the pubococcygeus muscles.[18][19]
- Sexual empowerment: Gives the woman greater control during intercourse, reversing traditional power dynamics.[18]
Although pompoir offers many benefits, it should be practiced under the guidance of a pelvic floor specialist.[20] Overtraining or performing these exercises excessively can increase the risk of incontinence or uterine prolapse, in some women.[21]
Curiosities
[edit]There is a variant called Kabzah or "Kabza" (Hindi: कब्ज़ा, Urdu: قبضہ, Arabic قبضة), originating from South Asia, in which the woman also uses abdominal muscle contractions to stimulate the partner, who must remain completely passive. The term translates as "holder," and the sensation is likened to "milking." Women reportedly spend years training to master this technique, which is considered highly difficult and is associated with tantric practices to prolong and intensify intercourse.[22][23][24][25]
The title of The Singapore Grip, a novel by J. G. Farrell, as well as its 2020 television adaptation, refers to pompoir.[26] This technique is said to have been practiced by historical figures such as Cleopatra and Wallis Simpson.[27]
References
[edit]- ^ Schowalter, Garrick. "pom-pwar". A Guide to Pompoir for Womens Health (Online ed.). p. 8.
- ^ Ramachandran, Naman (8 September 2020). "ITV Drama 'Singapore Grip' Called 'Harmful Non-Representation' For Colonialism Portrayal (EXCLUSIVE)". Variety.com. Retrieved 24 September 2020.
- ^ "The title references a slang phrase for a sexual technique said to be used by local sex workers". Wearebeats.wordpress.com. 8 September 2020.
- ^ Suzie Heumann, Susan M. Campbell, The Everything Great Sex Book: From Sensuous to Sizzling, the Hottest Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Spicing Up Your Sex Life, Everything Books, 2004, ISBN 1-58062-739-0, p. 63
- ^ Bobby Dempsey, Tantric Sex, David & Charles, 2007, ISBN 0-7153-2835-2, pp. 229-230
- ^ Suzie Heumann. "Pompoir and the mare's trick: Beyond sex positions". Netplaces.com. Retrieved 24 December 2014.
- ^ John, A.Pearcy. "Sivananda Yoga - Beyond sex positions". Nostringsdating.net. Retrieved 15 January 2015.
- ^ "Asanas - Beyond sex positions". Tantra.com. Archived from the original on 27 September 2010. Retrieved 28 March 2010.
- ^ kittyonapedestal (2023-04-25). "History of Pompoir". kittyonapedestal.
- ^ Blackledge, Catherine (2004). The Story of V: A Natural History of Female Sexuality. Rutgers University Press. p. 231. ISBN 978-0813534558.
- ^ kittyonapedestal (2023-04-25). "History of Pompoir". kittyonapedestal. Retrieved 2025-05-25.
- ^ Cacciari, Licia P.; Pássaro, Anice C.; Amorim, Amanda C.; Sacco, Isabel C.N. (August 2017). "High spatial resolution pressure distribution of the vaginal canal in Pompoir practitioners: A biomechanical approach for assessing the pelvic floor". Clinical Biomechanics. 47: 53–60. doi:10.1016/j.clinbiomech.2017.05.015. PMID 28600995. Retrieved 10 November 2024.
- ^ Yi-Chen Huang; Ke-Vin Chang (2022). "Kegel Exercises". National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI). PMID 32310358. Retrieved 11 August 2020.
- ^ Suzie Heumann, Susan M. Campbell, The Everything Great Sex Book: From Sensuous to Sizzling, the Hottest Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Spicing Up Your Sex Life, Everything Books, 2004, ISBN 1-58062-739-0, p. 63
- ^ Bobby Dempsey, Tantric Sex, David & Charles, 2007, ISBN 0-7153-2835-2, pp. 229-230
- ^ "How to Do Pompoir Exercises".
- ^ Dempsey, Bobby (2007). Tantric Sex. David & Charles. pp. 229–230.
- ^ a b c A Guide To Pompoir For Womens Health.
- ^ "Working your pelvic floor · The pelvic floor · Pelvic Floor First". Pelvic Floor First. Retrieved 2025-05-25.
- ^ "How To Start Training Pompoir & Become A Vaginal Olympic Gymnast". MysteryVibe. Retrieved 2025-05-25.
- ^ "Weak Pelvic Floor: Exercises To Avoid | Kegel8". Kegel8 UK. Retrieved 2025-05-25.
- ^ Kick, Russ, ed. (2006) Everything You Know about Sex Is Wrong: the Disinformation guide to the extremes of human sexuality (and everything in between). New York: The Disinformation Company ISBN 1-932857-17-6; p. 125.
- ^ Love, Brenda (1992) The Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices. Fort Lee, NJ: Barricade Books ISBN 1-56980-011-1; p. 146.
- ^ Quentin, Rod (2001) The Art of Sex. (Body Works.) Sheffield: Quentin Publications ISBN 1-872709-10-9; p. 56.
- ^ Kuriansky, Judith “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Tantric Sex”; p. 208.
- ^ "What is the 'Singapore Grip'? The meaning behind the name of ITV's new period drama". Radio Times. Retrieved 24 September 2020.
- ^ "Was Wallis Simpson a Vaginal Gymnast?".
Further reading
[edit]- Kadosh, Carlos, Celine Kirei (2015) Pompoir - The Path of Pleasure - Health, Sexuality and Quality of Life. Eden Publishing ISBN 978-85-98691-19-0
- Kadosh, Carlos, (2015) Male Sexual Potency - Pompoir - The Kama Sutra`s Gymnastic. Eden Publishing ISBN 978-85-98691-20-6
Pompoir
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Ancient Roots in Tantric Practices
Pompoir techniques are traditionally associated with ancient Indian Tantric practices, where advanced control of the vaginal muscles was employed to enhance sexual union as a path to spiritual awakening. Accounts attribute the development of these methods to the Devadasi community—temple-serving women skilled in dance, music, and sacred sexuality—who purportedly mastered intricate manipulations of the yoni (vagina) to stimulate partners during ritualistic intercourse, fostering prolonged ecstasy and energy circulation akin to kundalini arousal.[4][5] Such practices aligned with Tantra's emphasis on maithuna, the controlled sexual congress that integrates physical pleasure with meditative discipline to transcend dualities of body and spirit.[4] These roots are commonly dated to over 3,000 years ago in Indian traditions predating formalized Tantra, though scholarly timelines place the emergence of Tantric texts and philosophies around the 5th to 9th centuries CE, drawing from earlier Shaiva and Shakta esoteric currents.[6][7][8] Primary ancient sources like the Kama Sutra (circa 3rd century CE) describe general courtesan arts for pleasuring men but lack explicit references to pompoir's sequenced contractions, pulls, or twists, suggesting the technique's detailed form may represent oral or performative traditions preserved among elite practitioners rather than scripted liturgy.[9] In Tantric contexts, vaginal muscle mastery paralleled yogic bandhas (locks) such as mula bandha, which engage the pelvic floor to regulate prana (vital energy) and delay ejaculation, enabling partners to sustain non-ejaculatory states for hours—key to achieving samadhi-like union.[4] Devadasis, historically active from the medieval period onward, integrated these skills into devadasi nritya (sacred dance) and private rites, where muscle isolation symbolized feminine Shakti's dominion over masculine Shiva, though colonial-era accounts often sensationalized rather than documented the mechanics empirically.[10] Modern reconstructions rely on these anecdotal lineages, as archaeological or textual evidence remains elusive, highlighting potential embellishment in popular narratives over verifiable antiquity.[11]Global Spread and Regional Variations
Pompoir originated in ancient India over 3,000 years ago as a Tantric sexual practice emphasizing pelvic floor control for enhanced intimacy, primarily among temple dancers known as Devadasis who underwent rigorous training in vaginal muscle techniques.[4] The technique subsequently spread across Asia, particularly through elite courtesan communities in regions such as Thailand and Japan, where it was refined for greater precision in muscle coordination and pressure application along the vaginal canal.[1] In these areas, practices akin to pompoir appear in historical texts and traditions, including Taoist sexual arts in China that involved similar perineal muscle manipulations for vitality retention, though direct equivalence remains debated due to varying emphases on contraction versus expulsion.[5] Regional nomenclature reflects cultural adoption: in Southeast Asia, it is commonly termed the "Singapore grip" or "Singapore kiss," highlighting its association with skilled sex workers in port cities, while the French designation "pompoir" emerged in European colonial encounters with Asian practices during the 19th century.[12] Variations in execution include Thailand's emphasis on rhythmic "milking" motions for partner stimulation and Japan's focus on isolated contractions of deeper vaginal layers, as documented in anecdotal accounts from sexology literature, though empirical studies on these differences are limited.[4] The practice's global dissemination accelerated in the 20th century via Western sexology texts and migration of Asian entertainers, transitioning from esoteric courtesan arts to broader wellness contexts, with modern iterations appearing in pelvic health programs by the 2010s.[13] In contemporary Europe and North America, pompoir is often conflated with Kegel exercises but distinguished by its dynamic, partner-independent maneuvers, gaining visibility through online coaching and biomechanical research validating pressure differentials in practitioners from diverse backgrounds.[1] Despite this expansion, adoption remains niche, with highest prevalence in Asia-Pacific regions per self-reported surveys in sexual health forums, underscoring cultural stigmas limiting widespread empirical documentation.[5]Definition and Physiological Mechanics
Core Technique Description
Pompoir constitutes a specialized sexual practice wherein females employ voluntary contractions of the pelvic floor musculature to exert dynamic control over the penis during vaginal penetration, independent of gross bodily motion. This technique facilitates internal manipulations including gripping, longitudinal stroking, torsional movements, and elevatory pulls along the vaginal axis.[5] Such control demands segmental isolation within the vaginal canal, enabling practitioners to apply differential pressures at discrete anatomical levels rather than uniform constriction.[14] Biomechanical evaluations of Pompoir practitioners reveal enhanced pelvic floor coordination, with intra-vaginal pressure distributions exhibiting higher peak forces—up to 150% greater than in non-practitioners—and finer spatial resolution, as measured via high-density probe arrays during voluntary maneuvers.[3] These profiles demonstrate asymmetric and propagating pressure waves, underpinning the technique's capacity for targeted stimulation, such as sequential "milking" contractions that traverse the canal from introitus to fornix.[1] Fundamental maneuvers encompass:- Contraction (Squeeze): Symmetric or asymmetric closure of the pubococcygeus and associated levator ani fibers to encircle and compress the penile shaft, adjustable in intensity and duration for rhythmic pulsing.[5]
- Elevation (Pull/Lift): Cranial displacement of the pelvic diaphragm to retract or advance the penis axially, simulating suction or propulsion without uterine descent.[9]
- Angulation (Tilt/Rotate): Differential activation across vaginal walls to induce lateral deflection or rotational shear, altering frictional contact points on the glans and corona.[5]
Anatomical Foundations
The pelvic floor musculature forms the foundational anatomical structure for pompoir, comprising a network of skeletal muscles that support the pelvic organs and span the pelvic outlet. Key components include the levator ani complex—encompassing the pubococcygeus, iliococcygeus, and puborectalis muscles—and the coccygeus muscle, which collectively create a dynamic sling-like barrier between the pelvic cavity and perineum.[15] The pubococcygeus muscle, in particular, encircles the urethra, vagina, and anorectum, enabling targeted contractions that narrow the vaginal canal and generate intravaginal pressure.[16] These muscles are innervated primarily by the pudendal nerve (S2-S4) and direct branches from sacral spinal nerves, allowing voluntary recruitment for both support and fine motor control.[17] In pompoir, advanced mastery involves isolating and coordinating subsets of these fibers to produce spatially varied pressures along the vaginal walls, distinct from generalized contractions seen in basic pelvic floor exercises. Biomechanical assessments reveal that trained practitioners achieve higher-resolution pressure gradients throughout the vaginal canal, reflecting enhanced neuromuscular coordination absent in untrained individuals.[3] This capability stems from the pubococcygeus's layered fiber orientation, which permits differential activation: proximal fibers for distal gripping and distal fibers for proximal manipulation, facilitating techniques like rotational or peristaltic movements.[18] Such control requires hypertrophy and neural adaptation of fast-twitch and slow-twitch fibers within the pelvic floor, optimizing both endurance and precision.[15]Relation to Pelvic Floor Exercises
Similarities with Kegels
Pompoir and Kegel exercises both engage the pelvic floor muscles, particularly the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle group, to develop strength and voluntary control over these structures.[5] Kegel exercises, consisting of repeated isometric contractions, serve as a foundational prerequisite for pompoir, enabling practitioners to progress from basic squeezing to more intricate manipulations.[5] This overlap in muscle targeting supports shared outcomes, such as enhanced muscle tone that may aid in urinary incontinence prevention and improved pelvic support.[5] Furthermore, basic Kegel exercises enable voluntary pelvic floor contractions during penile-vaginal penetration, allowing the receiving partner to increase grip, friction, and tightness for enhanced stimulation of the penetrating partner. This application represents a foundational form of the muscle control central to pompoir.[5] A biomechanical analysis of 40 healthy women revealed that pompoir practitioners exhibited superior coordination in pelvic floor contractions compared to non-practitioners, including longer sustained pressure (90% maximum for 40% longer duration, P=0.04) and more symmetric pressure distribution across the vaginal canal during waveform tasks.[19] These capabilities align with Kegel-induced improvements in contraction endurance and control, though pompoir emphasizes dynamic patterns like sequential waves, which extend basic isometric holds.[19] Both methods thus foster greater proprioceptive awareness and endurance in the pelvic floor, potentially amplifying sexual responsiveness through heightened muscle responsiveness.[5] In practice, the initial phases of pompoir training mirror Kegel protocols by isolating and fortifying PC contractions, often starting with short holds (e.g., 5-10 seconds) to build baseline endurance before incorporating rhythmic variations.[5] This progression underscores their commonality in promoting overall pelvic health, with pompoir practitioners demonstrating slower contraction and relaxation rates (P=0.04 and P=0.01, respectively) that reflect refined control derived from sustained foundational exercises.[19]Distinct Advanced Controls
Pompoir surpasses basic Kegel exercises by enabling precise, multi-segmental control over pelvic floor muscles, allowing for dynamic manipulations along the vaginal canal's length and in multiple planes. While Kegels focus on a singular, vertical contraction to elevate the pelvic floor, pompoir practitioners demonstrate enhanced coordination, sustaining peak pressures 40% longer during contractions and achieving more symmetric distributions across caudal, cranial, and latero-lateral regions, as measured via high-resolution pressure mapping.[3] This reflects rhythmic activation of muscle "rings" that permit isolated or sequential engagements, rather than uniform lifts.[19] Key advanced controls include the milking technique, involving wave-like contractions that progress from the vaginal entrance to the cervix, simulating a pulling or expelling motion through graduated muscle holds of about 3 seconds per segment.[5] Twisting maneuvers rotate the vaginal walls via lateral isolations, creating torsional grip distinct from linear squeezes.[5] Horizontal squeezing compresses opposing walls to narrow the canal, emphasizing transverse plane control over Kegel's sagittal emphasis.[5] Pulling draws objects deeper through sustained segmental tension, while tilting adjusts canal angulation for targeted stimulation.[5] These controls rely on training to differentiate contraction from relaxation phases, fostering waveform patterns with modulated peak timings and rates, which non-practitioners exhibit less effectively.[3] Empirical data from biomechanical assessments confirm pompoir's functional superiority in pressure symmetry and endurance, though technique descriptions derive primarily from practitioner guides rather than controlled trials.[19][5]Training Methods and Techniques
Foundational Exercises
Foundational exercises for pompoir emphasize building pelvic floor strength and awareness through targeted contractions, serving as prerequisites for advanced manipulations. These typically begin with isolating the relevant muscles, often via attempts to halt urine flow during voiding—though this identification method should be used sparingly to prevent urinary tract infections.[20] Daily practice of 5 to 20 minutes, five times per week, with periodic rest, is recommended to foster endurance without overtraining.[5] The short contraction exercise involves lifting the pelvic floor as if retaining urine, holding for 1 to 2 seconds, then fully releasing. Practitioners suggest performing 50 repetitions per session to enhance rapid muscle response.[5] Similarly, the long contraction requires sustaining the lift for 5 to 10 seconds, followed by an equal relaxation period, repeated 10 times to develop holding capacity.[5] A key introductory technique is the milking exercise, which introduces wave-like control by sequentially contracting the vaginal canal from entrance to cervix. To perform it: inhale deeply, then exhale while visualizing and contracting muscle layers upward as if guiding an object inward across 10 imagined levels; hold the peak contraction for 3 seconds; inhale and release gradually downward, focusing on each level's relaxation.[21] This motion, practiced without a partner initially, promotes segmental awareness essential for pompoir's rhythmic gripping.[5] Post-exercise stretches, such as deep squats, aid recovery and flexibility.[5] Tools like Kegel balls or lubricants may assist beginners in sensing internal feedback during these routines.[5]Progressive Maneuvers and Variations
Practitioners advancing beyond foundational exercises incorporate progressive maneuvers that demand precise coordination of the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle and surrounding pelvic floor structures, enabling dynamic control during penetration. These include sequential "milking" actions, where contractions propagate wave-like from the vaginal base toward the introitus, simulating peristaltic motion to stimulate the penis along its length; this requires isolating segments of the vaginal canal for timed releases, typically trained over 4-6 weeks of daily practice starting at 10-15 repetitions per session.[5][22] Twisting variations involve rotational torque applied via asymmetric contractions of levator ani muscles, allowing lateral manipulation of the inserted object, which advanced users report achieving after mastering sustained holds of 10-20 seconds.[23] Pulsing techniques escalate to rapid, rhythmic contractions at 2-4 Hz frequencies, building endurance through progressive overload—beginning with 5-second bursts and advancing to 30-second sequences—while monitoring for fatigue to prevent strain.[24] Variations extend to combined maneuvers, such as integrating milking with pulsing for enhanced friction or locking grips that alternate high-pressure holds (up to 50-100 mmHg, as measured in skilled practitioners) with targeted releases, adaptable to partner movement in positions like woman-on-top.[1] These progressions emphasize adaptability, with routines scaling intensity via tools like weighted vaginal cones or biofeedback devices to quantify force output, though empirical validation remains limited to pressure profilometry studies showing Pompoir experts generate more uniform and controllable vaginal closure forces compared to non-practitioners (mean peak pressures 20-30% higher in distal segments).30127-4/pdf) Lock-and-twist hybrids, for instance, fuse sustained grips with rotational shifts, reported in training programs as achievable after 3-6 months of consistent 20-minute sessions, prioritizing symmetry to avoid compensatory overuse of adjacent muscles.[25] Despite instructional sources detailing over 20 such variations (e.g., fluttering pulses or directional pulls), their efficacy relies heavily on self-reported mastery, with biomechanical assessments confirming only improved coordination rather than universal superhuman control.[26] Training progressions often incorporate feedback loops, such as partner sensory input or intravaginal sensors, to refine variations like adaptive speed modulation—slow for teasing grips, fast for intense stimulation—ensuring maneuvers align with anatomical limits to mitigate risks like muscle hypertrophy imbalance.[27]Claimed Benefits
Sexual Pleasure Enhancements
Pompoir techniques enable women to exert precise, voluntary control over vaginal musculature, facilitating rhythmic contractions and manipulations that intensify stimulation during penetrative intercourse. This advanced pelvic floor mastery allows for variations in pressure and movement along the vaginal canal, purportedly enhancing friction on the penile shaft and glans, which may prolong male arousal and contribute to mutual orgasmic intensity. Biomechanical assessments of Pompoir practitioners reveal distinct, high-resolution pressure distributions differing from non-practitioners, supporting the capacity for dynamic sensory feedback that underpins these enhancements.[1][26] For women, Pompoir builds on pelvic floor muscle training (PFMT) principles, with systematic reviews indicating PFMT improves key domains of sexual function, including arousal, lubrication, orgasm capability, and overall satisfaction as measured by the Female Sexual Function Index (FSFI). A 2024 meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials reported significant FSFI score elevations post-PFMT, particularly in orgasm and satisfaction subscales, attributing gains to strengthened pubococcygeus muscles that amplify clitoral and vaginal sensory responses.[28]00006-1/fulltext)[29] Pompoir's finer motor control may further potentiate these effects by enabling isolated contractions that heighten proprioceptive awareness and contractile force during coitus. While direct empirical data on Pompoir-specific pleasure outcomes remains sparse, PFMT literature consistently links enhanced muscle tone to reduced dyspareunia and elevated intercourse enjoyment for both partners, with cross-sectional studies associating stronger pelvic floors in nulliparous women to superior FSFI performance. Practitioners anecdotally describe Pompoir as fostering "super-orgasms" through sustained, wave-like vaginal undulations, though such reports await rigorous validation beyond pressure-mapping validations. These enhancements are most pronounced in trained individuals, underscoring Pompoir's role as an extension of foundational PFMT for optimized sexual reciprocity.[30][31] In addition to pompoir's advanced control, several basic sexual techniques can enhance penile sensation by increasing friction, contact, or tightness during penetrative intercourse. These include:- Positions that close the legs or limit the vaginal opening, such as spooning (side-by-side), missionary with legs together or elevated on partner's shoulders, doggy style with partner's legs closed or together, or modified cowgirl where the partner leans forward or keeps legs together.
- Voluntary pelvic floor contractions (similar to Kegel exercises) during penetration to provide squeezing and increased grip.
- Slow, shallow thrusts combined with extended foreplay to heighten arousal, which naturally leads to increased vaginal muscle tone.
- Controlled depth and angle of penetration to maximize envelopment and stimulation while avoiding discomfort.
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